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Do you prefer my or husband's favourite name ?

328 replies

Unanaganaive · 10/12/2020 16:28

DH asked me to post this thread lol , because we cannot decide and he is so sure his favs are just of better taste. We don't know the sex yet. He likes the names I like , and I like his. But "my" names just seem more beautiful. PLEASE DECIDE FOR US :

Levi or Daniel
Harper or Mary

Thank youuuu

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Gotothewinchester · 10/12/2020 20:34

Just seen your other update sorry OP, Hannah is good but don't like any others so Levi or Hannah would be my choices!

Porridgeoat · 10/12/2020 20:36

Hannah Matthew and Tristan. All great names

lottiegarbanzo · 10/12/2020 20:36

I'd also think ahead (if relevant), so consider combinations:

Zoe and Levi - cool, nice.
Zoe and Daniel - lovely, though Zoe and Danny is very 'ee' heavy, Zoe and Dan is good.
Zoe and Matthew - ok

Hannah and Matthew - these go together.
Hannah and Daniel - nice too, 'Han and Dan'.

Zoe and Mary - great, cool, lovely.

Hannah and Leah go together in a very biblical way. Add a Rachel.

Mary and Austin go, very old-fashioned, in a good way.

Winifredgoose · 10/12/2020 20:37

The problem is that they are such totally different pairs of names. I would try and think of some in the middle of them. A compromise e.g Milo for a boy is sounds similar to Levi but is softer, or Leo.

yelyah22 · 10/12/2020 20:51

Austin and Hannah or Leah from the new list.

Manny is terrible (unless there's a cultural thing I don't know about?). Cadence sounds like a deep south America fundamentalist name.

Bruce2 · 10/12/2020 20:52

Mary & Daniel every time.

Arnoldthecat · 10/12/2020 20:56

daniel and mary,,im all for traditional names .

Firebird83 · 10/12/2020 21:02

Matthew and Hannah are nice from your other list.

KindnessCrusader · 10/12/2020 21:03

Daniel and Harper. But I do love Mary.

Oliversmumsarmy · 10/12/2020 21:03

Levi and Harper.

Really hate Daniel and Mary.

Don’t like any of the other names

TicTacTwo · 10/12/2020 21:04

Tristan -second
Matthew -best by a mile
Austin - third
Manny -fourth by a mile

Zoe-close second
Hannah -best
Leah-close third
Cadence- fourth by a mile

CoffeeRunner · 10/12/2020 21:07

I like Daniel, Levi, Mary, Zoe & Leah from both of your lists.

Please not Harper, Tristan or Cadence.

yikesanotherbooboo · 10/12/2020 21:07

Daniel and Mary; I adore Mary !
I also like Matthew and Zoe from your back up list.

TheCraicDealer · 10/12/2020 21:08

Levi like a PP I just think "Bellfield", and i can't shake that connotation, so this is a hard "no" for me
Daniel fine.
Tristan fine
Matthew fine. Bit beige but inoffensive.
Austin I like it! You can call him Aussie as a nn which is cute and unusual.
Manny are you having a laugh? No. Just no.

Zoe fine, but feels a bit dated.
Hannah fine.
Leah like it
Cadence nooooo
Mary fine but Mairi, Marianne or similar could be good alternatives if you want something a bit different.
Harper no, I know you love it, but it will date so badly.

I feel like your DP likes names he would have heard in primary school? I went to school with a lot of matthews, Daniels, Zoes and Hannahs so I feel like that's where he's got them from!

Fiftysix · 10/12/2020 21:11

Daniel and mary here

SuperheroBirds · 10/12/2020 21:19

Daniel and Mary from the original list.

From the new ones. Matthew and Zoe or Hannah

1dayatatime · 10/12/2020 21:19

Daniel and Mary

Fauvist · 10/12/2020 21:21

Daniel, Mary, Zoe, Hannah Leah and Matthew are OK. I quite like Daniel and Leah. Mary, Zoe, Hannah and Matthew are fine but dull.

Cadence, Austin, Manny, Levi and Tristan are all varying degrees of awful from 'not a great name' right down to 'WHY would you name an actual person that'.

Fauvist · 10/12/2020 21:22

Oh, I forgot Harper. Harper definitely in the awful list.

Nutellacoconut · 10/12/2020 21:25

You've liked Levi since you were a child - then go for it! There will always be other people who don't like it/hate it/love it but at least you could tell your son you know what you called him even when you were little. I think that's beautiful!!

Orphlids · 10/12/2020 21:26

Daniel and Mary. I’m not keen on Mary, as, like a PP said, it is rather frumpy. But I cannot escape the idea that the parents of every little Harper were inspired by the Beckhams, so I’d pick frumpy over that. I do actually prefer the names Harper to Mary, as I do think it sounds pretty.

Adventing · 10/12/2020 21:28

I like Daniel and Levi but not so keen on Harper or Mary, I know that's not what you asked 😆 If I had to choose I'd say Daniel and Mary

GlitterBiscuits · 10/12/2020 21:34

Daniel and Mary.
Levi is ok.
Harper is vile

Annebronte · 10/12/2020 21:35

Daniel and Mary. Harper is dreadful. Levi is ok.

Redwinestillfine · 10/12/2020 21:38

Daniel and Harper

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