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Alternative to Matilda

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summersun7 · 18/04/2020 12:20

Changed username to avoid outing myself....
A close friend used the name Matilda. I loved and adored this name. We don't leave nearby so children aren't going to go to school together, however they will be friends growing up. I am also close to their family, so I feel morally I cannot use. I'm quite sad as I loved the name.

So I've been considering Tilly/Tillie. But my name begins with a T and ends in I, so I'm worried it will be too rhymey. Tilly dates back to the early 1900's as a given name.

Any other alternatives you think I may like?
I literally look at every name and it doesn't feel the same as Matilda.

Thanks.

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sleepismysuperpower1 · 18/04/2020 12:23

Tilda, or Madeline (nn Maddie)? Congratulations!

ZsaZsaMc · 18/04/2020 12:26

Cassandra nn Cassie?

bridgetreilly · 18/04/2020 12:30

Tabitha
Talitha
Maud
Kitty
Letitia nn Letty
Natalie nn Tally
Ottoline nn Ottie or Tolly
Molly
Betsy

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 18/04/2020 12:31

Margaret (Maggie)
Harriet (Hattie)
Cecilia (Cece)
Tabitha (Tab)

ChickenStew · 18/04/2020 12:31

Josephine
Elizabeth

userabcname · 18/04/2020 12:34

I see it's been suggested already but Tabitha came straight to mind.

PancakePattie · 18/04/2020 12:40

Martha

WendyDarling888 · 18/04/2020 12:45

OP, I appreciate how you feel but I really encourage you to just use the name Matilda. Friends come and go. It might not seem like this now because you have a close relationship with your friend, but you don't know how long the relationship will last for. Whereas, your daughter will have her name forever. You say that you haven't found a name that you love as much as Matilda...so use it. Matilda is a popular name and your friend's DD will meet countless other Matildas.

buckleten · 18/04/2020 12:45

I was going to say Tabitha too! Also Cassandra, Amelie, Saskia, Alexandra, Jemima, Talia, Natalie, Georgie/Georgia

WittyUser · 18/04/2020 12:46

Tallulah

meowcatmeow · 18/04/2020 12:47

Ottillie...Tilly

MacavityTheDentistsCat · 18/04/2020 12:47

Marlena/Marlene

MacavityTheDentistsCat · 18/04/2020 12:49

Maxima

TheEndIsBillNighy · 18/04/2020 12:49

As with others, my immediate thought was Tabitha.

Elodie & Lottie also come to mind.

moobar · 18/04/2020 12:50

I agree with @WendyDarling888

If you really love it, use it.

You don't want to spend the next however long regretting it then perhaps losing touch anyway?

Whatsyourflava · 18/04/2020 12:51

I strongly encourage you to stick with Matilda

If not

Tilda
Willa
Margaret nn Maggie
Clementine nn Clemmie
Ottilie nn Ottie
Coralie or Cora
Martha
Marnie
Margot

HeartZone · 18/04/2020 12:52

Matilda

summersun7 · 18/04/2020 12:55

Thank you all.
I do see where your coming from with using it anyway.
I would still like to use as a middle name.
I really liking Martha and Jemima from your suggestions so far. Thank you. Xx

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Nonnymum · 18/04/2020 12:59

Talia, Tilda, Michaela, Martha, Mabel,

pumpkintree · 18/04/2020 13:10

Malila. Pronounced ma-lay-la.

Notmyrealname855 · 18/04/2020 13:17

Merida?

peachypetite · 18/04/2020 13:19

Camilla - Millie.

NoSauce · 18/04/2020 13:22

Penelope
Cassia
Henrietta
Lucinda.

shirleyschmidt · 18/04/2020 13:30

In your shoes I'd defo use the name you love.

If not, got to be Martha. Very similar somehow (and even nicer!)

summersun7 · 18/04/2020 13:49

@shirleyschmidt
Which do you think sounds the best?
N O A H and Matilda or
N O A H and Martha

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