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Rufus, Hector or Benedict

53 replies

GeorgieWish · 21/10/2018 12:01

My son will be born in February and my surname begins with an R. I like Rufus, Hector and Benedict for different reasons. What do you think?

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Aprilislonggone · 21/10/2018 12:05

Benedict.
By a mile.

AtticaRose · 21/10/2018 12:47

Benedict

himym · 21/10/2018 12:52

Hector. Rufus is okay too.
Benedict is awful IMO.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 21/10/2018 12:52

Rufus

BertramKibbler · 21/10/2018 12:55

At least Benedict can be shortened to Ben

DramaAlpaca · 21/10/2018 12:55

Benedict by a long way.

EvieV28 · 21/10/2018 12:57

Benedict

hoping2018 · 21/10/2018 16:22

I love alliteration so I vote rufus!

Then hector

Not a fan of benedict - seems very try hard to me

Escolar · 21/10/2018 16:23

Rufus

Peachbubble · 21/10/2018 16:23

Rufus or Hector. Not keen on Benedict.

PippilottaLongstocking · 21/10/2018 16:25

Rufus is my favourite, Hector is nice too, the only Benedict I’ve known was a terrible person so I just can’t like the name.

MollyHuaCha · 21/10/2018 16:30

Benedict

IzzyGrey · 21/10/2018 16:52

Rufus is amazing! Hector is cool but I think it has a negative meaning (I remember the meaning put me off when I considered the name but can't remember why). Benedict is alright but I don't love it.

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 21/10/2018 16:53

Benedict.

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GeorgieWish · 21/10/2018 17:20

I thought it did too but I looked it up Hector was actually was the best fighter in Troy but he was fair and noble and a good son, husband and father! I live in Greece at the moment so I like that connection

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Fifthtimelucky · 21/10/2018 17:54

Rufus only if he has red hair.

Rebecca36 · 21/10/2018 17:58

I like all of them. Benedict is my favourite.

Elmo303 · 21/10/2018 19:17

Hector. So cool

muchalover · 21/10/2018 19:19

Hector. My daughter had Hector on her list for her baby. Love it.

TatianaLarina · 21/10/2018 19:20

Hector hands down.

Benedict is a bit pompous and Ben is really boring.

stellarfox · 21/10/2018 22:25

Love Rufus

Sungura · 22/10/2018 06:02

Hector.

outreach29 · 22/10/2018 06:04

Hector

By a country mile!

ButterflyOfFreedom · 22/10/2018 06:26

Benedict

AJPTaylor · 22/10/2018 06:29

Benedict.
Rufus and Hector great names for dogs.

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