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Why am I so scared of the name?!

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Muse84 · 25/10/2017 20:49

Maybe scared isn't the right word. So our baby boy is due in a week (first baby). We have a Scandi name (husband is Swedish) and I like it! It's strong and unusual. And it's the only one I got interested/excited about when searching through the same 10 baby boys names. But I care SO much about what others think, that I get nervous at the idea of announcing the name. Is this ridiculous? Or normal? Is it a warning I should take note of? I wish I could be less of a conformist Confused Look, it's not saddling baby with a freaky name, it'll be fine be on his CV and our families love the name. I just have a morbid fear of other people scoffing/being derisive about the name. Then again, my friend told me people had an opinion (sometimes negative) even on the most common/sensible of names with her boy! I've even considered asking UK adults with this name (Facebook) how they felt/feel about it. Which I know is mental. Aaaaaargh!

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ZaphodBeeblerox · 26/10/2017 08:03

Oh love the name! V hipster as many others have noted, good luck to you OP... wishing you a safe delivery!

user1499786242 · 26/10/2017 08:08

Love that name!

ZuzuMylittleGingersnap · 26/10/2017 08:13

Because my friend's son is heavily into sci-fi adventure comics, I happen to know of "Magnus, Robot fighter", a martial arts hero who battles any rogue robots used for evil purposes (and who can break steel with his bare hands)!!

Magnus as a name is regarded, therefore, as extremely cool by many kids.

ZuzuMylittleGingersnap · 26/10/2017 08:24

^ Oh, and wish you the very best of luck for his safe (and hopefully swift) arrival next week, OP. Flowers

(And if you ever feel like sharing a newborn pic with us to aah over...).
Wink

tiptum · 26/10/2017 08:25

I've got a 9yo Magnus. I still feel a bit embarrassed when people say 'oh, Marcus, that's nice' and I correct them.

It's a marmite name for sure. Someone told me it was a bit boasty - which was odd as their son was called Rex.

Downsides - it has quite a hard sound
Children can't say it - always comes out as Mag er nus. He dislikes being called Maggie but his friends do it anyway. Gnu hasn't caught on despite my best efforts!

BernardBlacksHangover · 26/10/2017 09:59

Magnus is a great name! I thought you were going to say something far more unusual which might cause spelling problems or something. Aside from the Marcus confusion^^, Magnus is a well known name in the uk as well. Magnus Magnusson is well known.

GinasGirl · 26/10/2017 10:01

I love Magnus, my Swedish best friend has a brother by the name and i think it's great!

NinonDeLenclos · 26/10/2017 10:07

Great name.

But I think you have to figure out why you're so unselfconfident & dependent on other people's opinions - that's a very stressful place to be.

SilverySurfer · 26/10/2017 15:41

Magnus is a fabulous name!

PandorasXbox · 28/10/2017 16:12

Magnus is gorgeous OP!
Fret not Grin

Muse84 · 29/10/2017 13:16

Thanks all! I'm feeling pretty good about things. Now he just has to make his grand entrance!!

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icantgetnosleep5 · 30/10/2017 20:55

I looooooove Magnus. Superb , strong, manly name , cute on a wee one , but dreamy/ solid for a man - good choice ! :)

BhajiAllTheWay · 02/11/2017 21:54

it's great! Knew a Magnus at uni...tall, blonde, nice chap. Fab name!

Branleuse · 02/11/2017 22:01

I really like it

Muse84 · 06/11/2017 20:05

He's here and he's absolutely perfect! Our little Viking. He will be bilingual so he can be a "genuine" Magnus Wink (not hipster Magnus! We're London based and definitely not keen to have a hipster baby!) Smile

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AnyaMoondial · 07/11/2017 08:24

Oh congratulations!!! Enjoy this wonderful time together! Magnus is a fantastic name.

Hastalapasta · 07/11/2017 14:12

Congratulations! Wonderful to hear. Enjoy your baby Magnus Grin

glitterbiscuits · 07/11/2017 14:43

Congrats and it’s a great name!

MushroomSoup · 07/11/2017 18:43

Hurray! Welcome to the world, Magnus!

CormoranStrike · 07/11/2017 20:40

I absolutely adore the name Magnus - magnificent, go for it.

Muse84 · 07/11/2017 20:42

Thank you! I'm in an oxytocin-filled world of contentment at the moment Grin

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ZuzuMyLittleGingersnap · 08/11/2017 08:08

Ooh, only just saw your update, OP!

Many, many congratulations...bet he's gorgeous. Flowers

Welcome to the world, little Magnus :-)

PandorasXbox · 08/11/2017 11:37

Ah congratulations OP. Smile

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