have just blogged about it all, rather reluctantly, dh thinks i should just move on and forget about it, but if i am going to sell on etsy, i didn't really feel i had a choice, i have to make it clear as to where i stand.
i haven't copyrighted my work, other than i have a creative commons license on the blog (its free to do btw and advised by u-handblog, she is ace for business based advice) but as a coats kit, yes, the pattern will be copyrighted.
i have convo'd her (as per etsy's advice), and her reply is basically a long drawn out description as to how long she has been making her owls , which may well be, i can't disprove that either way, but the point is, in design, there is close, and there is so close there is no doubt it can be nothing but a copy, and her's are just too close. it's everything, the way the base is sewn, the eyes, the top of the head, the wings, i'm willing to be proved otherwise, but i don't believe her i'm afraid.