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To think Auriol Grey being jailed is not appropriate.

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Finnyfanjango · 03/03/2023 11:47

I’m interested to hear the thoughts and reactions of others as to me given her cognitive issues and the fact she is partially blind, it just seems like such a sad accident, I can’t see why she was jailed.
I think what she did was awful, but it surely just highlights the lack of appropriate social care she clearly needed?

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Ponkle · 03/03/2023 20:42

I live close to where this happened. The ring road is v busy, 2 narrow lanes. Nearly everyone cycles on the pavement where this happened as it's too dangerous to be on the road. And those cyclists who do cycle in the road get loads of abuse as it causes cars to crawl along behind them, no opportunity to safely overtake. The pavement is generally fairly quiet and not particularly narrow.

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 20:46

Ponkle · 03/03/2023 20:42

I live close to where this happened. The ring road is v busy, 2 narrow lanes. Nearly everyone cycles on the pavement where this happened as it's too dangerous to be on the road. And those cyclists who do cycle in the road get loads of abuse as it causes cars to crawl along behind them, no opportunity to safely overtake. The pavement is generally fairly quiet and not particularly narrow.

This was October 2020. Much lighter traffic and cyclists and joggers were getting shouted at all over the place for getting closer than 2m and breathing too much etc.

Livingtothefull · 03/03/2023 20:46

OneTC · 03/03/2023 19:35

People defending a fucking convicted killer because the other person is a cyclist

Yes that covers it.

Livingtothefull · 03/03/2023 20:51

BadNomad · 03/03/2023 20:10

Or she stuck her hand out and the cyclist still didn't give way and made contact with her.

That's the ultimate victim blaming. "It's your fault for not avoiding my assault".

And this is spot on too.

Shopgirl1 · 03/03/2023 20:51

3 years is not enough for behaviour like that directly leading to another persons death. Regardless of whether someone is right or wrong to be on the pavement cycling, they don’t deserve that aggressive language to be hurled at them or to have hands waved at them or to be lightly shoved.

She is a menace to behave like that. And to then continue with her shopping knowing she had caused a serious accident.
Letting her out is saying that behaviour is acceptable. It’s not. 3 years is not enough for what she has caused.

MoroccanRoseHChurch · 03/03/2023 20:53

Eyes. Just with eyes.

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 20:57

Shopgirl1 · 03/03/2023 20:51

3 years is not enough for behaviour like that directly leading to another persons death. Regardless of whether someone is right or wrong to be on the pavement cycling, they don’t deserve that aggressive language to be hurled at them or to have hands waved at them or to be lightly shoved.

She is a menace to behave like that. And to then continue with her shopping knowing she had caused a serious accident.
Letting her out is saying that behaviour is acceptable. It’s not. 3 years is not enough for what she has caused.

or to be lightly shoved.

Don't make things up.

StressedToTheMaxxx · 03/03/2023 20:57

She's a nasty piece of work who thinks that she can go around acting like that and there will be no consequences. She should've been jailed for longer. Hopefully she gets a hell of a time in jail.

Blossomtoes · 03/03/2023 21:01

The footpath they were on was too narrow to be a shared space.

And yet it is …

Hoistupthemainsail · 03/03/2023 21:01

NewPapaGuinea · 03/03/2023 19:03

@Hoistupthemainsail They’re not legally allowed at all, but nearly always overlooked. Still if someone took issue and caused them to crash, ironically Mumsnetters would defend the assailant. Or would they not?

On interesting. I take that back. In any event, the Highway code itself isn't law and there is no actually law that says people should cycle through on pavements. Just so sad all around and I feel so sad for the cyclist and her family.

Shopgirl1 · 03/03/2023 21:03

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 20:57

or to be lightly shoved.

Don't make things up.

She said herself she made light contact…

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 21:05

Shopgirl1 · 03/03/2023 21:03

She said herself she made light contact…

'Light contact' is not necessarily the same as 'lightly shoved'.

AlwaysGinPlease · 03/03/2023 21:06

StressedToTheMaxxx · 03/03/2023 20:57

She's a nasty piece of work who thinks that she can go around acting like that and there will be no consequences. She should've been jailed for longer. Hopefully she gets a hell of a time in jail.

Amen to this.

Shopgirl1 · 03/03/2023 21:15

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 21:05

'Light contact' is not necessarily the same as 'lightly shoved'.

She had no business lightly making any kind of contact with her and directly caused her death by doing so.

ShakespearesBlister · 03/03/2023 21:20

Blossomtoes · 03/03/2023 21:01

The footpath they were on was too narrow to be a shared space.

And yet it is …

The council couldn't say it was. The police couldn't say it was. Of course Judges are always right and never make mistakes...

PressureLikeADripDripDrip · 03/03/2023 21:21

Agree she should be in jail.

Suspect her disability will be a very relevant factor in any appeal.

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 21:28

Shopgirl1 · 03/03/2023 21:15

She had no business lightly making any kind of contact with her and directly caused her death by doing so.

Or... The cyclist had no business on a pavement, not giving way, and passing too close on the wrong side.

I'm not really arguing that that's the case, but 'contact' doesn't mean 'shove'. I've had contact with many cyclists when walking along minding my own business.

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 21:29

ShakespearesBlister · 03/03/2023 21:20

The council couldn't say it was. The police couldn't say it was. Of course Judges are always right and never make mistakes...

Apparently it's now (in the last 5 months) become an official shared user path.

ShakespearesBlister · 03/03/2023 21:32

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 20:37

I think the court probably did that already. Personally I'm very uncomfortable with this judge's decisions but I accept that he knows the facts and I don't. His apparently unsubstantiated comments about the shared user path do make me question his judgement on other matters though.

It's absolutely unreasonable to state that someone using a path 'should know' that cyclists are allowed to use it when there's nothing at all to suggest that on the ground.

I'm not sure it really matters whether the bike should have been there or not but he obviously thinks that 'she should have known it was allowed' was relevant in some way. There's no reason at all why 'she should have known' and from the reports there's nothing to support the judge's statement that it's a shared path.

I'm not privy to the facts that were heard in court though, so I'm not screaming 'injustice' like some, just mentioning some concerns.

This is exactly where I sit with it too. I've watched the video and unless I've seen a heavily edited version I can't see where anyone is pushed or shoved into the road? There's absolutely nothing to substantiate the judges claim that it's a shared cycleway, even the council and police don't agree with him. But because he's a judge he must always be correct and nobody should ever question that. You only have to look at the volume of successful appeals to see that judges are not always correct.

Livingtothefull · 03/03/2023 21:32

The whole premise of this thread is that the wrong person is identified as the victim. I would rather save my sympathy for the real victim - the one who lost her life.

ShakespearesBlister · 03/03/2023 21:33

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 21:29

Apparently it's now (in the last 5 months) become an official shared user path.

Rather convenient that it should become designated just in time for the trial.

Blossomtoes · 03/03/2023 21:33

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 21:29

Apparently it's now (in the last 5 months) become an official shared user path.

It always was. The signs on the path on the outside path of the ring road - where the cyclist was killed - appear to be recent additions.

BreastedBoobilyToTheStairs · 03/03/2023 21:33

I'm not really arguing that that's the case, but 'contact' doesn't mean 'shove'. I've had contact with many cyclists when walking along minding my own business.

Given you were minding your own business, and she was not minding her own business but actively targeting Celia and making her arm travel in that direction, I'm not sure why that's relevant.

Cyclists shouldn't be bumping into pedestrians. Pedestrians shouldn't be bumping into cyclists. Sometimes it's an accident. Sometimes, it quite clearly isn't.

PressureLikeADripDripDrip · 03/03/2023 21:36

I don’t really get it though. It looks really narrow. It doesn’t look like it’s 2.4m or whatever the figure was, but accept it could just look narrower in the pictures.

but why was the cyclist heading straight for AG? Why didn’t the cyclist move around, away from the road side? It was tight to pass her on the road side.

BrigitteBond · 03/03/2023 21:36

Blossomtoes · 03/03/2023 21:33

It always was. The signs on the path on the outside path of the ring road - where the cyclist was killed - appear to be recent additions.

Meaning there were no signs before, so it's impossible for an average user to know the path's status even if it was 'shared user' - which the absolute absence of signs suggests it isn't (or wasn't).

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