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To be shocked by the nasty bullying style of some of the threads on MN.

348 replies

Dismayed · 26/05/2010 11:47

Having just read the thread about whether or not we should be ok about male nusery workers taking DDs to the toilet I have to say I am completely shocked at the aggressive, bullying comments that the poor OP received. FWIW I agree that we should not discriminate against males working in childcare but think that a lot of the battering comments were frankly out of order! As I read the thread I had that sick feeling that I recognised from my schooldays when I witnessed someone being bullied! I'm new to MN and have found a lot of the info and threads helpful but am so disappointed that, instead of finding a source that I had hoped would be non-judgemental and supportive, I have just connected myself to more of that cynical nastiness that I am so fed-up with on fb and in the media!

OP posts:
nobodyisasomebody · 26/05/2010 16:05

Because they don't sweat. We have eyebrows to soak up the sweat and to stop the rain falling in our eyes.

I know this because my son asked this question.

They must not buy lipstick then?

WombFrootShoot · 26/05/2010 16:05

Classics topic

Extended troll

V funny

BabyAmy thread went poof I'm afraid.

We were a bit mean

RunawayWife · 26/05/2010 16:06

Hully, did you shave the chickens because you got board flogging the horse????

Sithmummy · 26/05/2010 16:06

What did happen with LittleAmy?

She was mad, right? I only followed the first bit but then it really kicked off, didn't it?

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 26/05/2010 16:07

No, chickens have no eyebrows, lips or the ability to move their eyes about their sockets. Hence their sinister nature. You just can't tell what they're thinking.

Now someone spill about the amy thread, of I'll call you all wankers

Hullygully · 26/05/2010 16:08

Runaway - I am most disappointed in you for deserting your flogging duties. And for blithely mixing up all the threads. You'll get told off any minute.

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 26/05/2010 16:10

Or. Or I'll call you all wankers. Sigh.

RunawayWife · 26/05/2010 16:12

FLOGS CHICKEN IN A BULLYING FASHION BECAUSE THEY ARE PEDOPHILES .......

WombFrootShoot · 26/05/2010 16:12

Chickens...I'm sure you were there,

Um, she was the woman who went onto pregnancy and wrote a lovely long wordy post about a woman at her NCT class (She explained what NCT classes were for us, which was nice of her) who had asked her if she was a "kept" woman because she doesn't work.

Anyway - she then wrote a paragraph of teeth-itchingly reason why she was SAH and it contained things like "Why have children if you're going to..." zzzzz. I'm sure you get the picture. Anyway. it's all good, and then it all just went MAD! and she started C&P MSN convos between her and HUBBY and it was just and then she just carried on and on and on, and it was brilliant and just...funny.

(and I got called a genius and wonderful and brilliant. THe thread's gone now though, so you can't look for it and I can't prove it)

Oblomov · 26/05/2010 16:14

womb, we weren't mean. she was so offensive. and she WOULD NOT apologise. and then she kind of did. a bit. and then we started talking about her diabetic husband, and i and others were giving her fab advice re insulin pumps etc.
and then poof. the next morning, i couldn't wait to get back on. GONE, i tell you. poof.
she was probably embarrassed that she had made such a tit of herself.
it was her arrogance and her...... offensive and then lack of grace and stubborness that offended most people.

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 26/05/2010 16:15

I may have been about at the beginning, then got distracted by something sugary. Happens to me a lot. I don't recall any msn c+p stuff, but the 'kept woman' thing rings a bell. I'm a kept woman. It's brilliant.

Oblomov · 26/05/2010 16:16

it was entertaining, like you wouldn't believe.
most of the time, i just sat there, with my big gob wide open.

WombFrootShoot · 26/05/2010 16:17

Oblomov - you might have not been mean, but I was. She told me I was malicious.

I was on there just before the thread disappeared, and she just kept saying that the mod/admin were watching us. It was all very strange.

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 26/05/2010 16:17

I love fisticuff threads. Better than 'Eastenders'.

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 26/05/2010 16:18

In fact, we should have a 'Fisticuff' section, where all the really good bunfights go to live.

Oblomov · 26/05/2010 16:18

oh womb, you were there the next morning ?
oh please do tell more. i have withdrawl symptoms. please, i beg. fill me in.

pagwatch · 26/05/2010 16:19

I actually am a kept woman. I felt very bullied. Amy someone or other bullied me

RunawayWife · 26/05/2010 16:22

I want to be a kept woman !!!!!!!!!!

WombFrootShoot · 26/05/2010 16:26

Oblomov - the thread went poof at about 7ish in the evening as far as I remember.

It descended into utter silliness (a bit like this one really) with some competitive certificate flashing going on (Someone had a swimming certificate, and someone else was proud of their first aid one) It was great fun once LittleAmy left, with her C&P obsession.

EleanorHandbasket · 26/05/2010 16:28

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Oblomov · 26/05/2010 16:33

thanks womb. based on that, i feel i enjoyed the best of it.

Oblomov · 26/05/2010 16:35

And I would just like to say, proud to be part of it. Gets on my nerves it does. Like before the recent party, they listed the best ever threads. And i tell you, I'm not sure I was on one. I remembered hearing about some of them. But always miss the best bits.
Not this time. so atleasts thats something.

porcamiseria · 26/05/2010 16:48

"often think people are a little too sheeplike. They are keen to fall in with the general tenor of the thread in the way they would follow the playground leader.

YES YES YES that is too true Hully
I remember that silly thread where CUK were involved and the troll was pretending to be a cook, anyway people were CANING her, it was vile! lord of the flies stylee

depressedpig!!!!!

Oblomov · 26/05/2010 16:51

porca, no , i am a rebel, at heart. i love posting against the grain, and saying actually, i don't agree. i never do the sheep thing. not in RL either. if i did more, life would be easier.
i think thta is too simplistic. i think you are underestimating MN.

RunawayWife · 26/05/2010 16:52

Baaaaaaaaaaaaar