to not log in to mumsnet these days never got serious advice just loads of bitching

[justsue]

Hi all I logged into this site last year to discuss my son, (who now is settled with my first darling grandchild, she is lovely). Then came back bout my "father" but cannot get people to understand what is going on. I watch u all bitching about stupid stuff and would love to say " ugh hello there is other things going on in the world than MY CHILD IS NOT TALKING TO ANOTHER CHILD AND I WANT TO BEAT HER MOTHER. Get a grip people. I dont give a shit if your child hates billy across the road and he has not been invited to the party , get over it , I dont give a flying fish if your nannie does not live up to your standards, do it yourself for gods sake, what I do do give a shit about is how fucking malicious you lot are and how we "newbies" dare not post again for advice

my ex mil was put into care when her siblings werent......it affected her really badly.....never knew why they did that,but it has affected the next generation too

ok then

would you like to talk about whats bothering you?

im sure you will get help and advice

You're a bit old to be whining like a baby aren;t you?

thinker

Pleeeeease explain 'belly button face'. I am

OK, reading back I am sounding like a mad woman. I just want someone to listen, im sorry if i have offended

takes more than that to offend sue!

I think you are doing the digital equivalent of beating up pillows in frustration here, Justsue.
FWIW I remember your thread.

It's OK sue

Can you link the thread so I can read it?

runnybottom: in the nicest possible way fudge off , see this is a perfect example of mumsnet

I will listen, im not feeling tired yet

not sure I will be much use though

OK sue.. perhaps start again? This thread does make you sound loontastic, so if you want help about something, ask for this thread to be deleted, and start a thread in the right section (not chat or AIBU).

oh arse. when will I master satire? I wasn't aiming for patronisation.

i don't understand why you're so angry at us, though... deal with your own shit, and if you want help, ask nicely.

we are all normal really believe it or not! (i think)

i'm sorry you've had a hard time
people on here will offer loads of support but sometimes its a case of posting at the right/wrong time when a lot of people are on line or not.. people are generally nice on here though

" a perfect example of mumsnet" what, people who have been insulted offering to help when they realise it's not malice but unhappiness?

Well, yes.

justsue A father like that would have been awful shit to live with.
My dad spent sometime in care before being sent back to his mother (similar situation as your own the youngest of 7 marriage break down mother ran away, his dad didn't want him) and he swears it was better in care it only got worse.

I hope you find what your looking for but remember his actions are a reflection on him and not on yourself no matter what he says.

I think if someone only reads the first post and it's a bit angry then they just write a response without reading the rest of the thread. It happens everywhere.

Well bellybutton faces is a hard one to grasp so if i give you some examples, then you have a go, and see if i think they are. its when they seem to have no bone structure and just come out from top to bottom with a nose and eyes prodded in. David Cameron, Karen Mcguire, David Walliams. Now you have a go.

agree with Aitch - doesn't matter what the shit is if you ask nicely there'll be people to help.

Even shitty pouffes

god, how many smilies???

I don't find Jostsue as aggressive as most people here seem to think. She's having a go at the bitchiness sometimes seen here, we've all witnessed it at some point.

THINKER Don't be mean. You said DC had 'a belly button face like Karen from Shameless and David Walliams'. I can't deny i see a similarity between their faces but why belly button? I neeeeed to know.

(Sorry about this OP)

fudge off?

Repost a sensible message somewhere other than aibu and no doubt you will get the kind of replies you want. Whining like a child in aibu will get you nowhere.

Thinker Tony Blair isn't much of a looker is he?