just skimmed through the posts.
i wasnt quizzing her about her mother, she said her mother doesnt drive on motorways and i asked why. i was casually asking, not sitting there 'digging' for information. its called having a conversation with someone? she asked me about an accident i was involved in later on, was she 'digging'?
i dont think she was being horrible either, she made it pretty clear her mother just wouldnt, if she had a phobia, this girl would have said so, trust me. no beating about the bush with this one [i do like her!]
and i did actually offer to take them, thanks.
and im assuming her friends are perfectly able to navigate the walk, they just found it a bit daunting as none of them have been to that area before and worried they might lose their bearings, dont really get why someone had a problem with that?
of course i wouldnt judge her if she had had a big accident or whatever, because thats understandable.
and by the way, im not judging her, im judging her actions. and im not even doing that! i hate how on AIBU people act as if your post is something you've posted after days of deeping thinking/judging.
it was literally a quick post to see peoples thoughts as i was going out!
maybe i am being unreasonable, as i dont know enough about this woman [have met her once, she seemed lovely, but dont know enough obviously]
its just her daughter made it clear it wasnt a phobia or stress from a previous accident, so i think i was right to be a bit quizzical about it!
i understand its perfectly reasonable to hate motorways, but to actually cause arguments with it? and refuse point blank?