to not want DP to go in a lapdancing club on his mates stag do?

[mummee09v]

my dp is off on a stag night in a couple of months. its just a load of mates going out in town but there has been talk about them going in lapdancing bars.

i have laughed it off to my dp and tried to be the cool girlfriend about it and made out i couldnt care less as i dont want to seem controlling or jealous. i have even said i dont care if he has a private dance! because i want to come across as cool, as i know his ex used to stop him doing things and i dont want to be like that as he really resented her for it.

but i HATE the idea of it and know i will be furious if he does end up in one. the thought of him ogling some naked girl/s who will probably be a)younger then me b)prettier than me and c)have a better body than me (i have had 2 kids, say no more) kills me....i know that it would only be a laugh for them and nothing would happen other than them looking at the girls but i would be so jealous, coz how could he not compare their young fit bodies to my 30 year old, had-2-kids body?

so i am kind of testing him in a way by saying i dont care, and "allowing" him to go in one, but surely if he loved and fancied me as much as he says he does he wouldnt need to go look at sexy young girls?

also the stag's bride is my best friend (in fact i will be on her hen do the same night) and i know for a fact she would go nuts if she found out her husband to be had been in one as we have already spoken about it and she has the same insecurities as me.

Malificence, good comment there. As the mum of a DS (16), I also feel terrible that this is the sort of escapade he will possibly be expected to participate in.

We can challenge her every time, but she'll never change and she enjoys the attention. I wouldn't associate with such a fuckwit in RL I don't see why I should have to here.

And daftpunk people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones, because your proudly spout Catholicism for you dimwitted and backward views on homosexuality but it is the same organisation that raped children, especially young boys and covered it up??

Perhaps it's alright to rape small children of the same sex but for consenting of the same sex they cannot or must not have sex.

If your so hell bent on some cause why not start a petition to force the Pope to resign.

you're not your..

inevitable stupid spelling mistake when writing something serious.

PP;

I agree with you, I think the pope should resign, but he wont, and who will force him to?....the Catholic church has so much power it's pretty unbelievable.

I'm in a religious wilderness atm, I'm finding it very difficult. I don't want my leader associated with anything like this, the cover-up is almost as bad (if not worse) than the abuse...the abusers would argue they couldn't help it, just fucked up sickos...but the people who covered up did it in a calculated business like way...that's difficult for me to deal with.

You can't reson with everybody, sadly

And I get very bored indeed with having threads highjacked with that kind of attention-seeking nonsense.

DP, I am truly sorry but I find your homophobic and borderline racist views cloud everything about you....

BoF....

It's ok PP, we're just random internet strangers who will never meet. I'm never on that many threads actually...maybe 2 or 3 a week?....I'm not all over the place, so pretty easy to avoid

Sorry all.

Bit late to this thread but I've had a terrible time fighting my way through the crowds in Spearmint Rhino.

I tripped over a carelessly discarded niblick and then some twat spilled curry down my cleavage.

Was any bugger was interested in licking it off? Too interested discussing the latest issue of Stuff, more like.

Anyway, whatever Lequeen said, that's what always happens when I'm there.

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Does Spearmint Rhino actually exist? I thought it was an urban myth

I'd have complained about the lapdancing club as part of the business night out because it goes against the company Equality and Diversity policy.

Oh do cock off, there's a love.

I don't do cock...sorry

Sorry, that was rude of me. I don't know why your posts irritate me as much as they do. But that's my issue- i shall just try to avoid responding.

Lequeen's right. It's like McDonalds but with firmer baps.

Taking up the baton, Gay40...how did you manage to reach forty staring through such a narrow lens? I wonder what you suggest for SAHP's to avoid being so called Hookers. And I don't fuck my husband for his efforts at work, I do it because I love his enormous cock and I always get the better deal.