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AIBU?

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To feel so sad for this mum and baby but still think she could have been more careful?

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Vivia · 09/03/2010 10:25

Was in Costa just now. I was in the queue getting a takeaway while two mums were sitting with their newborns on the comfy sofa nearby. Very gorgeous scrunchy babies. I noticed that one mum had the baby lying vertically on her lap, so baby's feet at mother's chest and baby's head near the table. I thought it looked precarious.

And it was. As I walked out, I glanced back I noticed the mum reach over her baby's head and pick up the piping hot mug of coffee. She dropped the large mug of black coffee on the child's face and body. In that split second, I almost didn't register what happened. I ran back in. The security guard from nearby was jumped over chairs and tables to get to the baby, the mother was screaming 'help me!' The security had whipped the newborn to a sink of water and staff were calling the ambulance. The baby screamed at first then went horribly silent. Poor child had been hit in the face by a large, falling china mug and thoroughly scalded by coffee.

I feel so sad but wish the mum had realized that reaching over a newborn to pick up coffee is a terrible idea? I don't mean to judge her but

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CrowAndAlice · 09/03/2010 16:57

Forget pushchairs Morloth - i'd like DCs with that specification...

I think the biggest prob here is not the story or even the telling of it but that it is in AIBU and the 'but' in the title.

Blabbermouth · 09/03/2010 16:57

Morloth, each to his/her own. I just gave my opinion and didn't mean to start a long discussion about it.

lockets · 09/03/2010 16:58

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Morloth · 09/03/2010 16:59

I would settle for a mute button CrowAndAlice.

spiderpig8 · 09/03/2010 17:10

I would really hope this post is made up or exaggerated.i fear it might not be.To be scalded 'thoroughly' by 'piping' hot coffee could easily be fatal to a young baby.I find it very disturbing

MrsPixie · 09/03/2010 17:11

It would most certainly be fatal

spiderpig8 · 09/03/2010 17:12

On re-reading your post I see it is a newborn.

junglist1 · 09/03/2010 17:14

I was thinking about the mug aswell

SusieCarmichael · 09/03/2010 17:17

this is really awful is there no way we can find out what happened? op have you checked your local news? i suppose it wouldn't be in the news until tommorrow though will it

grumpypants · 09/03/2010 17:22

vivia - i'm really sorry, but it just doesn't add up for me. There's too much detail - why didn't you stay longer? Hopefully, if this happened, the coffee avoided the baby's face. If this is real, I have every sympathy for the mum, and no judgey tendencies at all.

LadyintheRadiator · 09/03/2010 17:25

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wannaBe · 09/03/2010 17:28

ridiculous to suggest this shouldn't be discussed. People witness things, they discuss them, with their friends/family/perhaps on a website such as this one. If the baby has been seriously hurt or worse then I seriously doubt the mother is going to be trawling the ibu board looking to see if someone is discussing it.

And people judge. It may not always be right, but they do. That's life.

spiderpig8 · 09/03/2010 17:28

I think if I had just seen a baby suffer a horrific injury like this , I would be really upset and certainly wouldn't immediately be jumping on my computer to post about it to a bunch of strangers.But we're all different.

McDreamy · 09/03/2010 17:29

Why don't you believe the OP Lady? What is it about the story that doesn't ring true for you?

I must admit it never crossed my mind that this could be a wind up but then I believe just about everything I read on here

I really hope it isn't true.

MeMyselfAndIt · 09/03/2010 17:30

I don't get this, you say you noticed the mum " as you walked out" reach over the babies head and pick up piping hot coffee.

Someone asked you how you knew it was still really hot, you said because they were in the queue in front of you.

You then said you asked for your coffee to be extra hot, but you had obviously finished your coffee when you went to walk out and leave? so why was your coffee cool enough to drink but the people with the babies coffee still piping hot when you were leaving when they ordered before you and you had obviously finished your coffee and left?

JaneS · 09/03/2010 17:33

MeMyself, OP says she was getting takeaway, that's why.

Rubyrubyruby · 09/03/2010 17:34

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wannaBe · 09/03/2010 17:38

well op does have a posting history.

I don't think it's made up - it could have happened easily enough.

And I am probably one of the most scinical people on the planet, and think a lot more posters are trolls and probably most do.

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girlsyearapart · 09/03/2010 17:39

how awful vivia-

haven't read whole thread but if it's a Costa you go into regularly could you go in again tomorrow/next few days and ask if they know how the baby is?

Hopefully you will hear that he was fine and it will put your mind at rest a little. (and you can update us all too)

Glad to hear the security guard was actually on the ball.

spiderpig8 · 09/03/2010 17:40

I hope so Lockets ,it's made me really sad

LadyintheRadiator · 09/03/2010 17:41

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ImSoNotTelling · 09/03/2010 17:42

Gawd leave it with the troll hunting already.

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