To have made sausage casserole for my family despite dh saying last night he does not want it!

[Snowfun]

Dh likes sausage caserole we don't have it that often last time I made it was about a month ago. Anyway last night he was adament he did not want me to cook sausage caserole but he wanted me to do toad in the hole with carrots green beans mash and gravy etc etc.

Anyway ds2 aged 2 loves sausage caserole. He is slightly off his food which is very unusual for him and so this morning I have made sausage caserole in my slow cooker. Ds2 got so excited and squealed sausage caserole!

So aibu to have done this its far easier for me anyway. Tried explaining that to dh last night too but he was absolutely adament he didn't want it! I know he'll be annoyed I cooked it and will doubtless moan!

It sounds as though he continually annoys you by microomanaging your cooking. If you aren't happy with that tell him that unless he just waits until he gets home to find out what's for dinner and leaves the cooking up to you then he can cook the dinner. Sounds as though he has too much time on his hands if he's fretting over dinner whilst at work.
On a weekend I'll ask folk what they want if I've various options in the fridge but during the week we both work soo unless I preprepare something in the slow cooker which I'm usually not organised enough for, bloke and kids just eat what they are given, although both bloke and kids do take turns cooking dinner, but supervising them and telling them what's available takes that long that unless it's just pasta and pesto or a stir in sauce it's as easy to do it myself.

You're right seeker, I leaped beyond the leaping point (and there I was, all 'why can't people READ the OP properly, hhhmph ) but I stand by my broader point.

Thank God DS and DH go with the "Yay! Food!" approach to being given dinner. I couldn't deal with all the discussions that some people seem to have!

You guys ever seen "The Castle"? DH is like the dad in that. "What's this love?", "Sausages and mash", "Brilliant! Thanks love!".

I'm going to make toad in the hole tonight if your dh wants to come round