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To being some what pissed off that My partner got invited to MY good friends stag do over me just cus Im my a boke?

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daisychainXX · 17/01/2010 22:23

Im so pissed off that not that my partner (who he has knowen for 3 years) got an invite to the stag do do but more that he did not even think to consider that I would be upset in any way.
I know this may sound a bit odd to some poeple thinking that a stag do is just for men but I have always been one of the lads or so I thought.
I have been very good friends with a group of lads since school. We chat about every thing, so why did no he not think to ask me if I would want to come?
It maybe a 'lads' night out but that has never stopped me from going out with them all before nor been a problem.
Just cus its a 'STAG do' I dont even get a second thought!!!
When I had PND I didnt not go to him because he was a bloke.... male or female it never mattered before?

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RoyaltyIsMyOnlyDelusion · 17/01/2010 23:40

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mariedj · 17/01/2010 23:41

You only got on with boys at school? Ok, bit naff but you were young. But why would you want to hang out with only guys now? I know men and women can be friends, and i too like male company but you should try getting some women pals. It might help you mature.

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PoppityPing · 17/01/2010 23:43

Do you think they would understand the texts though? It's hard enough without abbreviations.

daisychainXX · 17/01/2010 23:44

bye. bye..... feel free to carry on if you so wish to be bitchs!!!
you just remind me why i have no time for most women...
And thank you very much to those of you who answered and understood why Im so upset.

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scottishmummy · 17/01/2010 23:44

man-burds are risible.over compensating to fit in

stop the one of the lads malarkey,no woman is bloke.not socially,not genetically

individual differences,gender,socialisation mean lady burds are oxymoron

BrahmsThirdRacket · 17/01/2010 23:44

Maybe she prefers hanging out with men because women are bitchy...

PoppityPing · 17/01/2010 23:45
mariedj · 17/01/2010 23:46

OP you are a self hating women. Sad.

PoppityPing · 17/01/2010 23:47

Honest Brahms, honest

LittleMrsHappy · 17/01/2010 23:48

YABU, you were not born with a willy, so cant be part of the a stag.

scottishmummy · 17/01/2010 23:48

why wouldn't one like company of other women? big alarming to over compensate and men and minimise women status

AnyFucker · 17/01/2010 23:49

daisy...you don't think your male mates take the piss out of you then ?

daft mare

< puts traffic cone on head >

< picks dog-ends up from the gutter >

< jumps piggy-back on mate and squashes her >

AnyFucker · 17/01/2010 23:51

ah shit, I see poppity had the traffic cone first

< twats poppity >

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AnyFucker · 17/01/2010 23:53

it's because other women don't like 'em

and there is a usually a reason for that (not dissing the socially-awkward or terminally-shy here, folks)

me, I'm a girl's girl

always have been, always will be

PoppityPing · 17/01/2010 23:55
AnyFucker · 17/01/2010 23:56

I luv yoo toooooo

but you stole my boyfriend, ya bitch...

< starts tussling and ripping hair out again >

StayFrosty · 17/01/2010 23:56

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PoppityPing · 17/01/2010 23:57

To me it seems that girls like this feel threatened by other women. They say they get on better with men, but what's actually happening is that they only feel attractive with just men around.

So, err yes, a self esteem thing [pointless waffle emoticon]

AnyFucker · 17/01/2010 23:59

stop getting serious poppity, we haven't finished scrapping

< pauses with fistful of hair to ask if we have met before...>

PoppityPing · 18/01/2010 00:02
AnyFucker · 18/01/2010 00:06

< screams blue fucking murder >

< gets thrown into back of Black Maria >

< concludes, t'were a fantastic night...>

night all, see you in the morning with a pounding head

daisychainXX · 18/01/2010 00:15

Thanks 'StayFrosty' your right thats the hardest bit I cant say any thing to him it's his stag do. I just wanted to be asked if i would like to have gone.

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