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to wonder why the word Lesbian on the front cover of Lesbian Vampire Killers was blanked out with a parent advisory sticker?

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GetOrfMoiLand · 09/01/2010 20:12

DVD rack in Sainsbos.

Parent advisory sticker covers the word Lesbian - can't remember the exact wording on it but it says something along the line that is is obscured because of inappropriate references or something.

So the word Lesbian is viewed as something intrinsically inappropriate but the words Vampire and Killer are OK for young eyes, then.

I find this offensive - as someone who has 2 gay women in the family one of which is my mum, and a daughter who was badly bullied last year, in the main being called a lesbian slut by a group of girls at school, I think it's startling that this word is viewed as offensive.

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southeastastra · 09/01/2010 20:13

very odd!

BitOfFun · 09/01/2010 20:13

Because Lesbians are far more harmful to children than Vampires or Killers?

RubysReturn · 09/01/2010 20:16

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mummyofexcitedprincesses · 09/01/2010 20:17

I know which word I would rather have to explain to my DDs.

paulaplumpbottom · 09/01/2010 20:19

So they can show women wit their breast but the word Lesbian is too much for children? Thats insane. Did you complain to the manager?

TheButterflyEffect · 09/01/2010 20:21

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paulaplumpbottom · 09/01/2010 20:21

Sorry I meant with their breast out

GetOrfMoiLand · 09/01/2010 20:24

I know

Mummy what's a killer? Someone who is violent to someone else and makes them die.

Mummy what's a vampire? A monster which attacks people and drinks their blood.

Mummy what's a lesbian? A normal woman who has a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend.

I was just completely bewlidered. I thouht that the sticker was just coincidentally over lesbian, however when I looked through the rack the sticker obscured the L word on all of them.

No I didn't complain (distracted by searching for food in empty but chaotic bedlam like supermarket)

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skidoodle · 09/01/2010 20:27

That is fucking hilarious.

Lxxxxxn Vampire Killers?

The world is completely insane.

Did you take any pictures?

GrendelsMum · 09/01/2010 20:28

Could someone have felt that it was inappropriate in a family environment to state that lesbians were vampire killers, and would rather it said 'Vampire Killers' rather than 'Lesbian Killers' or 'Lesbian Vampire'? Might even be a lesbian sticking the stickers on herself?

skidoodle · 09/01/2010 20:31

From the Guardian, last August

Lesbian Vampire Killers lose their sexual preference

ShowOfHands · 09/01/2010 20:33

Are Lesbian Vampire Killers lesbians that kill vampires or vampyric lesbians that kill people of non-specified sexual orientation? Is the killing and the vampyrism linked?

I'd put stickers all over the fecking thing for not being descriptive enough.

skidoodle · 09/01/2010 20:35

Lesbian Vampire Killers are people who kill normal woman vampires that have girlfriends instead of boyfriends.

GoingOnce · 09/01/2010 20:36

Some parents choose not to talk about sexual matters with their children until they feel the time is right. "Mummy, what's a lesbian" is not a question parents should be forced to answer just because some people swing that way. I'd say Sainsbury's are just being sensitive. No harm done.

StewieGriffinsMom · 09/01/2010 20:40

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TheCrackFox · 09/01/2010 20:41

Apparently the film was utter shite.

mrmellors · 09/01/2010 20:42

Hmm, except that ds1 said to me in the Sainsbury's petrol station a year or so ago "Mum, why is that lady holding her boobies?" (typical Nuts-type cover of girl in pants hoiking breasts in the air while gurning suggestively at the camera). To be frank I'd rather he just asked what the word lesbian means than go into the whole issue of jazzmags.

BitOfFun · 09/01/2010 20:44

Which is more offensive to explain to a child then, GoingOnce? "Lesbians are women who love other women", or "Vampires suck your blood in the middle of the night", or "Killers murder you so you are dead forever"?

skidoodle · 09/01/2010 20:45

But a lesbian is not a "sexual matter"

It's a word that describes a kind of person (like vampire, or killer, except not evil).

You can explain to your child that there are lesbians in the world without having to talk to them about sex.

By that logic we have to cover up words like "Mummy" and "Daddy".

I had the opposite upbringing. My mother explained everything to me in terms of biology. From the age of around six I would ask "jeans with a j or genes with a g?"

QandA · 09/01/2010 20:46

Forced to answer what Lesbian means going once?

Well it's not difficult is it. Must be a difficult trip around the supermarket for you, if the thought of answering that seems too difficult

paulaplumpbottom · 09/01/2010 20:47

Its not like you have to go into detail of how they have sex. You just have to say its a lady who has a wife instead of a husband or a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend.

Morloth · 09/01/2010 20:47

That is funny (in an annoying and sad way) of those three words they blanked out Lesbian? Idiots.

GetOrfMoiLand · 09/01/2010 20:48

Oh thanks skidoodle.

Bloody hell August. Look at me with my controversial thread topics, only 4 months out of date!

Still think it's shite. And when I was looking for a mag in Sainsbos there was bloody Zoo with some daft cow with her tits out, nipples obscured by tiny stars. ffs.

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QandA · 09/01/2010 20:51

Actually, it is disgusting that it is covered up. FFS who thought this up? I can't believe it is 2010. It should be illegal to cover it up. Where is the equal opps in this case?

GetOrfMoiLand · 09/01/2010 20:51

"Mummy, what's a lesbian" is not a question parents should be forced to answer just because some people swing that way

Swing that way?

Goingonce I don't think that answring what lesbian means you have to discuss sexual matters. Crikey Sainsbos sell cock rings now, I would think that would be a more difficult conversation to have than Lesbian.

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