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to be put off by someone being too 'nice'?

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MsSpentYoof · 04/01/2010 16:16

Just slap me and tell me to stop worrying please

I met this lovely guy on an internet dating site, and he has treated me like I have never been treated before...

-He wouldn't let me pay for my own dinner... this is the first time this has EVER happened to me
-He bought DS a lovely wooden train set for christmas.... even though he had never met DS
-He cooked me a candlelit meal, including dessert
-He bought me chocolates for after the meal, the kind that you have to unwrap...
-He actually won't let me open a door myself or pour my own drink
-When I invited him to mine for dinner he turned up early and waited outside so he arrived just on time
-He didn't try to kiss me until the stroke of midnight on NYE, when we shared our first kiss.

I just keep thinking that he is too nice...

Somebody slap me

OP posts:
maristella · 07/01/2010 17:56

he sounds soooo nice!! but too nice, which i find a major turn off
i'm also a beligerent mare who would take offence to anyone who would not let me open a door etc etc.
just because someone's nice doesn't make them hot stuff!! could potentially be a very special person though, but you may need more than niceness for that to happen.
in the meantime - enjoy him!

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