my partner and i have fallen out over his bf

[comfortandlenor]

his friends friend told me about a night out which his girlfriend I thought gf knew about thing is bf fell out with a close friend of ours ,im being blamed,really upset as i didnt know.
Feel like saying you deserve all of each other for lying and what other lies have you all tried to cover up aibu.thinking of leaving and saying do i need this.

Eh?

I read the title as being you were cross about your partner breastfeeding. That made a bit more sense than your post.

Please redo post as doesn't make sense.

Que?

??? Sorry, am not being funny, have head cold, don't really understand your post, could you explain a little more?

You mentioned something about a night out some male friend had, to his girlfriend, thinking she knew, but she didn't?

pardon?

i understand title (bf meaning best friend) then i am lost!

That makes no sense whatsoever.

glad it's not just me.... sniff, hack, wheeze

my head has just exploded

Oh bless you Irritated.. have gone through a whole frigging box today... now seriously considering toilet roll, and give my self a bit of nasal abrasion....

sorry I mean his best friend ,i have fallen out with my partner over his best friend over him best friend being out and his girlfriend did not know this and i explained why they are other friends were not coming out becuase of the best friend.
I have now been blamed and am so angry for his friends lies have said im leaving as he is kissing his bf arse instead of standing by me when i feel i have not done nothing wrong.

nope, you still got me

I think she means falling out over his "boyfriend" (BF). Hard to have a gay man as your partner if you are a woman.

what did the best friend lie about?

partners best friend told my partner about a night out
this caused a argument and he fell out with a another friend of ours
i explained to his girlfriend the other friends were not coming as they fell out

im being blamed for telling the girlfriend becuase they were not coming.
Im upset and angry for partner rushing out to kiss his lying arse.so im thinking im going to leave with kids and they can all have each other and there fucking lying ways, sorry but in tears now.

TBH I don't think I'm much the wiser...

off to raid Baileys (purely medicinal)

BRB...

You are talking in riddles.
Have you had much wine?

Goober [grin}

What I was going to say..

Still think they are gay though. Am I the only one? "Im upset and angry for partner rushing out to kiss his lying arse" Yes? No?
A love triangle?

my man and i have fallen out over his friend (man) becuase he lied about a night out which he told my man and not his girlfriend,
i told his girlfriend who he lives with that another couple were not coming out with us all due to a falling out with her boyfriend , his girlfriend did not know about her Boyfriend and the falling out .
i am being blamed as him and his girlfriend are not talking and my partner told me so im taking the kids and leaving him to his sorry lying best friend.and he would rather kiss his arse than look at the fact that secrets will get found out in the end aibu.

what happened on the night out? * who was there?*

deep breathe comfort you are no less coherent than i am in RL after oooh... about 8pm

but i am INTRIGUED so pls say more

they are noy gay i promise ,yes i have had some wine im mad and him.
Im straight with kids with him , i said his friends lying arse becuase his friend shoudnt lie.

OK, lets see if I have got this.

Lets call your partner Bob.
Lets call his best friend Paul.
Lets call the best friends girlfriend Sally.

So. Paul tells Bob about a night out. For some reason this causes Bob to fall out with another friend (not Paul). Other friend(s) do not want to attend this night out so you tell Sally that no one is going other than Bob and Paul. (is it cos they don't like Paul and you told her this?)

Now you are getting blamed for telling Sally the reason why friends don't ant to go on a night out?

Hmmm, Nope. Still doesn't make sense. Unless they don't like Bob. Else why would Paul tell Bob about the night out - surely it would be the other way around?

Argh!