'Your profile says you live in Belgium so I'm not sure you'd have anything except the press to rely upon for an impression of the state of the UK.' seemed extremely snide to me Curiosity, and somewhat condescending. I don't live in the UK at the moment because the BRITISH GOVERNMENT sent my husband abroad. I went with him after two years as I didn't want to stop teaching in the state system. However, the UK is an hour away by Eurostar, and I am back frequently, so I do experience the UK on a regular basis. I pay a UK mortgage and UK tax, as does dh, so I do experience the UK. I'll be experiencing it when I'm back on Sunday, and in November and December, so your arguments don't add up. If we are posted back next year, I will be experiencing it again. I am affected by Labour policies today, how can I not be? The tax policies, the rise in NI all affect me. The withdrawal of HRP from women with children over twelve who don't work affects me, as I will now make voluntary contributions to make sure I get my full pension. The interest rate changes will affect me when my fixed rate mortgage ends. Ds may go to a UK uni; that will affect me as we will be paying the tuition fees and the accommodation costs and supporting him. My family are in the UK, so of course I experience it, and it affects me. Just because a crown servant and his family live abroad, doesn't mean that we are not affected. The withdrawal of the British Forces Post Office from NATO HQs in Europe affects me. The withdrawal of the submarines from Plymouth to Faslane affects me as my home is in the West Country, and that will have a knock on effect on jobs.
I can't see where I have been nasty though - please elucidate? This is AIBU after all, and people are entitled to their opinions, even though we may and do strongly disagree with each other. Have you bothered to read anything I've posted about education on this thread? It is fact, not opinion. There is not a fairness in education funding; standards have dropped; there is too much interference from Govt in the business of teaching. What is nasty in saying that? I also smile when people equate an argument they don't agree with, with bullying. How have I bullied you? I have disagreed with you and put my own argument forward. That is dialogue, not bullying.
I really do not understand why people are still harking back to the 80s and blaming Mrs Thatcher for the state of the UK today. Labour have been in power for 12 years, and have imo cocked up. They have had enough time to sort things out that they didn't like, and frankly blaming the Tories for what is happening today is like blaming your Mum for something that happened when you were a teenager when you are my age. The power of the unions needed to be broken; deregulation and privatisation were going to happen. A large monolithic state does not work in non Communist countries and that was what we had, and what we are heading back to.
Rhubarb - I was a state school teacher, so I was in there, doing my 60 hour weeks for 5 years. I lived, breathed and dreamed about teaching. The only way perversely I could get the wraparound childcare necessary to teach in a comp was to send ds to private school, as dh was away at sea, working elsewhere in the UK, or abroad for much of the time. If you read what I actually said, as opposed to what you want to read into my posts, I said that 'I am not criticising teachers per se, I am criticising the system within which they have to work, and the material with which they have to work (curriculum content; being judged on residuals and their value added ignored; constant tinkering and interference from on high with teaching methods). The constant barrage of testing and examining does little to enhance the educational experience for the students or the teachers, and the room to grow and expand one's knowledge has been removed at sixth form level.' The system is wrong, not the teachers who do the best they can within the framework they have been landed with.
You say: 'Our kids aren't as important as yours so we just have to take our chances with the rest of them whilst yours get elevated positions.' Yes, your kids are important, and education for so many of the kids I taught was a way out of their family situations, and living in a poor rural area where the job prospects were not brilliant. However, I do not like SATS and the straitjacket of the National Curriculum, so I chose not to use the local school. I am lucky to have been able to afford it. I chose to spend my salary on school fees and not on other things.
HerHonesty - would you prefer 'Hun'? Yes, I'm a teacher, and we used to have fab debates in the classroom. Give the students a nice controversial topic and sit back and listen. Again, I felt at the time and still do, that the sinking of the Belgrano was justified. The whole of the South Atlantic was a war zone and you don't let an enemy Armed Cruiser anywhere near the Fleet if you can avoid it. I don't see the significance of what the Army Generals thought - it was the Navy doing the fighting at sea, and it was the Navy's call. The sinking was approved in Whitehall, and Chris Wreford-Brown could not have loosed those Mark 8 torpedoes without the highest authority.
I found this which you may like to look at:
'Questions were asked about the legitimacy of the attack especially as the Belgrano was outside of the Exclusion Zone. The British government maintained that the Belgrano still represented a threat to the Task Force and in this they were, to an extent, supported by the Belgrano?s captain. Hector Bonzo later made the point that though the Belgrano was sailing away from the Exclusion Zone, it was not sailing to its port in Ushuaia in Tierra del Fuego, It was simply moving to another unspecified position to await further orders ? that could have included attacking the Task Force. The naval commander of the Task Force, Admiral Sandy Woodward, made the point that the Belgrano and its escorts were more than capable of turning about at speed and thus returning to a course towards the Task Force.
Also on April 23rd, the Argentine government was handed a message from the British government (via the Swiss Embassy) that it held the right to take whatever action was required to defend itself if any Argentine ?warship, including submarines, naval auxiliaries or military aircraft? seemed to threaten the naval Task Force. Clearly as the Belgrano was considered to be a threat, it was attacked and sunk. After the war, Argentinean Rear- Admiral Allara admitted that the whole of the South Atlantic became an operational theatre during the conflict and that the Belgrano was a casualty of war.'
I think the reason I don't like Labour is that they seem to want to make my decisions for me. There is over regulation; a tax system so complex that even HMRC can't answer a straightforward question about information posted on their website. There is an intrusive creep into family life; into the information the state holds about one; why are the details of our kids that are going on to the new Children's database being held until they are 24? Why do we need ID cards? I don't like the marginalisation of rural communities; the Tories have an understanding of the countryside and agriculture that Labour do not.