But meat, vegetables and other foods don't need extensive modification and chemical processing in order to become edible.
Give a human infant cows milk which hasn't been 'denatured' by being broken down, having sugars removed and fats added, and it would eventually die or become very ill.
And modern formula have added ingredients which are made by very complex methods and involve extensive chemical processing, which is why none of them (other than Hipp, which doesn't contain any of the new 'super ingredients') can be produced in an organic form.
Point I'm making is that formula really can't be compared with any sort of food we cook in our kitchen. It is an 'artificial food'.
"It felt as if me bf my child was the most important thing in the world to her, over and above DC1s immediate health".
Stonethecrows, I don't want to comment on the behaviour of the particular bf counsellor you encountered (I particularly hate the idea of people handling babies in situations like this without first gaining permission from the mother), but I would want to point out that bf is sometimes literally life-saving for preterm babies. I attended a BLISS breastfeeding study earlier this year where a paediatric consultant from one of the top neonatal units in the UK talked at length about this issue. He said that in his unit they encourage parents to think of breastmilk as medicine for preterm babies.
The RCM makes a case that about 100 preterm babies a year die from not getting breastmilk, and many more end up extremely poorly. BF counsellors and bf specialist midwives who work with mothers with poorly and early babies know this. That's probably why they are so keen for mums to overcome their bf problems and establish breastfeeding, not because they are driven by any sort of blind ideology.