I go away for almost 3 hours and not much has changed here. I'm shocked at the amount of nastiness though.
Few points - the Russell Group thingy - we had a long thread on that last week that brought up most of the issues. The key thing is that everyone gets their place on their own merit, so anyone in a RG place deserves it. And RG places are not a shoe-in for anyone - they all have to be worked for.
My own education being at state expense. Well, I was 'state educated' for univesity (4 years UG and 1 year PGCE). It seems to me that everyone in the country is entitled to this (as long as they meet entrance requirements), so why should my place be viewed differently from anyone else's? Also, I have worked and paid taxes for over 10 years, so I think I have paid back the cost of my state education. My parents also paid taxes at the time.
Someone said that children who are privately educated are at the expense of the state sector. I don't see that at all. Private education is independent of the state sector. It takes nothing away from it at all.
Someone said that if I moved my children into the state sector and then gave up my tax-paying status, someone else would replace me - true, but they would only replace a third of me. They would be far more likely to work as a teacher for only a few years and give up due to stress or just not liking it. It is still a false economy.
And the it's not fair argument. Life isn't fair. We do not live in a communist society - that particular experiment did not work and cost a lot of a pain, and poverty of aspirations. I don't think that it is fair that hard working people support those with life-style choices which means that they sponge off the state.