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To think these people could have waited to smoke their drugs?

142 replies

MsUndastood · 07/07/2009 10:36

I went to a festival on Saturday with a very easily led (mum) friend.

We met up with her little (19 yo) sister and ended up sitting with her friends for most of the night.

Later on I needed to pop home and they needed to pop to the garage, on the way back we walked through the park and they said they wanted to have a joint.

I told them I didn't feel comfortable around it and didn't like it but the still went ahead and 'skinned up' any way.

They gave some to my easily led friend, and i know it is her decision, but if they had waited until they had got back and went of so I didn't have to be around it then there is no way she would have sought it out.

Don't get me wrong, I am not perfect, I have tried drugs in my teens but know that if anyone had ever said they were uncomfortable around it I wouldn't ever have gone against that.

So AIBU to feel angry that they didn't wait until i was gone and risk the police finding us and risk being associated with it?

I have a DS and feel it is very important to stay well clear of anything like that now, and feel that it is my responsibility as a mother to make sure DS knows that drugs are bad.

OP posts:
daftpunk · 07/07/2009 16:59

littlelamb...op and foreverchanges deffo not the same person...you can tell

...lol at floorboards swallowing nappy..

GetOrfMoiLand · 07/07/2009 17:00

lol at this thread.

lol also at a 22 year old sitting there all cats bum mouthed whilst surrounded by giggling teenage tokers.

I would have just gone home and left them to it. Don't like drugs personally but wouldn't bother trying to talk 19 year olds from toking after a festival.

Am sure you would have been able to walk through a park on your own in the dark.

Lol also at the laid back 'oh just chillax' on this thread when people bay for blood on the parent and toddler parking threads

foreverchanges · 07/07/2009 17:02

lol at being thiugh of as the op littlelamb are you a little paranoid
i'll take as a compliment tho !

daftpunk · 07/07/2009 17:03

no..don't remember that name..i've been here since sept 2007..half the people that were here then have left....

anyway..welcome back foreverchanges

foreverchanges · 07/07/2009 17:04

cant believe what ruffles peoples feathers on here sometimes its quite annoying at times
most hate the aibu about the au pair threads...twats ....

foreverchanges · 07/07/2009 17:05

sorry for swearing but ggrrrr

daftpunk · 07/07/2009 17:05

tell me about it...

foreverchanges · 07/07/2009 17:08

nice to say hello daftpunk anyway

DDraigoch33 · 07/07/2009 17:09

YABU,Silly woman!

daftpunk · 07/07/2009 17:31

...>

see you around foreverchanges

StripeyKnickersSpottySocks · 07/07/2009 18:25

Well I spent the weekend at a festival and there were that many people smoking dope I think my 8yo was stoned through passive smoking! No harm done.

3littlefrogs · 07/07/2009 18:30

I am a bit at the liberal attitude to drugs on this thread TBH.

The cannabis the kids are smoking these days is really awful stuff. Nothing like the stuff that was around in the 70s.

I know 4 teenagers who have a brain damage from using it since their early teens. I can't see them ever making anything of their lives now. However, I expect I will get flamed for being old fashioned.

foreverchanges · 07/07/2009 22:41

'bit shocked at the liberal attitude to drugs but stuff was good in the 70 's ... i would advise you to re assess your values ...ie..3lf where the hell u coming from ?

foreverchanges · 07/07/2009 22:42

dead hippi maybe ?

foreverchanges · 07/07/2009 22:47

live and let live

our dc s are going to come across drugs in this world no matter ahat class ,regardless of education ,
a just say no attitude isnt going to work (look at prince harry )
live and let learn....

foreverchanges · 07/07/2009 22:49

thanks daftpunk enjoyed that

drowninginclutter · 07/07/2009 22:51

Wow LL before I read this I was worried about catching you had, now I think it sounds like a fun night out .

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