hindsight is a wonderful thing isn;t it, when it comes to talking about trolls, especially confirmed trolls.
and yet at no point was I offered support from anyone bar my real life friends and the few I class as decent friends on here when cvq was going on.
oh yes, now people say it was obvious......why not say it back then??
well, because they didn;t know for sure and didn;t want to look unsympathietic for what sounded like a terribly sad story.
stories that do in fact happen to other people.
we believe them as we think of them as we think of ourselves......I would never even DREAM of making stuff up like trolls do.....so why on earth would I start thinking that they would......makes a mockery of me as a person surely!
now of course, like I said.......hindsight is wonderful.
problem is, it hurt me that deeply, and that harribly, that I have been left with a scar on me (that may sound a little , but being burnt emotionally by anyone leaves marks.....boyfriends, bully at school....even something as dreadful as losing someone to cancer....it all leaves its marks..........this has left one with me).
now, I fully admit I can be a little OTT at times, with anything, especially trolls.....if people don;t like me and my threads tho, you hide me or ignore me. most people here are nice enough and respectful enough to do that. doesn;t bother me.....I don;t like everyone either.....would be a boring world if we were all the same and liked everyone. I just don;t go on their threads, I avoid them.
sadly today tho, I know that some snide cowardly people have been discussing me, and tlaking about me (almost behind my back style like they used to at school.....yoou know, the bullies who aren;t brave enough to do it to yoour face).
they seem to have a jumped up sense of self importance, and are being ugly and vile......like trolls really, who by defination are ugly and vile.
tis a shame.......mumsnet has left a bad taste in my mouth today, on a day wehn I am feling fragile anyway as I am waiting results back on whether I have cancer or not.
there are a few lovely core posters who have not talked badly..............pity that they are overshadowed by the cwardly lot
next time, if someone pisses you off, you really should be big enough to say it on the thread, rather than do a thread about a thread. it is deserving of more respect that way!!
I have never once on this board talked about anyone the way I have been spoken about today, unless they have been a troll, or confirmed troll.
I do hope your smugness doesn;t come to bite you on the arse one day!
sorry for venting on this thread all that should be on the other one......am going to C&P now......and then am bidding MN a farewell for a fw days. I think I need a break from it all while I go look after myself.