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Am I being unreasonable to suggest that kids who are faddy eaters have been "allowed" to become so?

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Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 20:17

This will no doubt get me "flamed" but hell, I don't want to watch the Champions League final so have left other half and teenage son to do so on their own - a good opportunity for some "male bonding" with some beer!

So, what do other parents think? Are faddy eaters born or made?

I recognise that we all have certain foods that we don't particularly care for or like but once those dislikes have been identified surely everything else should be accepted and eaten? I always advocated the "taste it and see" approach which generally worked. Although I wouldn't suggest that a two year old be given red hot Indian food just to "taste and see", but .... you never know!

I also often wonder if some children are faddy because their repertoire has been so limited and/or bland that they view anything that looks or tastes "different" with suspicion.

When I was growing up there was always an option at meal-times "take it or leave it" and my mother held to the view that when we were hungry enough we'd eat. I am also quite sure that a day without solid food will not actually harm any child!

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NotSoRampantRabbit · 27/05/2009 22:37

Lucia39

Do go away. There's a dear.

We are supporting one another now - your smuggery is surplus to requirements I'm afraid.

Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 22:37

Dalrymps Nah I just couldn't be bothered with all those who came trolling in determined to be eejits.

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Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 22:38

NotSoRampant - who are you to tell anyone to go away? Or do you regard MN as your own little private club?

Now stop trolling around dear!

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AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 22:39

'Far better to trust instinct in my opinion'

piss-taker.

NotSoRampantRabbit · 27/05/2009 22:40

dalrymps - yes, the grin is often rictus in nature, but seems to work on a toddler.

I now believe my own hype and am genuinely relaxed.

The fact that you care so much is testament to your being a great parent IMO!

Good luck with it all...am off to bed - 39 weeks pg and just had a fiery curry!

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 22:42

oh LOLOLOL i misread that and thought you'd said ;far better to trust in my opinion', many apologies.

of course you're still a piss-taker.

Dalrymps · 27/05/2009 22:42

Lol Rampant.

Hope the curry works! Sleep well

Lucia - You're boring me now.

Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 22:44

Dalrymps Quote ["Lucia - You're boring me now."] End quote

So who's keeping you here dearie?

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expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 22:46

Good to 'see' you, Aitch.

Hope not to 'see' much of you in the next few days, IYKWIM, we are at long last due dry, warm weather!

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 22:46

Good to 'see' you, Aitch.

Hope not to 'see' much of you in the next few days, IYKWIM, we are at long last due dry, warm weather!

pjmama · 27/05/2009 22:47

I have twins who have been given exactly the same food at the same time from day one, right back to the pureed mush, to breast milk, to whatever flavours may have been in the amniotic fluid. One will eat anything and the other thinks anything but toast and yoghurt is poisonous!

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 22:49

i KNOW! we're planning on going camping! [camping virgin] [worried]

Dalrymps · 27/05/2009 22:49

The interesting ladies who I am discussing the topic with

Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 22:51

Dalrymps Quote ["The interesting ladies who I am discussing the topic with"] End quote

Well stop moaning then! If you want a private chat - MSN them!

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AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 22:51

bloody hell, lucia... why are you being so naff to people? dearie? takes one to know one? you're sounding like a fifteen year old trying out her 'sarcastic' voice.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 22:51

Oooo! I am so at camping!

Dalrymps · 27/05/2009 22:51

By the way Lucia, don't call me 'Dearie'. It's incredibly patronising (like all your posts). There's a love

Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 22:52

BTW you should have written "with whom I am discussing the topic" God, youngsters today what do they teach 'em?

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Dalrymps · 27/05/2009 22:53

Lucie39 - I am not moaning. I am merely informing you that your company is boring.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 22:54

Am hoping for a bit of breeze, though, at the weekend.

AS those damn midgies appear to have re-surfaced.

bastards!

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 22:54

we just inherited a cheapie tent, huge, from argos. tried to put it up today, a doddle. just have to work out where to go now. unf i have to be back working the next day though... but at least we can dip our toes in water.

Dalrymps · 27/05/2009 22:55

Correcting grammar too! Wow, there really is no end to your talents Lucia39. You must be so proud

Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 22:55

Dalrymps - given your alleged age on your profile and my age I am perfectly entitled to refer to a chit of a girl young enough to be my daughter as "dearie".

You'd be wise to remember the old adage "If you can't take it don't hand it out"!

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wrinklytum · 27/05/2009 22:56

Pleeease give it a rest.

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 22:56

stop it, lucia, you're embarrassing yourself. please.

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