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Am I being unreasonable to suggest that kids who are faddy eaters have been "allowed" to become so?

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Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 20:17

This will no doubt get me "flamed" but hell, I don't want to watch the Champions League final so have left other half and teenage son to do so on their own - a good opportunity for some "male bonding" with some beer!

So, what do other parents think? Are faddy eaters born or made?

I recognise that we all have certain foods that we don't particularly care for or like but once those dislikes have been identified surely everything else should be accepted and eaten? I always advocated the "taste it and see" approach which generally worked. Although I wouldn't suggest that a two year old be given red hot Indian food just to "taste and see", but .... you never know!

I also often wonder if some children are faddy because their repertoire has been so limited and/or bland that they view anything that looks or tastes "different" with suspicion.

When I was growing up there was always an option at meal-times "take it or leave it" and my mother held to the view that when we were hungry enough we'd eat. I am also quite sure that a day without solid food will not actually harm any child!

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Dalrymps · 29/05/2009 13:41
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drlove8 · 29/05/2009 13:42

OMG dalrymps.... you can post at lightning speed!!

JustineMumsnet · 29/05/2009 23:11

Hey Dalrymps and others,
We'd appreciate it if folks didn't bump threads into oblivion - it's not really in the spirit of free speech and MN. We do understand of course that feelings can run high and that some discussions can be difficult/upsetting but if we allow this kind of filibustering on one thread then why not another? And where would it all end?
Thanks for your understanding,
MNHQ

squilly · 30/05/2009 10:24

MNHQ, I'm with Dalrymps. People don't need poking with sticks when they have serious problems with their children's eating.

If this had been deliberately atagonistic about race or religion, it would have been deleted by you. Because it's someone intentionally winding people up about their kids issues, it's all a-o.k.

And the OP wasn't looking for debate. She admitted, I know I'll get flamed, I'm just bored.

It shouldn't be allowed imo.

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