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Am I being unreasonable to suggest that kids who are faddy eaters have been "allowed" to become so?

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Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 20:17

This will no doubt get me "flamed" but hell, I don't want to watch the Champions League final so have left other half and teenage son to do so on their own - a good opportunity for some "male bonding" with some beer!

So, what do other parents think? Are faddy eaters born or made?

I recognise that we all have certain foods that we don't particularly care for or like but once those dislikes have been identified surely everything else should be accepted and eaten? I always advocated the "taste it and see" approach which generally worked. Although I wouldn't suggest that a two year old be given red hot Indian food just to "taste and see", but .... you never know!

I also often wonder if some children are faddy because their repertoire has been so limited and/or bland that they view anything that looks or tastes "different" with suspicion.

When I was growing up there was always an option at meal-times "take it or leave it" and my mother held to the view that when we were hungry enough we'd eat. I am also quite sure that a day without solid food will not actually harm any child!

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Parsleypants · 27/05/2009 23:35

oops, didn't realise we were now on to parking in Glasgow!

Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 23:36

Grattage Quote ["LUCIA you are a wanker."] End quote

Ah the resort to verbal abuse! Well we know where you stand when it comes to rational and logical debate don't we?

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expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:36

sorry, glasgow dummy here.

if i go into glasgow, i take the McColl's coach straight into Queen's Street station.

but DH prefers to drive.

edam · 27/05/2009 23:36

Admire your work here, expat. Jolly well done that woman and all that.

BoysAreLikeDogs · 27/05/2009 23:36

Do keep up parsleypants, we have got mozzie repellant covered too

bronze · 27/05/2009 23:37

fucking hell I go away for half an hour and an interesting thread just turns into a load of cattiness

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:37

..looks pleadingly at Aitch for assistance. I'm afraid I'm a typical dyspraxic when it comes to directions. I have to visualise myself walking them.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:37

i'm here to tell you, from Argyll, those fucking midgies are out!

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 23:38

i had to give a statement to the police the other day after witnessing a horrible racist thing. nasty girls bullying some muslim women verbally (but carefully, no racist language), me and pal threw disapproving looks, women left swingpark, we went over to check they were okay, then said goodbye then girls started up again and went to KICK one of the women. me and pal were like 'nonononNOOOOO' and then my friend went marvellously mental at them 'don't you DARE treat someone like that' and i blethered uselessly 'how could you do that?' while holding onto the three kids.

some guy took photos, the women didn't want to pursue it but the police are going to anyway, so we might end up in court. they've offered victim support help to our children, rather sweetly, but dd is quite clear that if you see someone being not nice to someone else the thing to do is say 'that is NOT NICE' and then tell a grown-up. in her case, her nursery teacher, in our case, we rung the polis.

Parsleypants · 27/05/2009 23:38

Sorry boys, am too full of gin to focus on the screen properly, it's been a trying day...

OlympedeGouges · 27/05/2009 23:39

is the Charles Rennie Mackintosh cafe in Sauchihall St?

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:39

Dh is dypraxic, too, Thunder!

It's like the blind leading the blind.

He's lost without his TomTom.

But he got us to Sauchihall car park a couple of weeks ago.

I kept seeing signs for Mitchell Street car park, but he missed it.

So I thought, Fuck it, we'll walk! It can't be as bad as Wankerville Edinburgh.

And it wasn't.

BoysAreLikeDogs · 27/05/2009 23:39

Gin is good

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:40

Do you mean The Willow Tearooms?

There are two. One in Sauchiehall street and one on Buchanan Street.

Parsleypants · 27/05/2009 23:40

and two cobras and a glass of wine, bloody half term...

Ronaldinhio · 27/05/2009 23:40

seems to have all gone a bit shouty...

can I get involved or should I toddle of with Grazia?

Ronaldinhio · 27/05/2009 23:41

off ffs

BoysAreLikeDogs · 27/05/2009 23:41
Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:41

At least he can drive. That's more than I can do.

OlympedeGouges · 27/05/2009 23:41

ah yes that's the one. Nice chairs. As you were.
[there are some rancid people about Aitch, sounds horrible]

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 23:42

the jl car park is a nightmare. you get into it round the back of jl but you can't at the moment drive past the front and round the corner. actually, now that you mention it, i think if you drive under the bridge you were talking about, the entrance is on the left. but i never drive in town, it's madness when we're fifteen mins on the tube.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:42

you worry about getting jibbed when you come up against these types of twunts.

but this gal, well let's just say you'd have to jib through a whole lot to get anywhere!

but she was polite and said, 'sorry' and 'excuse me' and this chap was just a twat.

he got off and then he was making signs at DD2.

so i made him a wee sign of my own.

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:43

I haven't been in either of the tearooms. I keep meaning to, though I know my wallet won't thank me for the experience.

wrinklytum · 27/05/2009 23:43

Sorry to butt in but can people lend a few moments for OJ'S bereavement thread?

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 23:45

olympe we were in a super-scuzzy area of glasgow... kinning park, known by those in the know as 'the kinning fields'. it was a subway festival, events all based around the tube stations, and the petting zoo was in kp for some reason. i think the influx of bourgeois peegs upset the locals and they took it out on our asylum-seeking brethren. and they are going to get FUCKED for it, lol, with me and my pal as utterly credible mum witnesses and people snapping them on their mobile phones.

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