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Am I being unreasonable to suggest that kids who are faddy eaters have been "allowed" to become so?

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Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 20:17

This will no doubt get me "flamed" but hell, I don't want to watch the Champions League final so have left other half and teenage son to do so on their own - a good opportunity for some "male bonding" with some beer!

So, what do other parents think? Are faddy eaters born or made?

I recognise that we all have certain foods that we don't particularly care for or like but once those dislikes have been identified surely everything else should be accepted and eaten? I always advocated the "taste it and see" approach which generally worked. Although I wouldn't suggest that a two year old be given red hot Indian food just to "taste and see", but .... you never know!

I also often wonder if some children are faddy because their repertoire has been so limited and/or bland that they view anything that looks or tastes "different" with suspicion.

When I was growing up there was always an option at meal-times "take it or leave it" and my mother held to the view that when we were hungry enough we'd eat. I am also quite sure that a day without solid food will not actually harm any child!

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expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:46

oh, he loves to drive, thunder! he needed a reader to pass his theory and extra time in the practical. but he now has a mini-bus license and he has a clean record.

he loves his punters customers, who are mostly elderly on tours.

thanks for the word up, aitch.

yeah, see, we drive in if it's all the family.

if it's just me or me and the girls, i take the City Connect from the ferry terminal.

although i usually just take it to Braehead Shopping Centre.

OlympedeGouges · 27/05/2009 23:46

This was years ago Thunderduck. When I had an ISA and indulgent things like that.

OlympedeGouges · 27/05/2009 23:47

impressed by the police's reaction though Aitch..

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:48

i'd SO be up for a meetup, thunder!

JL for a coffee or anywhere in buchanan, there's a ben and jerry's there!

BoysAreLikeDogs · 27/05/2009 23:48

Thank you wrinkly tum

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 23:49

police super-impressive, actually.

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:49

That's wonderful Expat. I hope I can learn to drive in time.

I love going to Braehead, and Xscape, though mostly for the restaurants, not for any of the activities.

I'm an Ikea addict too.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:49

It's sad to believe there are still such openly racist fuckers about.

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:49

That would be fun. We should do that one day. Perhaps in the Summer.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:50

Good for them, aitch.

We like our Strathclyde's finest around here.

Well, probably not the 15-year-olds.

AitchTwoOh · 27/05/2009 23:51

oh, police thing different up here, procurator fiscal (legal dept) decide to take cases, not the victim. so that the victim not responsible, the crown is the victim if the law broken iykwim?

Parsleypants · 27/05/2009 23:51

Thank you for the non-alcoholic beverage boys, am off to bed with my future sore head...

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:51

I think Dp is going to be dragged to Ikea as soon as he's free. I need my fix.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:54

'oh, police thing different up here, procurator fiscal (legal dept) decide to take cases, not the victim. so that the victim not responsible, the crown is the victim if the law broken iykwim?'

Yep. And any offense carrying a maximum sentence of 5 years or under is Sheriff Court.

I'm still trying to learn about High Courts.

Some offenders go to their nearest High Court.

Others, however, the really bad ones, the Peter Tobins (whose offense was in Glasgow) and the racist murder of a 15-year-old in Parkhead a few years ago were tried in Edinburgh, however.

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:55

And now I'm craving Ben and Jerrys thanks to you Expat. And there's none in the house, nothing even resembling ice cream.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:55

I know some advocats used to work out of the 'stables', which were only in Edinburgh, but that may have changed.

[confused. passionate about law.]

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:56

That 15 year old was abducted literally across the road from where I was sitting in my place of work at the time. Didn't hear a thing.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:56

Oh, I had a Cherry Garcia last I was there, Thunder. 'Twas so yummy.

Thunderduck · 27/05/2009 23:57

I haven't tried their Cherry Garcia...puts that on her to do list.

I love caramel chew chew.

expatinscotland · 27/05/2009 23:59

DH is home from work now.

'Oh, are you talking to Glesga folk? Ask 'em where's a good tattoo parlour.'

Ach, aye! Like you need more ink!

Thunderduck · 28/05/2009 00:01

LOL. Well I couldn't speak from experience as I don't have any but there's no shortage of them in Glasgow.

I do know of this one though.In Hope Street

smurfgirl · 28/05/2009 00:02

I am not a mum so pinch of salt.

I am not fussy but there is a large group of foods I really dislike - spicy/peppery type foods. My mum says that even as a baby (when you can't be fussy to irritate or push someones buttons) I would refuse to eat the currys she made me. She used to get teased by her friends for having such a fussy child!

Even now as an adult I have often not been able to eat a meal in a restaurant because its too peppery/spicy despite me asking if its spicy and being told its not. I have just started to manage Kormas and I am 24.

Equally my cousin is very very fussy at home will only eat nuggets and chips but at nursery, school and when my parents babysit she eats everything in front of her. She knows her mum will give in and let her eat the more unhealthy foods at home so she is fussy there. But thats more about behaviour (she gets away with a lot at home) than food.

AitchTwoOh · 28/05/2009 00:02

there's a guy down at the tron whose pretty famous i think. but it's not my area of expertise. nor is the law, as you've no doubt gathered.

AitchTwoOh · 28/05/2009 00:05

smurf, my dad couldn't eat spicy foods, and my sister was the same. very excluding, not to be able to eat a kebab or curry etc while at uni, she felt like quite a plank. it simply wasn't fussiness, she's not a fussy eater. but chili caused her pain.

anyhow, we shared a flat for a year or so and i slowly increased teeny amounts of chili in stuff to normal amounts (without saying anything) and now she's fine. it was a question of inuring her to the heat, she thinks.

expatinscotland · 28/05/2009 00:10

oh, i could murder a curry right about now.

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