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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To be scared to meet MNers in real life?

143 replies

JoblessNobless · 12/03/2009 13:16

Longtime lurked here who seldom posts as you all seem much wittier and wiser than me!

I notice that there are meet ups between MNers regularly. My question is, are the ones you have met really as dazzling in their charm or pithy in their wit as they would have you believe? Or (gulp) even more so?

Of course, if they are crashingly dull feel free to say so, haha. Personally I would be quite scared to meet some...too good to be true, or maybe intimidating. What are your experiences, and AIBU?

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MamaG · 12/03/2009 14:13

I've met two and thoroughly enjoyed it. Going to be meeting up with them both again within the next month or so! (not together, they live about 300 miles apart)

GetOrfMoiLand · 12/03/2009 14:14

Lol Bitoffun

Rhubarb · 12/03/2009 14:14

Well you are all welcome at my house anytime, and don't worry Trillian, there'll be plenty to drink!

BitOfFun · 12/03/2009 14:17

Will there be a Doctor Who theme, and perhaps a punchbowl made from half a dalek?

MamaG · 12/03/2009 14:18

Actually Rhubarb you aren't htat far from me

Rhubarb · 12/03/2009 14:22

Oh yes, and my very good friend David Tennant will be there.

MamaG, just name the day!

Mumsnetters I don't like will be exterminated at the door

laweaselmys · 12/03/2009 14:22

lol, BitofFun!

Depending on how open they've been about their swinging habits on MN - I don't think they'd be that pleased to see me either...

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion · 12/03/2009 14:26

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fruitbeard · 12/03/2009 14:46

That's pretty much what I did at the London Xmas meetup, Reality

BitOfFun · 12/03/2009 14:48

What, bumsex?

lou33 · 12/03/2009 14:50

i havent been to a meet up in years now, but in all honesty i dont recall meeting anyone who wasnt v nice

fruitbeard · 12/03/2009 14:50

Yep, me, Pillock and Morningpaper in a threesome

EyeballsintheSky · 12/03/2009 14:51

I went to the London party and it was great but I have absolutely no idea what anyone's real name was because we all used our MN names. Very strange!

ABetaDad · 12/03/2009 14:55

TrillianAstra - are you saying you really hang around on here even though you are not a Mum?

I certainly wouldn't hang about on here if I were not a Mum... oh hang on a minute

TrillianAstra · 12/03/2009 15:08

I am living proof that this is rubbish.

TheProvincialLady · 12/03/2009 15:14

I am waiting fot Coldtits to arrive on this thread and confirm to you all that I am beautiful, glamourous and ezceptionally witty, unlike my faintly dull MN persona.

I suspect I may be waiting some time

OrmIrian · 12/03/2009 15:22

I met some MNers just before christmas a few years back. Twas like some secret convention. Women walking alone into bar, silding up to another lone woman and whispering 'Mumsnet?'

JoblessNobless · 12/03/2009 15:32

I still think I would be quite nervous. You do all come acroos as very glam!

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OrmIrian · 12/03/2009 15:38

Oh yes, very glam.

I remember feeling that all MNers were very grown-up when I first came on here. And I was already in my 40s.

NeedCoffee · 12/03/2009 15:41

oman I've met quite a few different MNers, some nearby and some from my post-natal thread. The're all lovely not as lovely as me of course! Doing another one next week, just think, if it does go horribly wrong, you can always change your name when you come back!

VinegarTitsCoveredinChocolate · 12/03/2009 15:42

I nearly went on a meetup, but that BOF didnt tell me she was going till last minute and i had already made plans, i reckon she did it on purpose so she wouldnt be out shon by me

PlumpRumpSoggyBaps · 12/03/2009 15:47

I'd love to go to a meet-up but I'm not sure I want people bellowing 'oi, PlumpRumpSoggyBaps, what you want to drink?' across the bar....

screamingabdab · 12/03/2009 15:48

YANBU. i would be scared.

BitOfFun · 12/03/2009 15:49

Yeah Tits, that was it

PlumpRumpSoggyBaps · 12/03/2009 15:50

Not that any of you would bellow, I'm sure. I've always had the impression that all MNers are nice ladies....

...and gents, natch.

I mean the men are gents, natch.

Bloody hell. Probably best not going ANYWHERE where there are people + alcohol.