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To have 2 Dcs be fairly slim with largish norks which happen to be natural and to be slightly miffed at the number of grown women often with their partners commenting on my 'fake tits' or 'boob job' and looking down their noses at me?

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InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 18:16

It's just happened again at the supermarket and I'd say it does about 50% of the time, particularly when dcs are with me which is just great obviously.

I've got nothing against boob joobs but why do people have to assume they are fake & sneer?

As far as my shape goes, I've probably got a good two stone on Posh (just under 9st) but my waist is quite small in comparison to said boobs, but then I've got widish hips too so I look in proportion I think.

Should I get t-shirts printed saying '100% real' or wip my bra off in front of said women and let gravity prove the point for me?

I probably am b u because I shouldn't care what comments complete strangers make, just needed to vent really!

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Page62 · 13/01/2009 18:18

your last point

you shouldn't care

MABS · 13/01/2009 18:19

i had same problem, so do sympathise, but now am nearly stone heavier, it doesn't happen am gonna lose it tho!

InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 18:22

I know I shouldn't Page but if I'm in a good mood it always brings me down.

Ta Mabs

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sasamaxx · 13/01/2009 18:24

Can't believe people comment within your earshot. That is very rude!

KerryMumbles · 13/01/2009 18:25

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InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 18:25

I know, I've either got supersonic hearing or they do it on purpose

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sleepycat · 13/01/2009 18:26

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InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 18:27

have considered that KM

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InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 18:29

Thanks sleepycat but they are a bit too low down for my liking

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Drum · 13/01/2009 18:32

YANBU. They have probably caught sight of their DPs getting a good look at your gorgeous bosom and feel the need to declare you a fake. Men can be very strange about big busts in my experience!

sasamaxx · 13/01/2009 18:36

Mine getting too low down too

InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 18:38

ahh the joys of motherhood!

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vjg13 · 13/01/2009 19:02

Yabu and showing off!!

LoveMyLapTop · 13/01/2009 19:04

are you trying to make us jealous?

InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 19:07

what of my saggy norkage?

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InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 19:09

Maybe I should get them lifted and then I wouldn't care!

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LittleBella · 13/01/2009 19:12

Would be much worse if they were commenting on your fat arse or ginormous belly

Enjoy their jealousy comments

InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 19:45

True LB trust mumsnetters to put things into perspective

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Desiderata · 13/01/2009 19:48

Do people 'really' say that within earshot, and look down their nose at you ???

How odd.

pamelat · 13/01/2009 19:50

My cousin is 30 and does not have children yet. She is skinny with big boobs (naturally) and I have been witness to women saying nasty things to her about it.

InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 19:51

yes it's sort of accompanied by a smirk generally

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InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 19:52

lucky her!

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babbi · 13/01/2009 19:53

Well I had it said to me twice recently and have still to come down from cloud 9 !!!
Though I have recently turned 40 so any even faintly positive compliment is reason for rejoicing !
Enjoy and smile !!!

Salleroo · 13/01/2009 19:58

You obviously wear fab bras? Any chance of a name drop? I'm 32 D and stuggle to find nice bras that done do spillage.

Just smile, jealousy is a sad trait.

InSearchOfLostKeys · 13/01/2009 20:04

I actually wear minimisers Salleroo, to try and ..er minimise the situation (only from M&S and sometimes Bravissimo) I can be D or DD (32 too) depending on TOM so nothing Jordanesque or anything

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