I just want to thank you all for your thoughts on this thread. I have found it absolutely fascinating (and painful at times) to read of your experiences and opinions on this issue.
I fully admit to having previously been of the opinion that those who were concerned about the MMR were misinformed/mistaken/hysterical but I stand absolutely corrected on that.
From the arguments presented so eloquently here, I now believe that the MMR can be risky for a small number of children and I also now understand far better what the Wakefield study was (and wasn't) investigating.
My DD (now 3) had the MMR and I didn't think twice about it. DS is 8 months and I will be giving some serious thought to whether he will receive the MMR or go for single jabs. We have no autism in the family, no allergies and no autoimmune disease, as far as I know, but I am beginning to think that I'd be prepared to pay the price of the single jabs to be absolutely sure we avoid the risk of any adverse reactions.
But there is still so much I don't understand. Surely there is risk of some sort of vaccine damage from the single jabs too? If so, what? I presume there is little or no evidence of regression after single jabs being given, since parents who are worried about the MMR/Autism link seem to be generally happier with this option.
Thanks again to you all for your insight and reasoned discussion. I really have learnt a lot here.