Children are called for the MMR at 15 months here, and they're given another one at the same time, the second meningitis I think.
I was in in a terrible state before the MMR was due adn I was adament that ds wasn't going to get it, I'd researched it all and was on the side that the MMR isn't safe for a number of children but we just don't know who those children are until they get the MMR and become damaged in some way.
I was worried sick about it all, but... I gave him the MMR (he had it at 17 months).
In the end, even though I still do believe that the vaccine, like any other vaccine, can be damaging to particular, susceptible children, I felt I had to give him the MMR.
But I can understand the terrible worry you feel whethe rto give it or not, but at the end of day it has to be your choice.
Strangely, as my ds had his MMR in the hospital as has egg allergy, he was due to have the Meningitis jab (which you would normally have at the same time s the MMR) at the doctors but they would only do it 4 weeks after the MMR if they weren't being done at the same time. They didn't say why though. Does anyone know?