I agree with expat, as long as as you DH is in good shape converse are OK, on the other hand i was in Glasgow today, I think Glaswegians are a bit too keen on being fashionable and i saw an awful lot of "male mutton dressed as lamb", boak! particular pet hates are men over 30 wearing trainers without socks with 3/4 trousers and dads and small boys wearing matching outfits. Vanity in men is a big turn off IMO.