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Unpack online food shopping into bags!!

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Spanielsandpups · Yesterday 11:53

Please help me understand why would you unpack food delivered to your house into bags?

I obviously understand if you would struggle to lift the heavy trays that putting it into bags is better.

but my friend was over when I had my shopping delivered and she couldn’t understand why I carry the trays into my kitchen and not unpack into bags.

as I am physically able to carry the trays, how is it easier to unload into bags then unload again into kitchen ??

OP posts:
Hayley1256 · Today 19:28

Kelvina · Yesterday 11:57

I also chunk in bags so the driver can head off and I can unpack at my own leisure... I thought that was normal?

I do this too

fromthegecko · Today 19:28

It depends on your house layout/mobility/pets. The only constant is the need to empty the crates quickly so the driver can get on.

My dog is shut in the kitchen during deliveries, so I unpack into large cardboard boxes in the hall, giving me a chance to sort items by storage destination, and spot damaged, unwanted, or short-dated items.

A wheelbarrow sounds like a good idea! Having everything spread all over the kitchen sounds annoying.

eeeea · Today 19:29

mantlepiece · Today 19:14

So many of you seem to be very concerned re the delivery persons time allocation, have they told you they are finding it difficult to fit you in?
we do need help with a home delivery and that is why we don’t go to the supermarket anymore.
our drivers have never mentioned being pressured for time and are more than helpful.
they carry all crates to the kitchen or dining room and also lift out anything heavy. They also sometimes have a chat!
This is Tesco home delivery and I cannot fault them, we have had deliveries for quite a number of years with lots of different drivers but have never had a bad or rushed experience .

When I worked at tesco both on dotcom and as a driver, there's the contradiction of them telling you to always put the customer first, but also getting it in the ear when you do and you fall behind on your pick rate or deliveries. I'd never say it to a customer, but I was stressed by some people's leisurely approach as we were timed for each drop. In theory you can get more time allocated for certain addresses, but the reality doesnt really work like that. I imagine its the same for the other chains too.

Switcher · Today 19:36

Every method other than the Ocado one is more time consuming and annoying. Wish all supermarkets did that as I'd like to go back to some of the Sainsbury's range but it was such a palaver.

MaeshoweDragon · Today 19:39

I have a patio table that I pull in front of the back (kitchen) door. They put the crates on there, I grab the stuff and put it behind me on the worktop. Quick, easy, no bending down.

PollyPocket80 · Today 19:40

I find having shopping delivered a bit socially awkward, maybe that's just me? I just want to grab the stuff and shut the door! If the driver was waiting for me whilst I carried the carts into the kitchen and unpacked there I would not like that at all. Ocado being pre bagged is my preference.

LovelyPersonWith40YOVirgin · Today 19:42

Don't even get me started @Spanielsandpups I recently helped unpack an online food shop at someone else's house (they were recovering from surgery) and was stared at like an alien when I carried a tray into the kitchen and unloaded it onto the worktop. They usually handball everything into the floor in their porch, then the whole household (up to four adults and a small child) climb over eachother to pick up one or two items and take them to the kitchen 😵‍💫

PressedThistle · Today 19:42

PeachyPeachTrees · Today 18:57

Some people have narrow Victorian hall and can't put into bags at door. Everyone just needs to do what is quicker considering their house.

Eh? I have a very narrow hall (admittedly not Victorian) but there's still room for a couple of bags for life to decant the shopping into.

Rpop · Today 19:46

bilbodog · Yesterday 11:59

My deliveries from waitrose come into the kitchen where i unpack straight onto the table.

Me too. I don’t have a strong enough back to lift the crates or bend at repeated horrible angle to put stuff into bags (to then unpack 3 metres away from where I packed them). I ask the driver to carry the 3 metres to my work surface. If they were to refuse, I would be complaining to Tescos and asking them to pack the shopping into bags for me.

Oakdodger · Today 19:48

I unload the crates into my hallway, at the open door, and then carry it through when the driver's on his way.

MaeshoweDragon · Today 19:50

PollyPocket80 · Today 19:40

I find having shopping delivered a bit socially awkward, maybe that's just me? I just want to grab the stuff and shut the door! If the driver was waiting for me whilst I carried the carts into the kitchen and unpacked there I would not like that at all. Ocado being pre bagged is my preference.

I certainly found it socially awkward after saying thank you, returning indoors and finding my boob out from breastfeeding. HE SAID NOTHING... NOTHING.
He was my regular delivery driver, so the following week was a bit red faced and gave a mumbled apology... I still check the boobs are away when I answer the door - 20 years on!

SuddenDaredJelly · Today 19:51

TheeNotoriousPIG · Yesterday 12:06

Your friend would be horrified by me, then, OP! I tip everything bar the eggs out of the trays onto the floor to speed up the process so that the delivery drivers can go on their way. I am fortunate that I have a big enough utility room to do this!

Do you not buy much fresh food? A huge part of my shop is loose fresh fruit & vegetables,bags of flour, milk containers. If i tipped it all out the food would get bruised, flour bags split easily and milk jugs also split quite easily.

idontknowwhattodo2026 · Today 19:58

My delivery guy recently suggested I use the sledge we had standing by the door lol so I’ve been using that. Best idea ever lol

PeachyPeachTrees · Today 19:59

PressedThistle · Today 19:42

Eh? I have a very narrow hall (admittedly not Victorian) but there's still room for a couple of bags for life to decant the shopping into.

A couple of bags for life is fine but I usually have about 5 or 6 crates worth delivered. Like I said, everyone is different.

idontknowwhattodo2026 · Today 20:00

MaeshoweDragon · Today 19:50

I certainly found it socially awkward after saying thank you, returning indoors and finding my boob out from breastfeeding. HE SAID NOTHING... NOTHING.
He was my regular delivery driver, so the following week was a bit red faced and gave a mumbled apology... I still check the boobs are away when I answer the door - 20 years on!

Omg I once went swimming doing laps and at some point I noticed I had a boob hanging out— there was an old man who kept staring at me and I never knew why until then lol.

Endorasdress · Today 20:03

We decant it into a washing basket by the door, and just carry bigger stuff directly into the kitchen. We are elderly, and don’t have a ton of stuff, but being the two of us we just do it from the doorstep. My neighbors get the driver to carry the trays into their kitchens. We just try to be quick and helpful while we’re able. If I was alone I might decant into bags, so it’s not so heavy to move. Everyone has different needs or ways.

PollyPocket80 · Today 20:05

MaeshoweDragon · Today 19:50

I certainly found it socially awkward after saying thank you, returning indoors and finding my boob out from breastfeeding. HE SAID NOTHING... NOTHING.
He was my regular delivery driver, so the following week was a bit red faced and gave a mumbled apology... I still check the boobs are away when I answer the door - 20 years on!

Omg haha. I would've just changed supermarkets!

TheeNotoriousPIG · Today 20:10

SuddenDaredJelly · Today 19:51

Do you not buy much fresh food? A huge part of my shop is loose fresh fruit & vegetables,bags of flour, milk containers. If i tipped it all out the food would get bruised, flour bags split easily and milk jugs also split quite easily.

I do. It's usually one giant shop a month, with small top-up shops of fresh fruits and vegetables in between. Milk comes from the farm where I work, and so far, the bags of flour, fruits and vegetables have been fine! The only thing other than eggs that I would be cautious about tipping out would probably be yoghurts and pots of things like double cream, which I don't buy very often.

Soberinthecity · Today 20:12

PeachyPeachTrees · Today 18:57

Some people have narrow Victorian hall and can't put into bags at door. Everyone just needs to do what is quicker considering their house.

No Victorian hallway is too narrow for shopping bags, surely? How do you get the crates down then? But yes, I agree - everyone should do works for them which kind of makes this entire post a bit of a moot point.

Pinkflamingo10 · Today 20:15

My Tesco man brings the crates in onto my kitchen table. we take the groceries out onto the kitchen counters.
Tesco man brings away the empty crates.
why involve bags ?!!!

Crankyoldwoman · Today 20:16

SilenceInside · Yesterday 11:59

I also chuck into bags at the door so the driver can get going again.

We are a lovely bunch of people doing the driver a favour. Continually I have been reading that we do things quicker so the driver can get on their way. What we are enabling is the bloody supermarket to come up with these half arsed ideas to make it easier for the bloody supermarket. Why do we have deliveries, we do not have to go to the actual store! Now here we are loading our bags up at checkout (front door) to do exactly what we want to avoid, by paying for a delivery. So we are actually paying for a delivery to pack our own shopping (that we pay to have done for us) I personally have had some lovely drivers who help pack up the bags to make it quicker for them to get away, also they do not hurry me and are very courteous. The point is why am I doing a delivery shop and having to pack up my items at my own front door, Morrisons pull your fingers out and stop abusing the drivers who have been a constant through thick and thin, doing up to and over 40 deliveries a day. Also, I was never informed about the delivery changes, did this happen to anyone else?

Blackcat2026 · Today 20:19

Kelvina · Yesterday 11:57

I also chunk in bags so the driver can head off and I can unpack at my own leisure... I thought that was normal?

Yep, this is what I do! Thought this was normal! I keep big shopping bags by the front door when I have a delivery due.

Mere1 · Today 20:21

I use Ocado who deliver in recyclable bags. They charge for these and refund at the next delivery when you return the bags.

moomoo1967 · Today 20:25

Spanielsandpups · Yesterday 11:53

Please help me understand why would you unpack food delivered to your house into bags?

I obviously understand if you would struggle to lift the heavy trays that putting it into bags is better.

but my friend was over when I had my shopping delivered and she couldn’t understand why I carry the trays into my kitchen and not unpack into bags.

as I am physically able to carry the trays, how is it easier to unload into bags then unload again into kitchen ??

So you hold up the driver by taking the trays into the house and unloading them ? Leaving the driver waiting at the door instead of him being able to be on his way

Russiandollsaresofullofthemselves · Today 20:28

when you get to your kitchen do you then dump out the crates? if you are taking your time unpacking them then I think it’s unreasonable to keep the driver waiting.