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Airbnb Host taking the piss

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crikeymikey123 · Yesterday 20:21

I’m staying in an Airbnb and working from my laptop. The Wi-Fi in my room was unreliable, and I had an important meeting, so I moved into the kitchen. The host suggested I use the spare bedroom instead for more privacy, and I’ve been working in there ever since. Some of her laundry was drying in the room.
After work, she walked in without knocking to collect a few items while I was in the middle of an important video interview. She also asked me to remove my own drying laundry from the room. Separately, I’ve asked her each night to turn the heating on, but she hasn’t.
Am I being unreasonable to expect her to knock before entering?

OP posts:
RVectensian · Yesterday 21:06

crikeymikey123 · Yesterday 21:02

Yeah, I think i'm gonna ask for a wi-fi extender
I'm a freelancer, so I'm paying but got a lot of meetings/workshops for 3 weeks

Why wouldn't you just buy one?

Luvvlyjubbly · Yesterday 21:06

A WiFi extender is the answer , if she won’t get one tell your employer you need one on expenses, they don’t cost much

RVectensian · Yesterday 21:07

She probably just expected someone to use WiFi for WhatsApp and the odd stream. Not someone planning a full blown remote working arrangement.

Leopardspota · Yesterday 21:08

crikeymikey123 · Yesterday 20:52

I'm entitled to wi-fi though, she's sold the room with wifi and it's not workable...

There’s a huge difference between ‘has wifi’ and can be relied upon to have important work meetings. It’s not a co-working space. My home WiFi has failed a few times for various reasons and my husband has to tether to his work mobile, and we have good WiFi in London.

your work should be paying for somewhere suitable to work if they’ve asked you to be away.

LondonLass2026 · Yesterday 21:10

What is she even doing there?

Glitterballofdreams · Yesterday 21:13

If it’s for work, I’m assuming your employer will be paying for accommodation- move to a hotel!

Cla7 · Yesterday 21:14

This sounds like a story that has two sides…you’ve rented a room, not the entire house. In your room, you have the right to privacy, but I don’t think you can blame the owner for entering a room you haven’t rented. I also don’t think you can dry your clothes anywhere other than in your room or the dryer provided.

Cracklecandley · Yesterday 21:15

crikeymikey123 · Yesterday 21:02

Yeah, I think i'm gonna ask for a wi-fi extender
I'm a freelancer, so I'm paying but got a lot of meetings/workshops for 3 weeks

So maybe don’t hire a room in an air BnB unless you’re on an exceptionally tight budget. You are working.

Aluna · Yesterday 21:16

Arbourimage · Yesterday 21:05

Why have you rented an Airbnb to do loads of virtual meetings in the first place? It’s an odd decision.
She’s not going to set up a WiFi extender because you have so many video calls. The WiFi is expected for general use and browsing, it’s not a co working space with guaranteed internet speeds.

Right.

Some Airbnbs and normal bnbs don’t allow working from the room. It’s a bed and breakfast not a hotel. You should always ask ahead of time if the host is ok with it and whether the WiFi is reliable enough.

Cracklecandley · Yesterday 21:17

The host was actually really nice to offer you the spare room!

You shouldn’t have hired a room in someone else’s home for 3 weeks of meetings Op

arethereanyleftatall · Yesterday 21:17

I think the owner would not be expecting someone renting an Airbnb room to be in her house all day, using it as an office. If you book a bedroom, and they’re often really cheap, it’s implied that you need a bed to sleep in. That’s it. That is what I have used these types of Airbnb for. Not rooms to dry laundry in, not have confidential meetings.

Aluna · Yesterday 21:18

Cla7 · Yesterday 21:14

This sounds like a story that has two sides…you’ve rented a room, not the entire house. In your room, you have the right to privacy, but I don’t think you can blame the owner for entering a room you haven’t rented. I also don’t think you can dry your clothes anywhere other than in your room or the dryer provided.

It’s actually very nice of the host to offer another room in her house. But if you haven’t paid for it you have zero right to it’s exclusive use.

OP should have booked an exclusive use studio and established if they WiFi was fast enough for business before booking. Or a budget hotel.

RVectensian · Yesterday 21:21

LondonLass2026 · Yesterday 21:10

What is she even doing there?

She lives there! Air BnB isn't just whole properties.

Boatfield · Yesterday 21:23

The lack of basic comprehension on this thread is staggering.

Lunde · Yesterday 21:23

So the "spare room" is not the room you are renting? But you have been using it for work and laundry?

Endoadnowarrior · Yesterday 21:23

crikeymikey123 · Yesterday 20:38

@Terrribletwos I'm based in Leeds but have been asked to be in London for a few weeks for meetings. I'm staying in an Airbnb and working remotely mostly

Well that makes little to no sense!
If you are working remotely why does it matter if you're in London???

crikeymikey123 · Yesterday 21:25

@Endoadnowarrior coz i'm doing workshops / meetings for 1-2 days each week, the rest of the time I need to WFH

OP posts:
Lunde · Yesterday 21:25

Terrribletwos · Yesterday 20:47

So, yet again @crikeymikey123 she should not be coming into your room. Regard this as an hotel. She should be absolutely definitely not be coming into your space for any reason..end of.

I don't think she is coming into OP's room - OP has moved herself into a second room to do work meetings

ProudCat · Yesterday 21:26

And dry their clothes.

Cracklecandley · Yesterday 21:26

You really should have splurged on a travel lodge given you’re using this host’s room essentially as your home and office for 3 weeks!

AnotherForumUser · Yesterday 21:27

LondonLass2026 · Yesterday 21:10

What is she even doing there?

Living there! That's how airbnb began. People renting out spare bedrooms for a short time. The OP rented ONE bedroom but is using two. And then getting indignant when the host dares to use her own home.

Lunde · Yesterday 21:28

LondonLass2026 · Yesterday 21:10

What is she even doing there?

Is it so hard to understand - OP has literally rented a room in this woman's house - like a temporary lodger. But OP has started using a second room to hold her work meetings and hang her laundry and the woman thinks she's a CF

Aluna · Yesterday 21:30

crikeymikey123 · Yesterday 21:25

@Endoadnowarrior coz i'm doing workshops / meetings for 1-2 days each week, the rest of the time I need to WFH

Why not simply come up to London for the 2 days per week?

crikeymikey123 · Yesterday 21:31

@Aluna Need to network here and go to events, etc

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RVectensian · Yesterday 21:33

Did she know you were planning on working full time from her house? That’ll be why she very diplomatically evicted you from the kitchen, I’m amazed that you thought setting up shop there was appropriate.