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Adults at petting zoos/farms/kids days out

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ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 12:42

Has anyone else noticed a massive uptick in grown adults (many in late teens and 20s) going on days out aimed at kids/young families? I’m finding it increasingly irritating - small children having to queue behind grown adults to stroke rabbits or see tanks of fish.

(Exception where there is clearly a disability at play)

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Zov · 19/10/2026 19:34

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:33

In this case enough joy for 10 people and the adults muscled in. Arseholes!

Are you OK? Do you need a brandy and a lie down? 🤔

Zov · 19/10/2026 19:37

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:34

Not as much as everyone is enjoying the outrage over an inoffensive topic..

'Inoffensive' IN YOUR OPINION.

A lot of people are not outraged, just gobsmacked that anyone has such a weird and batshit opinion, and so much anger towards adults doing things that children enjoy too.

Why does it fill you with so much rage? Have a Snickers Bar, you're not you when you're hungry!

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:38

XenoBitch · 19/10/2026 19:34

Anyone muscling in is rude, but if they were queuing, then what is the problem.

If you can’t see why depriving a little kid the chance of meeting a lamb is an arsehole move, then you basically have zero sense of what being an adult means.

I think everyone on here is pretending they ‘don’t know what the problem is’ - or at least, I hope they’re pretending.

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Shakeoffyourchains · 19/10/2026 19:38

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 12:54

I didn’t get the opportunity to go on the teacup rides, doesn’t mean I’m going to do it at 35!

Maybe you should. Might make you less uptight 🤷‍♀️

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:39

Zov · 19/10/2026 19:37

'Inoffensive' IN YOUR OPINION.

A lot of people are not outraged, just gobsmacked that anyone has such a weird and batshit opinion, and so much anger towards adults doing things that children enjoy too.

Why does it fill you with so much rage? Have a Snickers Bar, you're not you when you're hungry!

So much anger 😂😂 compared to the calm and inoffensive replies I’ve had do you mean 😬

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WiddlinDiddlin · 19/10/2026 19:39

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:30

Because adults who take joy from little kids are arseholes, there I said it 🤷‍♀️

But adults who sit down to rip the piss out of the joy other people (of all ages) find in all sorts of things you do not happen to like... well they're just fine?

Zov · 19/10/2026 19:39

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:38

If you can’t see why depriving a little kid the chance of meeting a lamb is an arsehole move, then you basically have zero sense of what being an adult means.

I think everyone on here is pretending they ‘don’t know what the problem is’ - or at least, I hope they’re pretending.

Nope. No-one is pretending. We really cannot see why you're full of so much rage.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:40

WiddlinDiddlin · 19/10/2026 19:39

But adults who sit down to rip the piss out of the joy other people (of all ages) find in all sorts of things you do not happen to like... well they're just fine?

What ‘all sorts of things’ have I criticised?

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ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:40

Zov · 19/10/2026 19:39

Nope. No-one is pretending. We really cannot see why you're full of so much rage.

Rage 😂

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Zov · 19/10/2026 19:40

Shakeoffyourchains · 19/10/2026 19:38

Maybe you should. Might make you less uptight 🤷‍♀️

Yep.

PrettyPickle · 19/10/2026 19:40

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:30

Because adults who take joy from little kids are arseholes, there I said it 🤷‍♀️

Nobody is taking joy from little kids, they are paying visitors and they just have to wait their turn, whether its an adult or a kid before them. You are being irrationally mean here.

Zov · 19/10/2026 19:41

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:40

Rage 😂

Yep. Your last few posts have been full of rage and froth, and anger towards people just enjoying themselves.

Do you know why? Is there any reason why you feel so angry towards people?

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ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:41

PrettyPickle · 19/10/2026 19:40

Nobody is taking joy from little kids, they are paying visitors and they just have to wait their turn, whether its an adult or a kid before them. You are being irrationally mean here.

They’re likely dim and fairly selfish adults who prioritise themselves over some small kids who have probably been excited to feed a lamb all day. Only to see a Disney loving 50 year old woman queue an hour in advance to beat them to it. Sorry but that’s tragic!

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ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:42

Zov · 19/10/2026 19:41

Yep. Your last few posts have been full of rage and froth, and anger towards people just enjoying themselves.

Do you know why? Is there any reason why you feel so angry towards people?

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I’m lying in bed with the radio on drinking a hot chocolate. Your projection is wild!

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Zov · 19/10/2026 19:42

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:41

They’re likely dim and fairly selfish adults who prioritise themselves over some small kids who have probably been excited to feed a lamb all day. Only to see a Disney loving 50 year old woman queue an hour in advance to beat them to it. Sorry but that’s tragic!

Oh dear. 😐

XenoBitch · 19/10/2026 19:42

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:41

They’re likely dim and fairly selfish adults who prioritise themselves over some small kids who have probably been excited to feed a lamb all day. Only to see a Disney loving 50 year old woman queue an hour in advance to beat them to it. Sorry but that’s tragic!

I think it is pretty dim to refuse to share a bed with your DH just because he enjoys Warhammer.

Zov · 19/10/2026 19:42

What on earth has brought all of this on @ExtraHotDoubleShot

What has happened to make you have such strong, angry feelings about this?

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FettleOfKish · 19/10/2026 19:43

We’re on holiday and went to an animal based attraction today. DS was free, we (and every other adult) paid €30 each, why should he get priority over any part of it?? There were lots of families there but also some groups of adults and plenty of couples without kids.

Ps.. you should go on the teacups OP. Life is for living. Be carefree, be silly, you’ll be long dead.

Zov · 19/10/2026 19:43

XenoBitch · 19/10/2026 19:42

I think it is pretty dim to refuse to share a bed with your DH just because he enjoys Warhammer.

This. ^

XenoBitch · 19/10/2026 19:43

I can't believe no one has posted this yet.

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WellyBellyBoo · 19/10/2026 19:43

I lov animals so would happily pay to hold a rabbit or feed a lamb etc. Just as I enjoy the safari park to look at bigger animals. It's not about being nostalgic for my childhood or acting like a child, it's about a love of animals.

Myweeklyocado · 19/10/2026 19:43

I’ve taken entire groups of children to petting zoos and other attractions, and no - their joy is not ruined by an adult being there and getting involved in the activities they too have paid for 😂 they didn’t even comment!

No one was deprived of a theme park ride or meeting a rabbit or whatever.

The only people that are bothered are miserable spiteful adults who lack the brains to see that these groups of adults (often all paying full price tickets) are actually providing much needed revenue for these venues.

Without them they would either hike up the prices of all the tickets including child tickets or close down.

DogsandFlowers · 19/10/2026 19:44

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 19/10/2026 12:44

If I pay my money I'm stroking a rabbit.

Word.

EmpressOfTheThread · 19/10/2026 19:44

WiddlinDiddlin · 19/10/2026 19:39

But adults who sit down to rip the piss out of the joy other people (of all ages) find in all sorts of things you do not happen to like... well they're just fine?

Quite!

ExtraHotDoubleShot · 19/10/2026 19:44

XenoBitch · 19/10/2026 19:42

I think it is pretty dim to refuse to share a bed with your DH just because he enjoys Warhammer.

Luckily this hasn’t happened!

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