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PIP isn't fit for purpose

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Ljcrow · 14/10/2026 09:01

I made this comment on another thread and thought I'd start a separate thread purely on this topic. This is all from my own personal experience rather than from reading/hearing anything, I'm only going off what I see day to day.
The people I know who claim PIP do not need it financially. One works full time and earns more than me (and I'm not at imminent risk of homelessness or starvation) and the young people I know literally tell me things like their PIP's come in so they're off to get a new tattoo, which they then do. They appear to have much more disposable income than me.
These are all people who can function in society by the way and as far as I can see, all PIP does is give them extra spending money, which I'm sure we'd all like.

I'm aware this won't be the case for everyone who recieves PIP but it is for the people I come into regular contact with. Which is why it needs reloooking at so it only goes to those who actually need the money for a specific purpose related to their disability.

We're not in a position as a society where we can afford to give people money who do not actually need it.
Things like this should be means tested, both in terms of whether people have enough income to live a decent life without additional benefits and in terms of what the money is actually going to be used for.
PIP is not fit for purpose and needs scrapping or totally changing.

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Lomonald · 14/10/2026 10:41

Seymour5 · 14/10/2026 10:38

The problem with trying to discuss benefits of any type is that people take it personally.

Because it is personal that is why people respond like they do, you can say oh "im not talking about you" until the cows come home, but most original posters of these threads are meaning it personal they are aiming their "opinions" at all disabled and ill people.

OhMyGodSusan · 14/10/2026 10:42

Chenecinquantecinq · 14/10/2026 10:37

Agree I am Deputy for a disable relative who has multiple disabilities and was cared for by my grandparents till they died in their 80's. Not a penny off the state till they died. The system is broken which means that truly disabled people like my relative lose out as the waiting lists for appointments with SS etc are enormous. I know of people who claim PIP get Motability, UC and then get botox go out all the time. It's become a joke.

If they do that then report them.

Bikenutz · 14/10/2026 10:43

Ljcrow · 14/10/2026 09:12

It's 100% true but I obviously can't prove it. Work a day where I work and you'd see and hear it for yourself.

You need to understand human psychology: people do not often like to admit they are struggling, either for money or when living with their condition. People have pride.

And if they have been struggling for a long time, it is not uncommon for someone to think ‘fuck it’ and treat themselves to something nice to boost their mental health, even if they cannot really afford it.

And my god, if you’re living with a disability, particularly if it causes you pain or inconvenience daily, you need to feel there’s something to look forward to.

It is also very common for people who have very little financially to tell others they are spending their benefits on something non-essential. It’s unhelpful to the society because it encourages benefit bashing, but it’s usually a pride thing that helps the individual to feel seen as canny rather than dependent.

malefields · 14/10/2026 10:43

I don’t think you are wrong but you’ll get nowhere with this because it’s a government issue and there’s very little that can be done about it unless the rules change.

I know two very egregious cases but what can be done about it? It’s not illegal to spend your PIP money in Botox and hair extensions and still be behind on bills.

The bad part is that claimants like that will inevitably screw it up for others. PIP is a very good thing on principle.

ElizabethNatalie · 14/10/2026 10:44

Ljcrow · 14/10/2026 09:14

Honestly, I'm off work sick so spending time on mumsnet where I wouldn't usually. I wasn't aware. I am genuine. I understand my opinion may upset you but it's my opinion nonetheless.

I think you make a really good point. But then I also think the earth is flat and JFK is alive.

floppybit · 14/10/2026 10:44

I know a number of people, particularly teenagers whose parents are in on it, who take the absolute piss with PIP, but if you say that on here you just get called a liar. I have a disabled brother who has been refused and really struggles so I find it quite upsetting. Of course there are many genuine claimants, but any system is going to be exploited by those who know how to play it, unfortunately. The OP understands that PIP isn’t means tested but we need to be able to discuss whether it should be without biting each other’s heads off as the country now pays out more in welfare than it receives in tax from those working.

Ljcrow · 14/10/2026 10:44

Bikenutz · 14/10/2026 10:43

You need to understand human psychology: people do not often like to admit they are struggling, either for money or when living with their condition. People have pride.

And if they have been struggling for a long time, it is not uncommon for someone to think ‘fuck it’ and treat themselves to something nice to boost their mental health, even if they cannot really afford it.

And my god, if you’re living with a disability, particularly if it causes you pain or inconvenience daily, you need to feel there’s something to look forward to.

It is also very common for people who have very little financially to tell others they are spending their benefits on something non-essential. It’s unhelpful to the society because it encourages benefit bashing, but it’s usually a pride thing that helps the individual to feel seen as canny rather than dependent.

Interesting points, I hadn't thought of it that way. Perhaps that's sometimes the case but I'm not convinced it always is.

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Chenecinquantecinq · 14/10/2026 10:44

They get all the benefits they are entitled to I would not be fulfilling my role as Deputy if they didn't! My point is the system is clogged up with "disabled" people who aren't imo disabled.

TheSeventh · 14/10/2026 10:44

We must stop the ill and disabled from having any joy in life, sod the long term social and health repercussions of such a policy!

Merrybandofpirates · 14/10/2026 10:44

Ljcrow · 14/10/2026 10:41

It's just how the conversation went. It happened whether you want to believe it or not. People often say they can't wait to get paid because they're going to spend money on x,y or z. I think that's fairly normal.

Edited

And again, you’re not responding to the people who are writing about how the spending actually works and the thought process behind it. You only reply to people who say they don’t believe you or anyone you can argue with without going into specifics.

Why did you post?

You can’t reply to everyone so start ignoring those posters instead, and reply to the people engaging in the discussion you started.

TigerRag · 14/10/2026 10:45

Frenzi · 14/10/2026 10:31

My daughter gets PIP as she has epilepsy. It helps her to be able to work part time (her epilepsy is often triggered by tiredness and she has lost a number of full time jobs due to having to ring in sick as she has had a night full of seizures), helps her pay for taxis and buses (she cannot drive due to the epilepsy).

As she only works part time, because of her epilepsy, she sometimes uses her PIP to buy clothes and go out! I must remember to tell her that she mustn't use her PIP for anything nice from now on.

If she can't drive due to her epilepsy, has your daughter looked into a disabled person's bus pass? This is free and she needs to apply through her local council

ElizabethNatalie · 14/10/2026 10:46

Ljcrow · 14/10/2026 10:44

Interesting points, I hadn't thought of it that way. Perhaps that's sometimes the case but I'm not convinced it always is.

Can I ask you something, and this is genuine. I would really love an honest answer. Are you disabled?

changenameagain555 · 14/10/2026 10:46

MidnightPatrol · 14/10/2026 09:47

It is not sustainable to provide sickness and disability benefits at the rate we are - £100billion in total separate to those claiming this year, forecast to be £130 billion by 2030.

We have a higher number of the population reporting needing disability and sickness benefits than any other country. We have seen faster growth of this group than any other country - the number of claimants has increased 60% in five years

10% of the population is claiming some of sickness or disability benefit, 7 million people. 4.7 million of those are of working age.

Let that sink in. That is crazy.

The country cannot afford this - and yes it’s legitimate to say ‘is this money going to the right people, and in the right amounts’.

Those who react emotionally and accuse those of challenging it as cruel in some way - do you really see this as a sustainable situation? Where do you think the money should come from to fund it?

Why has the UK suddenly got such a huge issue with this compared to comparable nations?

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Maybe because we have a national health service and other countries do not? A significant amount of PIP and DLA spending goes on accessing services that are not available through the NHS but should be and are available in other countries through health insurance etc. I suspect it would actually cost the country more to correctly provide these services through the NHS than to give people the money via PIP to then spend on the services through the private sector. I am particularly referring to mental health support but I'm sure it applies to physical disabilities/ therapies etc too.

Ljcrow · 14/10/2026 10:47

Merrybandofpirates · 14/10/2026 10:44

And again, you’re not responding to the people who are writing about how the spending actually works and the thought process behind it. You only reply to people who say they don’t believe you or anyone you can argue with without going into specifics.

Why did you post?

You can’t reply to everyone so start ignoring those posters instead, and reply to the people engaging in the discussion you started.

I've literally just responded to someone who made some good points in counter to my argument. Look further up the thread on this page. If someone is misrepresenting what I've said or accusing me of lying, I'm going to respond.

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floppybit · 14/10/2026 10:48

Also, anyone who works and pays tax has a right to discuss how the government is spending our money.

PrettyPickle · 14/10/2026 10:48

@Ljcrow I think there's a misunderstanding about what PIP is for. PIP isn't a means-tested benefit and it isn't intended to provide a basic income. It's intended to help with the extra costs that can arise from living with a disability or long-term health condition.

Someone can be working full time and still face significant additional costs compared with a non-disabled colleague. For example, an amputee might need to spend hundreds of pounds a month on taxis because public transport isn't always accessible in practice, or because weather conditions make walking unsafe. Someone with chronic fatigue, autism, severe anxiety, sensory issues, mobility problems or chronic pain may need to pay for transport, practical support, specialist equipment, higher utility bills or other disability-related expenses.

If PIP helps that person stay in work and remain independent, the state may actually spend less overall than if the person's condition deteriorates and they end up unable to work and relying on means-tested benefits as well.

The fact that some people use part of their income on non-essential things such as tattoos doesn't prove they don't need PIP. Money is fungible. If PIP covers disability-related costs, the money they were previously spending on those costs becomes available for other things, just as anyone else's disposable income would be.

It's perfectly reasonable to debate whether the assessment system is working properly, whether some people qualify who shouldn't, or whether the criteria need reform (I think it does as delays for claimants are too long and its not working). But seeing a claimant in work, owning nice things, or occasionally spending money on luxuries doesn't in itself show they are not entitled to PIP.

I would also challenge your assumption that because they can see someone buying a tattoo, they can see the whole financial picture. What they don't see may be: £200 a month on taxis, A cleaner because the person cannot manage household tasks, Higher heating costs from being at home more. Prescription costs, specialist items, continence products, dietary requirements, or mobility aids. Reduced working hours compared with what they could otherwise do.

The strongest argument, in my view, isn't "everyone on PIP needs it". It's:
"You can argue about where the eligibility line should be drawn, but judging entitlement by whether someone has a job or occasionally buys themselves something nice misunderstands what PIP is designed to do."

nevertrustanyoneagain · 14/10/2026 10:48

I don’t claim universal credit as I have savings. My enhanced indefinite pip is being saved for household improvements. For my disability. I have a steam shower which my dr recommended and a jacuzzi for my circulation m. An electric bed to help me get up. I have dysphagia so I have to buy my supplements in liquid form and just bought a nutribullet so I don’t have to have the god awful drink thickening on prescription. I am saving the pip at the moment for a new kitchen with one part adaptive for me and the rest usable for my family. Then I will save for a wet room. I work full time but minimum wage from home. Do you begrudge me this?

Trumpisacunt · 14/10/2026 10:49

Ok I'll bite ,I work full-time and use my pip for blow drys and having my nails done BECAUSE they are the things my disability now prevents me doing for myself .Pip is designed to pay towards the extra costs one incurs as a result of a their disability and that is exactly what I use it for ..

pizzaHeart · 14/10/2026 10:49

You are not doing thinking here OP. The mentioning of tattoo might be just a small tiny fact . Very often disabled young adults haven’t got much opportunities for actually doing something. Mine can’t apply make up herself so don’t use it at all, limited in what clothes and footwear she can wear, she can’t cope with accessories sensory and can’t actually physically put them on/ off. If the mentioned young adult in a similar situation this tattoo might be the only rare way for them to do something for themselves. Think about how many things they can’t do or really struggle to do. Many disabled young adults can’t d even go to places by themselves - they need someone with them or where you and me will walk or cycle or drive - disabled person needs a taxi. A lot of them can’t do their nails so need to pay someone, can’t clean their teeth properly so need extra visits to hygienist, they need specially adapted clothes and footwear which both are expensive. It’s just a few things.
You know nothing about the reality of disability expenses.

added: and when I say “can’t do their nails” I mean mine can’t file or cut them physically at all - she needs another person to do so. We are not talking about such extra as nail polish we are talking about basic hygiene.

Ihateboris · 14/10/2026 10:49

It should be means tested

Frenzi · 14/10/2026 10:49

TigerRag · 14/10/2026 10:45

If she can't drive due to her epilepsy, has your daughter looked into a disabled person's bus pass? This is free and she needs to apply through her local council

Thank you - we will look into that. It would be a great help for her.

Lugol · 14/10/2026 10:51

CatkinToadflax · 14/10/2026 10:39

I always find it really interesting on these threads that so many people know someone who’s claiming fraudulently but they wouldn’t dream of reporting them. Why not, if you know for absolute certain that they’re committing fraud?

Having had many years of completing DLA and PIP forms for my son, the bit I don’t understand is how people without disabilities can gather proof of their fake disability to be approved for PIP. Yes they could write any old nonsense on the form, but we have always had to provide additional paperwork from medical professionals, therapists etc in support of my son’s claim. I don’t understand how the fakers manage to provide the required evidence.

I would and have reported people. I don't give a shit if someone has a problem with that.

notnorman · 14/10/2026 10:52

It might be good to look at means testing. I used to claim pip but I didn’t ‘need’ the money.

PrettyPickle · 14/10/2026 10:52

Ihateboris · 14/10/2026 10:49

It should be means tested

Then you misunderstand what it's for.

StockingsByTheFire · 14/10/2026 10:52

Ljcrow · 14/10/2026 09:16

I don't hate the disabled, I think PIP is given out too freely to people who don't necessarily need it. I've been told I could claim PIP myself but as I can manage financially, I won't.

I think you make an interesting point about it not being means tested. But I think that slightly sorts itself out, e.g. I have a child who has pip. We have very high household expenses because we have several DC and so whilst our income is high, so are our outgoings and the pip really helps with the additional costs for DC.

In the next couple of years we are hoping for a.couple of events to have come to fruition that will mean we will be very comfortable. Will I then bother to fill out that feck awful form for a £100 a week top up? Definitely not. Because I don't need it and it's an absolute ball ache.

I think the issue is the level of fraud, not the income of the fraudsters. Everyone's "what am I like, I'm so on the spectrum" or "omg I'm neurospicy" because they like the attention and the way to access a non means tested funding pot. Which feels like a punch in the gut when you've raised a child who would crawl through broken glass to not have the problems their genuine ND condition brings.

There will always be abusers of the system. Always. Is it easier to abuse now? Definitely.

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