You are. But it isn’t as black and white as people think if they don’t actually claim.
My ds has a degenerative neuron muscular condition.
he can sometimes walk - sometimes not.
he drives an adapted (auto) car as sometimes he can straighten his R leg and sometimes he can’t. He cannot feel his left one below the knee so isn’t allowed to drive a manual.
His PIP gets spent regularly on Swimming and gym membership. Sometimes on ordering food in.
looms like luxury but sometimes I’m not around to cook for him and because of a tremor it’s not safe to do it himself. From the outside he’s ordering over eats. The truth is different. The swimming and gym help maintain what function he has. For some it’s a luxury - for him it’s a necessity.
Sometimes it’s spent on socks. £14 for 3 pairs of white sports socks that can be worn with hai splints and are reinforced heel and toe and help maintain a regular heat to his foot he cannot feel. Then winter socks are £15 a pair as he needs proper thermal ones - again - due to the fact he can’t register if his foot is cold or not and that creates a danger.
So you can translate what people tell you are make it sound like a luxury b it the truth is for many that extra is a necessity.
Someone getting a tattoo could be using that as therapy because a tattoo helps their MH. They could spend it on a therapist instead but that doesn’t always do what the alternative achieves.
The system will always be different for some than others, benefit some more than others and seem unfair. But there has to be a system. And not all systems can be changed to make it equal for everyone.
technically I could claim PIP for chronic cluster headaches (I’m in remission now). I chose not to because the system is so adversarial and I believe that for everyone one who “knows” someone who “doesn’t need it” ITO there’s someone out there not claiming.