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Would you kill 10000 people to save the person you love most?

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CurdinHenry · 05/10/2026 19:12

Context -

You would just have to press a button and you wouldn't have to see it happen

You would be guaranteed not to know any of them beforehand

No one would know it was you unless you confessed

Yanbu yes
Yabu no

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Dancingspleen1 · 07/10/2026 21:59

CurdinHenry · 05/10/2026 19:43

And yes precisely. Who even gives up a family holiday to send money to save an African school from malaria. Basically nobody.

I would kill the whole world to save my children. I know that the aftermath would be really really bad and thus probably an overall wrong move but I still would (sorry everyone).

I don't think your example is the same at all. I think many people would give up a family holiday if it saved some kids from malaria if that were ever a choice. Its all hypothetical but a holiday is hardly much of a sacrifice at all!

Cojones · 08/10/2026 01:35

If the 10,000 were a zombie horde and beyond saving then I might be able to justify killing them. I don’t think I could gratuitously kill 10,000 to save one member of my family. Understand, it would break my heart to lose the one person but the guilt of being a mass murderer is not for me.

Man’s inhumanity to man is already pretty appalling. And as for the cruelty meted out to animals…

ZeStreoving · 08/10/2026 10:13

Button pressed.

Would you kill 10000 people to save the person you love most?
LostThestral · 08/10/2026 10:21

MsDitsy · 07/10/2026 21:39

Could I choose which 10,000 I'd kill,? 'I would start with paedos, animal abusers and Domestic abusers.

Those would come next - I would start with Trump

PurpleAxe · 08/10/2026 23:26

BIossomtoes · 07/10/2026 08:33

Love doesn’t have “standards”.

Maybe not, but natural selection does.

Fine with me if other mothers are not willing to kill for their kids.

Makes my kids safer and I AM willing to do whatever so their chances are even higher.

It isn't "love", it is investment.

spinningpenguin · 08/10/2026 23:55

Lonelycrab · 05/10/2026 19:37

What a lovely idea for a thread OP

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BadLad · 09/10/2026 03:20

I don’t have children so the person I care most about is my wife. Yes, I would kill 10,000 other people to save her life.

I wouldn’t feel guilty about it, because obviously I’d rather nobody had to die. The person to blame would be whoever put me in that position in the first place. I’d consider it like the contestants in the squid game who wanted out but couldn’t leave and so were forced to kill each other to survive.

MaIeficent · 09/10/2026 07:09

BadLad · 09/10/2026 03:20

I don’t have children so the person I care most about is my wife. Yes, I would kill 10,000 other people to save her life.

I wouldn’t feel guilty about it, because obviously I’d rather nobody had to die. The person to blame would be whoever put me in that position in the first place. I’d consider it like the contestants in the squid game who wanted out but couldn’t leave and so were forced to kill each other to survive.

Surely you'd feel a little bad that 10,000 families had lost a loved one to save you losing one?

MaIeficent · 09/10/2026 07:15

It's an interesting thought experiment because you could apply a similar logic to other things like the Israel/Palestine conflict and other wars. How many thousand civilians would you kill if you knew there was a terrorist amongst them that posed a threat to your family etc?

TealSapphire · 09/10/2026 08:11

Oh this place...

Would you steal from a supermarket? Oh no never I could not live with myself.

Would you kill 10,000 people? Yep and wouldn't bat an eyelid.

🤣

Comtesse · 09/10/2026 08:19

TealSapphire · 09/10/2026 08:11

Oh this place...

Would you steal from a supermarket? Oh no never I could not live with myself.

Would you kill 10,000 people? Yep and wouldn't bat an eyelid.

🤣

AND I wouldn’t feel guilty AND that makes me a better mum than you. Lollll…..

PrettyLittleRose · 09/10/2026 08:25

TealSapphire · 09/10/2026 08:11

Oh this place...

Would you steal from a supermarket? Oh no never I could not live with myself.

Would you kill 10,000 people? Yep and wouldn't bat an eyelid.

🤣

😆

PrettyLittleRose · 09/10/2026 08:25

Comtesse · 09/10/2026 08:19

AND I wouldn’t feel guilty AND that makes me a better mum than you. Lollll…..

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