There are a few issues w our current system.
Firstly, we subsidise companies not paying a decent wage. For me that is absolutely bonkers. You cant run a country like that. Outgoings outstripping income equals future catastrophe.
Secondly, and this may be controversial, is that whilst everyone has a right to have children, rights come w responsibilities. I do believe western societies do not emphasise that if you have children, the social contract is you pay for them.
We had one even though my partner wanted two. Why? We cant afford two. Thats it. For us it wasnt an option to rely on the state, its just not something either of our families believe in.
That said, I do believe we need to focus on state subsidised childcare. That would allow parents to go to work, pay tax etc.
Another option could be that large employers provide no-profit childcare for employees. They charge cost covering but dont profit from the childcare.
I am all for families and for supporting those in need. That only works if people dont abuse the system.