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To be secretly happy my least favourite colleague has been sacked?

114 replies

iwonderwhyitearmyself · Yesterday 17:25

They were rude, nasty, disrespectful and never really did the work they were meant to do. They’ve been sacked with immediate effect and I’ll never see them again.

AIBU to secretly be glad that the arrogant knob has finally faced some consequences for their actions?!

OP posts:
Blimms · Yesterday 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

Canonlythinkofthisone · Yesterday 17:28

Nothing better than when the rubbish gets a helping hand out. Don't be smug about it, but you're allowed a moment of satisfaction. Ignore PP.

Idontjetwashthefucker · Yesterday 17:29

Disagree with the PP, I'd be absolutely delighted

Askandyforcompo · Yesterday 17:29

God, absolutely not! I'm overjoyed that someone was sacked from my old workplace this year, and I left 7 years ago. The man was a sexist pig who disrespected his colleagues and was complained about constantly. But the spineless management did nothing about it for years

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 17:29

What a result OP! 😍xx

Natsku · Yesterday 17:31

Many of us were very happy at work when one particularly person got fired, because of his misogyny and bullying attitude.

Weirdly I kinda miss him now, not because of him but because the shared bitching about him was rather fun. Though I actually got on alright with him, think I was too old for him to try and bully, he went for the younger women.

TheeNotoriousPIG · Yesterday 17:32

Congratulations, OP! It gives me hope that, one day, it might happen at my workplace. As it is, we are waiting for the retirement/demise of one (it has been said that we don't ever think that they will do us the pleasure of retiring, so a back-up plan is in place) 😳

chocolateflyingpenguin · Yesterday 17:32

Sounds a great relief! I would enjoy a nice slice of schadenfreude if I were you.

Motorwayview · Yesterday 17:33

Blimms · Yesterday 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

Sod that for a game of soldiers, enjoy op.

WhateverMate · Yesterday 17:35

Not unreasonable to be secretly happy.

Starting a thread on a public chat forum is a bit OTT though.

Nofeckingway · Yesterday 17:35

Blimms · Yesterday 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

She's not going to gloat at them and do a happy dance . But she can feel glad that she no longer has to work with someone she found unpleasant.

IdaGlossop · Yesterday 17:36

You feel what you feel, so by definition you are not being unreasonable.

kxeil · Yesterday 17:37

Blimms · Yesterday 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

It’s not spiteful. It sounds like the colleague was horrible! Enjoy OP.

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 17:38

IdaGlossop · Yesterday 17:36

You feel what you feel, so by definition you are not being unreasonable.

So if you felt murderous by your definition you would be unreasonable?

Gloriousgardener11 · Yesterday 17:39

Hopefully your working environment will be a better place after this persons dismissal.
Enjoy this brief moment of satisfaction!

Fortuity · Yesterday 17:41

Blimms · Yesterday 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

Don't be silly. If colleague had behaved better, no doubt OP would have sympathised. No-one has to sympathise with someone who is habitually rude and nasty.

BridalFeastofBethChadruharazzeb · Yesterday 17:41

Blimms · Yesterday 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

Really?

I'd be dancing a jig and be proud of this as well!

NonViolentProtest · Yesterday 17:42

Karma so rarely happens in real life. Enjoy!

Mumof1andacat · Yesterday 17:44

How delightful 😊 Happy Friday !

iwonderwhyitearmyself · Yesterday 17:44

NonViolentProtest · Yesterday 17:42

Karma so rarely happens in real life. Enjoy!

It just feels like finally something had been done. They swaggered round the office like shit didn’t stick because it didn’t. Then all of a sudden today they’re terminated!

OP posts:
KilkennyCats · Yesterday 17:45

Blimms · Yesterday 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

Oh, behave yourself 😂

maudelovesharold · Yesterday 17:45

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 17:38

So if you felt murderous by your definition you would be unreasonable?

I think you mean ‘you would not be unreasonable’. And no, it’s not unreasonable to feel murderous. Obviously unreasonable to act on it.

OldWallpaper · Yesterday 17:47

Don’t even be secretly glad! 😂

SplishSplash123 · Yesterday 17:49

Not unreasonable at all to be happy! It really grinds you down working with unpleasant people.

Where I work (CS) no one ever seems to get sacked, unless they commit actual fraud - it is so demoralising knowing you take home the same pay packet as someone who faces no consequences for bullying/ineptitude/laziness etc.

Justonemorething82 · Yesterday 17:50

I can only hope for the day it happens to someone where I work. Not that they actually do any work. Aggressive when found out but still nothing done. One day..