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That it's a massive waste of time, effort, money, lives and we should just bring them over by coach and ferry.

119 replies

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 16:03

I have just watched the video from earlier today/yesterday of a migrant boat departing Boulogne. The one where the Dad (presumably) ditches his toddler in the sea in order to get onto the boat. The kid was instantly picked up by French emergency workers and it struck me that this whole situation is completely bizarre.

There were approximately half a dozen lifeguards around the boat on jet skis and paddle boards, probably also a load of police out of frame. The boat will then be shadowed by French coastguard vessels until halfway across the channel, at which point border force/RNLI will pick them up and bring them to the UK. They will then be greated by coaches, a couple of hundred riot police and some gammons before continuing to their destination.

AIBU to think that this is all a total farce and we should simply provide the coaches from the outset?

YABU - The current arrangement is best.

YANBU - Coach and ferry would be better for everyone.

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Notmycircusnotmyotter · Yesterday 19:06

Stopping them and sending them straight back. We should've stuck with Rwanda.

Mandarinaduck · Yesterday 19:06

InterestQ · Yesterday 19:04

I am probably naive in this but I think they should have an huge asylum processing place in France (for the UK) and if they bypass it, they get returned to it to start the formal process.

I suppose if they’re denied asylum the French would be not that up for it. But if they could apply without the potential for drowning that would be good.

France have proposed asylum processing on their territory for the UK. The UK did not want it. (It would act as a huge pull factor.)

HappiestSleeping · Yesterday 19:09

EmeraldRoulette · Yesterday 19:02

@HappiestSleeping the home Office figures don’t really support what you’re saying

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/immigration-system-statistics-year-ending-june-2026/how-many-people-come-to-the-uk-via-illegal-entry-routes

I’m well aware that arrivals via the channel are a small percentage but we don’t actually deport that many people either!

I’m not one of these people who says “ give me proof” like it’s a demand, but I am curious to know where you got your figures. Actual deportations are only nine or 10,000 a year? Then you add in voluntary returns, obviously that gets higher.

generally, I’m quite confused by what you’re saying

That's strange as I got my figures from the home office. Same source as you.

Inextremis · Yesterday 19:09

Thecows · Yesterday 19:04

Well don't come then, just a thought

It's not acting as a deterrent as things are - what would you do to change that? Your comment is useless.

Bushmillsbabe · Yesterday 19:14

whoopsnomore · Yesterday 18:42

I understand the French authorities have proposed the UK set up an application / processing facility in France but the UK rejected the idea. That would help, then people could follow the legal process safely. There is currently no way to apply legally and safely for most of the at risk countries of origin

The money they give to the traffickers could be an application fee instead, hopefully then that would deter the traffickers?

Although if people were found to not be eligible for asylum, then wouldn't they just attempt the crossing anyway?

Setters2020 · Yesterday 19:17

It makes me so mad, when the Conservatives were in power time & time again Labour politicians would say “What we need is safe & legal routes” ie a way for people to apply for asylum in the countries or origin , this would stop so many , not all trying to enter illegally.
Now Labour are in power where are these safe & legal routes?

Ihateboris · Yesterday 19:20

I have no idea what the answer is. But how desperate must these people be to attempt such a dangerous crossing on a small boat? I often wonder, what if the UK had a catastrophic event and we had to flee to another country? I'm not sure I'd have the bollocks to attempt such a journey, but what would be the alternative?

Mandarinaduck · Yesterday 19:21

Setters2020 · Yesterday 19:17

It makes me so mad, when the Conservatives were in power time & time again Labour politicians would say “What we need is safe & legal routes” ie a way for people to apply for asylum in the countries or origin , this would stop so many , not all trying to enter illegally.
Now Labour are in power where are these safe & legal routes?

As mentioned, Labour have introduced community sponsorship as a safe and legal route. https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/apply-for-full-community-sponsorship/community-sponsorship-guidance-for-prospective-sponsors

Community sponsorship: guidance for prospective sponsors

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/apply-for-full-community-sponsorship/community-sponsorship-guidance-for-prospective-sponsors

Cyclebabble · Yesterday 19:26

We need to turn boats around in the channel and not allow them to cross into UK waters. Assistance should be provided, but only on boats which will take illegal migrants back to France. No refugees come from France, and this ongoing small boat crisis saps the appetite to help people genuinely at risk. The Home Office's own figures shows of those granted asylum after five years only half are working and then only half again are working full time. In short there is a massive cost to us operating at such a high level of small boat landings.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · Yesterday 19:27

Won't safe and legal routes open the floodgates, even worse than now? Do the people advocating this want the country to be poorer and unrecognisable?

Cyclebabble · Yesterday 19:29

Ihateboris · Yesterday 19:20

I have no idea what the answer is. But how desperate must these people be to attempt such a dangerous crossing on a small boat? I often wonder, what if the UK had a catastrophic event and we had to flee to another country? I'm not sure I'd have the bollocks to attempt such a journey, but what would be the alternative?

The risks are actually quite limited. Boats are shadowed in French waters and then in UK waters. An uncomfortable crossing for sure, but the overwhelming majority do so safely. They are then well supported in the UK with a good prospect of getting past our flawed system to gain asylum. Once they have done this, they can access full benefits and housing, with specific support for new asylum claimants.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 19:32

YABU for using the term gammon. No, we shouldn't be making it easier for more unwanted numbers.

notanothernamesurely · Yesterday 19:35

The only viable suggestion I’ve heard is a third country (ie the Rwanda scheme) but obviously, this time, with everything in place to go through with it.

Dollymylove · Yesterday 19:37

Nope. The whole lot of them need sending back where they came from . Most are economic migrants anyway. They've heard we are the land of milk and honey ans they want a slice of it.
As for the bloke who dumped his child in the sea, do we seriously want people like this being allowed in?

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · Yesterday 19:41

Genuine international co operation on how to deal with displaced persons would probably be the most help.

Working together on establishing who is genuinely at risk in their home country, who might have skills to offer etc and then assigning people who need a safe haven to an agreed (between states) destination according to a mix of quotas and person specific criteria would be the better way.

But there goes that pig flying past my window…

notanothernamesurely · Yesterday 19:42

Dollymylove · Yesterday 19:37

Nope. The whole lot of them need sending back where they came from . Most are economic migrants anyway. They've heard we are the land of milk and honey ans they want a slice of it.
As for the bloke who dumped his child in the sea, do we seriously want people like this being allowed in?

How do you know where they came from? How do you send them back?

Although the ‘send them back’ argument is a valid one it’s these things that stop it being viable.

JasmineMac · Yesterday 19:42

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 16:03

I have just watched the video from earlier today/yesterday of a migrant boat departing Boulogne. The one where the Dad (presumably) ditches his toddler in the sea in order to get onto the boat. The kid was instantly picked up by French emergency workers and it struck me that this whole situation is completely bizarre.

There were approximately half a dozen lifeguards around the boat on jet skis and paddle boards, probably also a load of police out of frame. The boat will then be shadowed by French coastguard vessels until halfway across the channel, at which point border force/RNLI will pick them up and bring them to the UK. They will then be greated by coaches, a couple of hundred riot police and some gammons before continuing to their destination.

AIBU to think that this is all a total farce and we should simply provide the coaches from the outset?

YABU - The current arrangement is best.

YANBU - Coach and ferry would be better for everyone.

Yes, let's be the trailblazers in making border control a thing of the fucking past. No check in, no security, no visas. Make it that we'll all be able to rip up our passports! Free travel (travel costs paid for by the residents of our chosen destination).

Almost half polled actually agree with you @Ablondiebutagoody that border control is a 'farce'. I genuinely find myself wondering if there's something in the water in the UK. The phrase lunatics taking over the asylum has never felt so relevant.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · Yesterday 19:49

Whatever France are doing to make people view it as such a terrible country, so unthinkable to ever consider staying there, that they would rather risk their lives to leave it in favour of an equivalent country in terms of wealth, prosperity, privilege, developed status, quality of life and onward opportunities (well, fewer since Brexit)... could we not do the same?

I'm not against controlled, legitimate immigration to the UK at all, for those who show us the basic decency and respect of following the proper legal procedures - exactly the same as we would have to if we wanted to move to Australia, the USA and most other developed countries. But please let's stop pretending that these people are somehow still asylum seekers (even if they began as such, although curiously, their womenfolk and children apparently weren't in any danger); absolutely nobody is having to flee any western European country in fear of losing their lives, or even their basic human needs.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 19:53

JasmineMac · Yesterday 19:42

Yes, let's be the trailblazers in making border control a thing of the fucking past. No check in, no security, no visas. Make it that we'll all be able to rip up our passports! Free travel (travel costs paid for by the residents of our chosen destination).

Almost half polled actually agree with you @Ablondiebutagoody that border control is a 'farce'. I genuinely find myself wondering if there's something in the water in the UK. The phrase lunatics taking over the asylum has never felt so relevant.

Tbf both options are poor, in terms of which to vote for.

Mandarinaduck · Yesterday 19:54

Dollymylove · Yesterday 19:37

Nope. The whole lot of them need sending back where they came from . Most are economic migrants anyway. They've heard we are the land of milk and honey ans they want a slice of it.
As for the bloke who dumped his child in the sea, do we seriously want people like this being allowed in?

A majority of irregular arrivals by boat are granted asylum so are not economic migrants.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · Yesterday 19:57

notanothernamesurely · Yesterday 19:35

The only viable suggestion I’ve heard is a third country (ie the Rwanda scheme) but obviously, this time, with everything in place to go through with it.

I'm not a supporter of the Conservatives at all, but I can't actually see what the issue was in this case. If people are genuinely fleeing in fear for their lives, they will be overjoyed to reach and be accepted by a comparable but safe country.

If, however, their only acceptable goal is the wealth, prosperity and standard of living of a western European nation (although bizarrely, France doesn't seem to tick these boxes for them), and somewhere like Rwanda is outright rejected... well, at least we can do away with any remote pretence of genuine refugee/asylum status and refer them to the standard legitimate channels for applying for economic immigration to the country of their desires.

socks1107 · Yesterday 20:01

Yes good idea, coaches can all be sent to your town.
of course that’s a ridiculous idea. The French need to look at their operations and we need to process them quicker and deport them. No free life just back out as a deterrent to others

JapanesePotWeed · Yesterday 20:03

Inextremis · Yesterday 18:36

Anything that's an alternative to people risking their lives in small boats crossing the Channel would be an improvement. I've crossed the Channel on a small boat - it was a 32' yacht, crewed by people who knew what they were doing, and even so it was scary as hell being out of the sight of land in a high swell, knowing that the Channel is a busy shipping route. I can't imagine how frightening it must be crammed into an overloaded dinghy.

The alternative is stopping them from crossing the Channel! At the same time as making the destination country and unattractive option.
There are plenty of unattractive options in Europe and we should follow their lead.

2dogsandabudgie · Yesterday 20:11

Inextremis · Yesterday 18:36

Anything that's an alternative to people risking their lives in small boats crossing the Channel would be an improvement. I've crossed the Channel on a small boat - it was a 32' yacht, crewed by people who knew what they were doing, and even so it was scary as hell being out of the sight of land in a high swell, knowing that the Channel is a busy shipping route. I can't imagine how frightening it must be crammed into an overloaded dinghy.

These adults do have a choice not to get on a dinghy in the first place.

EmeraldRoulette · Yesterday 20:12

Ihateboris · Yesterday 19:20

I have no idea what the answer is. But how desperate must these people be to attempt such a dangerous crossing on a small boat? I often wonder, what if the UK had a catastrophic event and we had to flee to another country? I'm not sure I'd have the bollocks to attempt such a journey, but what would be the alternative?

the amount they’re paying to do that would cover the airfare though.

So they can get a flight here and claim asylum. So why do you think they choose this route?