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AIBU to think Burnham’s words may haunt his premiership?

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Greyrock79 · 10/09/2026 07:16

To think that Burnham’s words are going to haunt his premiership?

‘…national security can’t come at the expense of social security…’

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backformoreofthesame · 10/09/2026 09:48

You are like small siblings

Archie - I want that bike
charlie - I want this coat

mum - we don’t have enough money to get both - you’ll just have to wait

both stamp feet, that’s wrong , that’s not fair. I need the bike / coat for school. He can wait , I can’t

Mum / didn’t you both get money for your birthday / if you add that to what I have we might be able to afford it

NO that’s MY money given to ME

Pineneedlesincarpet · 10/09/2026 09:49

LancashireButterPie · 10/09/2026 09:47

Honestly, I don't know.
Is it defeatist?
Or is there some sensibility in this?
The people of Ireland seem to sleep ok at night.

Given that the US recently threatened to invade Danish territory, I don't know how reliable or trustworthy they would be as a NATO partner anymore.
In my mind I picture them as an aggressor.

The people of Ireland only sleep at night because we defend them! And they are a huge target due to the under sea cables in their waters. And they are next to the UK which is also a target and sadly cannot move their landmass away. If we get nuked so do they.

SevenYellowHammers · 10/09/2026 09:49

Pineneedlesincarpet · 10/09/2026 09:05

Its not "thick" to be scared at the moment. We have Russian subs in UK waters checking our under sea cables. We have articles saying ex army officers and soldiers are potentially going to be recalled. We have thousands of young men from countries we were at war with inflitrating our borders. We have a government intent on pissing off our allies. I think a reduction in benefits is a wholly reasonable place to start looking for cash to put in defence. And the people who don't see the danger we are in are Id suggest the "thick" ones.

We are, sadly, back to 80s mentality. It’s a shame we can’t go a generation without scaremongering. You think the world is scarier now than 1914, 1936, 1939, 1963, 1981, 2001? They keep us scared to keep us obedient.

EasternStandard · 10/09/2026 09:49

LancashireButterPie · 10/09/2026 09:47

Honestly, I don't know.
Is it defeatist?
Or is there some sensibility in this?
The people of Ireland seem to sleep ok at night.

Given that the US recently threatened to invade Danish territory, I don't know how reliable or trustworthy they would be as a NATO partner anymore.
In my mind I picture them as an aggressor.

Yes the US aren’t going to fund the EU (or us) as much anymore for defence. Hence the increased requirement.

NorthXNorthWest · 10/09/2026 09:50

LuckyHazelFox · 10/09/2026 09:37

Did I say I was referring to his election? I don't believe I did.

You talked about his voting blocs.

His actual voting bloc was Makerfield. A predominantly white, non Muslim, Northern Town.

Binnyforthewin · 10/09/2026 09:50

Pineneedlesincarpet · 10/09/2026 09:43

The Russians are against NATO. We are a leading member and a nuclear power. Thats why they are currently testing our defences. If we can't defend ourselves and the US are no longer a reliable ally then Europe is more vulnerable. And as we know Russia sees Europe as it's back yard.

There is very little point in Russia invading the UK. The UK has extinguished most of its natural resources so there isn't a lot to achieve by invading. Cut off the fuel and food supply and the UK will pretty much finish itself off.

SmallDFartyCarNRG · 10/09/2026 09:51

Meaning misinformation spreading is a Russian tactic. You either buy into the idea Russia is about to attack, despite their depleted forces and unwilling population, and spew it out on any internet forum you can - thus doing their job for them, or you recognise EU together with us would be able to stop Russia.

People know Russia isn't just attacking with physical force but via the internet and other means.

Imdunfer · 10/09/2026 09:51

Anyahyacinth · 10/09/2026 09:30

Or ……what are we protecting if we don’t have a decent society?

Military spending above nursing support for seriously disabled child who stops breathing at night? Continence care for the elderly? Pensions? They of course were seriously cut by Greece in recent years under IMF instructions so be careful what you wish for…it doesn't just attack the “undeserving”

Do you know that the Greek pension system continued to pay the father's pension after his death to his unmarried daughters for the rest of their lives?

Binnyforthewin · 10/09/2026 09:51

NorthXNorthWest · 10/09/2026 09:50

You talked about his voting blocs.

His actual voting bloc was Makerfield. A predominantly white, non Muslim, Northern Town.

It was pretty bloody obvious the poster was talking about Labour's voting blocks rather than your Makerfield bollocks.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 10/09/2026 09:51

SevenYellowHammers · 10/09/2026 09:49

We are, sadly, back to 80s mentality. It’s a shame we can’t go a generation without scaremongering. You think the world is scarier now than 1914, 1936, 1939, 1963, 1981, 2001? They keep us scared to keep us obedient.

A few things happend in those years. The natural state of the world is one of war. We jist had a relatively peaceful time post Ww2 due to the balance of two superpowers, the cold war and the invention of nukes. Now the balance has gone and we have nuclear proliferation. The world is significantly more unstable.

SmallDFartyCarNRG · 10/09/2026 09:52

EasternStandard · 10/09/2026 09:49

Yes the US aren’t going to fund the EU (or us) as much anymore for defence. Hence the increased requirement.

US is funding Israel, so we don't expect anything from them.
Trump has been very clear he wants to make money from the West Bank and likes Putin. So we don't count them as allies.

BoredZelda · 10/09/2026 09:52

Badbadbunny · 10/09/2026 07:41

Yup, it never works - Gordon Brown and Rishi Sunak both became PM without a vote and neither lasted long. Both well and truly voted out by the public at their first general election. If AB survives to the GE, which is highly unlikely, he won’t win it.

Over 50% of our prime ministers this century came in “without a vote”. Don’t pretend it isn’t how our system works.

nomas · 10/09/2026 09:53

LuckyHazelFox · 10/09/2026 07:39

Without protecting our national security, there won't be any need for social security. He's no Churchill, is he?

The Defence budget fell from 3.2% in the 90s to 2.3% under the Conservatives in 2024.

I don't recall this being a hot topic on MN then.

EasternStandard · 10/09/2026 09:53

SmallDFartyCarNRG · 10/09/2026 09:51

Meaning misinformation spreading is a Russian tactic. You either buy into the idea Russia is about to attack, despite their depleted forces and unwilling population, and spew it out on any internet forum you can - thus doing their job for them, or you recognise EU together with us would be able to stop Russia.

People know Russia isn't just attacking with physical force but via the internet and other means.

Or you spew out whatever on any forum you can to make sure we have a depleted defence budget.

luckylavender · 10/09/2026 09:54

No, I think he's annoying all the right people.

dontcookwontcook · 10/09/2026 09:54

nomas · 10/09/2026 09:53

The Defence budget fell from 3.2% in the 90s to 2.3% under the Conservatives in 2024.

I don't recall this being a hot topic on MN then.

So what? Let’s do the right thing now
and when the conservatives get in, whenever that may be, I’m sure they’ll moan non stop about what labour didn’t spend on too
its just how it works in politics - the previous government is always the shit one and let’s blame them for whatever this current lack of funding issue is about

NorthXNorthWest · 10/09/2026 09:54

Binnyforthewin · 10/09/2026 09:51

It was pretty bloody obvious the poster was talking about Labour's voting blocks rather than your Makerfield bollocks.

ODFOD

It was pretty bloody obvious the poster was weaponising race and talking bollocks.

They brought voting table. Factually nothing I have said in incorrect. They on the other have have racism...

EasternStandard · 10/09/2026 09:55

luckylavender · 10/09/2026 09:54

No, I think he's annoying all the right people.

The same posters said that about Starmer. And then ousted.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 10/09/2026 09:56

BoredZelda · 10/09/2026 09:52

Over 50% of our prime ministers this century came in “without a vote”. Don’t pretend it isn’t how our system works.

They were usually MPs though and had been in Parliament.

Switchnow · 10/09/2026 09:56

sunshinesuki · 10/09/2026 08:35

Another fighting age male leaving his country rather than staying to make it better.

Billionaires afraid of paying tax are low down on my list of role models.

timeserved · 10/09/2026 09:57

Badbadbunny · 10/09/2026 07:41

Yup, it never works - Gordon Brown and Rishi Sunak both became PM without a vote and neither lasted long. Both well and truly voted out by the public at their first general election. If AB survives to the GE, which is highly unlikely, he won’t win it.

I wouldn't call the 2010 election a thrashing for Labour, if Nick Clegg had not performed so well during the debates (which were a new thing that year) things might have been quite different because my personal opinion is that those LibDem votes were mostly taken from Labour.

But I agree with your point, I think a change of leader (PM) should trigger a GE, it would give the mutineers something to think about and maybe they would just knuckle down for the full term, if they still oust the PM at least we would be able to give some feedback.

EasternStandard · 10/09/2026 09:58

Switchnow · 10/09/2026 09:56

Another fighting age male leaving his country rather than staying to make it better.

Billionaires afraid of paying tax are low down on my list of role models.

Still their taxes helped, and now you won’t have that. If you’re ready to fill the gap then great.

nomas · 10/09/2026 10:00

Pineneedlesincarpet · 10/09/2026 09:49

The people of Ireland only sleep at night because we defend them! And they are a huge target due to the under sea cables in their waters. And they are next to the UK which is also a target and sadly cannot move their landmass away. If we get nuked so do they.

Ireland also includes Northern Ireland, so of course the UK is going to want to protect that.

And this 'defence' is pretty hypothetical, nothing has happened that has needed defending yet (notwithstanding a deterrent).

CoventryCity · 10/09/2026 10:01

Switchnow · 10/09/2026 09:56

Another fighting age male leaving his country rather than staying to make it better.

Billionaires afraid of paying tax are low down on my list of role models.

You might like them better if you or anyone you love needs benefits but there's no money left in the bucket because the big tax payers have left the country. So no benefits for anyone at all. The cupboard is bare. Hooray - what a joy. Eh?

Switchnow · 10/09/2026 10:01

EasternStandard · 10/09/2026 09:58

Still their taxes helped, and now you won’t have that. If you’re ready to fill the gap then great.

I’d like to see a before and after on how much tax he paid while living here and how much he will pay after. If he’s leaving because it’s more tax efficient, I’d hazard a guess that he’d found a way to make it more efficient while here too.

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