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She weighs 105lbs...

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likelysuspect · 01/09/2026 13:18

The film Angel Face - Robert Mitchum and Jean Simmons 1952

During the start he is describing his girlfriend and mentions she is 105lbs

I thought I'd misheard and maybe it was 125lbs but no, 105lbs

Thats 7 and a half stone.

Seems very tiny but AI tells me that is the usual sort of frame and weight to height ratio for actresses in those days. The actress playing the girlfriend was 5'4 apparently. So slight frame but not underweight

I was a bit surprised it was so low a weight.

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LateAgainJeeves · 01/09/2026 15:32

When I married in 1970s I was 5ft.5in and weighed 6st 7lb. Underweight but could eat loads, my cousins were the same.

LilyForrest · 01/09/2026 15:41

I was 105lbs in my early 20's. No idea why but when we were in the USA visiting relatives I got weighed and clearly remember my relatives howling with laughter as I was 'a buck o five' . I didn't eat huge amounts but I certainly didn't have any eating disorder. I was just very petite. This was in the early 90's & apart from a chippy there were no fast food places where we lived. Most of my friends were a similar build.

Retro12 · 01/09/2026 15:48

nomas · 01/09/2026 14:45

This thread is clearly like honey to the bees for the teeny tiny eaters.

Very rude...

Ponderingwindow · 01/09/2026 15:53

I was 5’6” and 104 pounds for a very long time as an adult. People I barely knew at university used to show up at my door with “extra” food. I was not a healthy weight, I was malnourished, partly because of child abuse.

This kind of thinness is not something to be celebrated. We can focus on health, but don’t go to extremes.

nomas · 01/09/2026 15:53

Retro12 · 01/09/2026 15:48

Very rude...

But fine to call a 9.5 stone woman fat, eh?

Lexy2345 · 01/09/2026 15:54

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Theoparent · 01/09/2026 15:55

HobgoblinNorFoulFiend · 01/09/2026 13:50

This. I’m 5ft 10 and haven’t weighed less than 9stone since I was at school. I take a size 8 shoe. I’m female, but I’m pretty certain I would not have got work as an actress back in the day.

Edit to add I’m astonished that 5’4 is average height. I don’t know these tiny people. Everyone I know is around my height.

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5'10" is on/above the 99th centile for women! Dsis is that height and usually noticeably the tallest woman in the room

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 01/09/2026 15:57

RosieHosie · 01/09/2026 15:22

Haha, just googled and shes 5'3-4. No idea where I got 6ft from!

Are you thinking of Nicole Kidman?! Smile

JHound · 01/09/2026 15:58

I don’t think it’s that weird for an actress of average height.

JHound · 01/09/2026 15:59

Theoparent · 01/09/2026 15:55

5'10" is on/above the 99th centile for women! Dsis is that height and usually noticeably the tallest woman in the room

A lot of people genuinely don’t know heights (and a lot don’t know their own!)

I am 5ft 8 and always look like a giant in photos next to regular sized women!

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 01/09/2026 16:02

Theoparent · 01/09/2026 15:55

5'10" is on/above the 99th centile for women! Dsis is that height and usually noticeably the tallest woman in the room

Yep, I know very few women who are 5 ft 10 inches tall - or taller. My very good friend from my teenage years is 5 ft 10, and she towers above me and our other friends, and our work colleagues... (I am 5 ft 4.)

She has 2 sisters who are 5 ft 5 and 5 ft 6, so she towers above them a bit too. As I say, I am 5 ft 4, and she calls me 'shorty' and jokes about me sitting on a toadstool, (like a gnome!) I don't mind as it's just meant in jest. I have never joked about her being tall though, as I know she doesn't like it, and has always wished she was about 5 ft 6.

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letitgo23 · 01/09/2026 16:02

I do wonder if we need to take account of the fact that it is her boyfriend that says she is 105lbs...my experience of men guessing women's weight or indeed women guessing the weight of women who are a very different height to them is that they are often way out
I have multiple times been around people who think that any woman over 9.5 stone must be overweight, until I point out at my height that is underweight on the bmi calculator, that I consistently weigh at least a stone and often 1.5 stone more than that and get people would definitely describe my build as slim but not thin.
That is not to say that she isn't 105lbs, plenty of grown women are that size, no doubt some of them like being that weight, others would like to be less or some may like to be more, we do all come in different sizes.

PrawnFree · 01/09/2026 16:07

I was 86lbs in my late teens but I’m only 5 foot tall. Double that now but that’s life with eating disorders 🤷‍♀️

emuloc · 01/09/2026 16:07

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Catty.

BadBadCat · 01/09/2026 16:10

Renee Zelweger is only small (5'3"?) so 9.5 stone is over the ideal weight for her and she looks healthier at her normal weight than she did ad Bridget. The extra weight she gained gave her puffy look even though she didn't look 'fat' by normal standards compared to the average woman.

BadBadCat · 01/09/2026 16:11

letitgo23 · 01/09/2026 16:02

I do wonder if we need to take account of the fact that it is her boyfriend that says she is 105lbs...my experience of men guessing women's weight or indeed women guessing the weight of women who are a very different height to them is that they are often way out
I have multiple times been around people who think that any woman over 9.5 stone must be overweight, until I point out at my height that is underweight on the bmi calculator, that I consistently weigh at least a stone and often 1.5 stone more than that and get people would definitely describe my build as slim but not thin.
That is not to say that she isn't 105lbs, plenty of grown women are that size, no doubt some of them like being that weight, others would like to be less or some may like to be more, we do all come in different sizes.

You do realise it's not real? Don't you?

nomas · 01/09/2026 16:12

emuloc · 01/09/2026 16:07

Catty.

Where’s the cat?

NancyThompson · 01/09/2026 16:13

BadBadCat · 01/09/2026 16:10

Renee Zelweger is only small (5'3"?) so 9.5 stone is over the ideal weight for her and she looks healthier at her normal weight than she did ad Bridget. The extra weight she gained gave her puffy look even though she didn't look 'fat' by normal standards compared to the average woman.

9.5 stone at 5'3 is a BMI of 23.4, absolutely healthy.

Obviously fat as fuck by Hollywood standards but in the real world you'd be one of the slimmer people around.

emuloc · 01/09/2026 16:15

nomas · 01/09/2026 16:12

Where’s the cat?

There is no cat, to be found, just the usual lemon mouthed comments, about thin people, which says a lot about the posters making them.

nomas · 01/09/2026 16:16

emuloc · 01/09/2026 16:15

There is no cat, to be found, just the usual lemon mouthed comments, about thin people, which says a lot about the posters making them.

just the usual lemon mouthed comments

think you mean cats bum surely

Pibblegirls · 01/09/2026 16:17

ACatNamedRobin · 01/09/2026 13:23

That was in the 50s, there were less UPFs and availability of ultra tasty calorific food, so people were a more normal weight then.

It's still in case across the world, look at Eastern Europe or China or Japan.

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It isn’t just down to what you eat though, some people are just small boned and slight with fast metabolism/very energetic.

I eat 1200 calories a day and have done for over two years, track and weigh everything, don’t eat carbs or junk and I’m 9 stone 10 and don’t dip below that.

Im 5”8” with size 8 feet and big hands, thick wrists and ankles. I’d die of starvation before I ever hit 7 stone something!

emuloc · 01/09/2026 16:18

nomas · 01/09/2026 16:16

just the usual lemon mouthed comments

think you mean cats bum surely

No, but that will suffice as well.

letitgo23 · 01/09/2026 16:20

BadBadCat · 01/09/2026 16:11

You do realise it's not real? Don't you?

Yes, thanks. I was just adding my experience,as a woman, about different views on weight as a contribution to a discussion I found interesting. You may find what I posted completely uninteresting, in which case you are perfectly free to ignore.
What was your intention in terms of adding something some people may find interesting rather than just making a (not very) smart comment talking down to (presumably since this is mumsnet) another woman?

LarryUnderwood · 01/09/2026 16:23

I weighed 8st 7/119 lbs until I was in my early 20s, and I looked absolutely fine. I think if I was that weight now I would look drawn, but that's because I'm old enough that my skin wouldn't shrink and be taut. If I'd stayed that weight always I think i'd look fone now. It's the up and down that's a problem. I wish i'd never discovered late night pizza and binge drinking at uni!

jimmyateworld · 01/09/2026 16:24

Octavia64 · 01/09/2026 13:19

I’m 5ft4

i was eight stone dead on during most of my late teens and early twenties until I got pregnant with twins.

I’m the same height and was 7 stone, not anymore since my kids 🤣