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AIBU to be deeply concerned about the sheer number of unchecked undocumented unknown men coming into the UK?

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CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 09:40

This is some dystopian lord of the flies hell. Those poor women. Burned on the boat. Wth. Poor man stabbed to death. Why are the people that did this then going to be roaming free in the UK? Why are they allowed to enter the UK in the first place? Why are gangs not being 'smashed'?

Why won't the government tell us the truth about their crime rates?

AIBU to be deeply concerned about the sheer number of unchecked undocumented unknown men coming into the UK.

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/2243693/english-channel-small-boat-migrant-dies

Channel chaos as migrant dies, two women burned and one stabbed on same boat

Forty-five of those on board continued towards the UK and were picked up by a British rescue vessel.

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/2243693/english-channel-small-boat-migrant-dies

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GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 17:41

ThatBreezyScroller · 30/08/2026 17:38

The entire reason for not supporting the algorithm is exactly because we don’t want an echo chamber.

Having a a one sided view is never a good idea.

It takes less than 30 minutes for a teenage boy to see something extremist/sexist towards women.
After that they will continue to see extreme sexist views until their entire feed is full of it and they start genuinely believing that women are the problem.

The same thing happens with immigrants.
People are so busy reading fake news on the internet that they don’t bother fact checking things and become afraid of things that likely will never happen and overlook the dangers in front of their faces.

But what about those of us whose countries are ‘ahead of the curve’ so to speak, and we have eyes and ears and we can see how our home countries have changed every time we go back?

Counts for nothing?

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:45

Walkden · 30/08/2026 17:40

"You also voted for Labour. So you’ve got chaos on boats and crimes that are awful."

Correction - the country voted for labour. This was not surprising since the conservatives party was a shambles at the time.

Realistically, the conservatives won't be getting in next election either

Irrespective of who any one person voted for you have to live with the majority decision until the next election. Plenty of people are unhappy with the Brexit ; including people who voted for it. We are all still living with the after effects of it; including how to handle illegal immigration.

Well we’ll see. I don’t think the majority of people will want what the op describes.

Tiredtaxpayer · 30/08/2026 17:47

PurpleCarpets · 30/08/2026 17:19

We left everything - the EU, the single market, every single EU institution, we are no longer bound by any EU law, and the deal was that of Johnson, Rees-Mogg and Frost!

Whatever "proper" brexit you and the Daily Express fantasises about does not exist, or certainly was not on the referendum ballot paper.

I really don't know what you mean.

Brexit was too 'loose' and it was a basic agreement with in-flight plans. There wasn't a proper fishing agreement. The Scottish Fishing Federation said that there wasn't enough control over it's waters. I could list others.
EU Austerity, the Arab Spring and Angela Merkel breaking EU laws by throwing open Germany's borders (and causing a mass movement of people across Europe) didn't help the deal.
We'd already put up with subsidising 3 Greek bailouts 2010, 2012 & 2015, for £289bn, £259bn and $330bn.
So we took what we could get, although some people said we'd have been better off leaving with "No deal"

Sav34 · 30/08/2026 17:48

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 17:38

I think the next General Election (which I won’t be able to vote in, so no need to get excited) will be decided by immigration.

Not the cost of living, or the NHS, but immigration.

That’s just my personal opinion of course.

Why can't you vote?

Tiredtaxpayer · 30/08/2026 17:51

Sav34 · 30/08/2026 17:48

Why can't you vote?

I suspect it's because they live in Sweden ?🙂

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 17:53

Sav34 · 30/08/2026 17:48

Why can't you vote?

Because I’m not a British citizen.

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 17:54

Tiredtaxpayer · 30/08/2026 17:51

I suspect it's because they live in Sweden ?🙂

No, I do live in England. My husband is English.

I just never became a citizen.

I love this country though. ❤️

Walkden · 30/08/2026 17:54

"Well we’ll see. I don’t think the majority of people will want what the op describes"

People have all sorts of preferences and priorities in general election obviously. Economics / cost/ quality of living etc most likely will be the main issues I would think.

( Illegal) Immigration may well be a fringe issue but it may influence who wins marginal seats.

As you see we will have to wait and see.

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:55

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 17:53

Because I’m not a British citizen.

Just saw your other post. Still like your posts : )

quantumbutterfly · 30/08/2026 17:56

Tiredtaxpayer · 30/08/2026 17:19

Fair enough.
In my day a lot of these jobs were done by students during holidays.
Now they don't seem to want to get their hands dirty.

It suits a young person better, dp did it many decades ago.
It should not be beyond the wit of our finest minds to automate the process and train people to use those tools. Then we would not need to exploit cheap labour from abroad to be housed in squalid portakabins.
I hear the conditions in Spain, the source of much supermarket produce, can be very poor. Many who manage to survive the trip to Europes golden shores end up there.
Mind you, successive governments are building on agricultural land so perhaps it will not be an issue soon.

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 17:57

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:55

Just saw your other post. Still like your posts : )

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Ah, thank you.

I do live over here though.

Which is why I have a vested interest.

I know it’s fashionable on mumsnet to talk down the UK, or maybe England more so, but I love it.

It’s made me feel welcome from day one and you have so much to be proud of.

ThatBreezyScroller · 30/08/2026 17:58

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:40

You can do as you like, but algorithms just feed back what people want. If it’s a left voting Corbynite who only wants to see Palestine info they’ll get it.

It’s way more complicated than that.

Most people are consciously setting their algorithms to show them certain things.

No one should live in an echo chamber.

TemperanceWest · 30/08/2026 17:59

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:36

Sure. You sound annoyed not everything feeds back to you what you already think. It’s actually easy to get that these days if you want it.

You know v well that is not what I am saying.

TemperanceWest · 30/08/2026 18:01

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 17:57

Ah, thank you.

I do live over here though.

Which is why I have a vested interest.

I know it’s fashionable on mumsnet to talk down the UK, or maybe England more so, but I love it.

It’s made me feel welcome from day one and you have so much to be proud of.

I think anyone who lives here on a long term basis should be able to vote in a GE.

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 18:03

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:55

Just saw your other post. Still like your posts : )

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Thank you!

Back at ya! 😁

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 18:11

ThatBreezyScroller · 30/08/2026 17:12

Then perhaps you should read on.

The article they posted is almost entirely fabricated.

The French did rescue people from a boat and confirmed that some did have sunburn.
They also confirmed that someone died of a heart attack.

They have not mentioned a weapon or stabbing of any kind, let alone confirmed it.

Stop lying, the article isn't 'almost entirely fabricated' at all.. Very worrying. Now I know you're a liar, I won't pay any attention to your further posts (sadly there will be many I'm sure).

'French detectives meanwhile confirmed that at least one of those involved in the boat incident had stab wounds, while two women were burned.

A criminal investigation has been launched, and those injured on the vessel will be taken into custody after medical treatment.'

Linked in the article.

Feel sorry for you breezy, you need to fabricate stuff yourself. Suppose you project. It happens..

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PurpleCarpets · 30/08/2026 18:19

Tiredtaxpayer · 30/08/2026 17:47

I really don't know what you mean.

Brexit was too 'loose' and it was a basic agreement with in-flight plans. There wasn't a proper fishing agreement. The Scottish Fishing Federation said that there wasn't enough control over it's waters. I could list others.
EU Austerity, the Arab Spring and Angela Merkel breaking EU laws by throwing open Germany's borders (and causing a mass movement of people across Europe) didn't help the deal.
We'd already put up with subsidising 3 Greek bailouts 2010, 2012 & 2015, for £289bn, £259bn and $330bn.
So we took what we could get, although some people said we'd have been better off leaving with "No deal"

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I really don't know what you mean.

We voted to leave the EU. We left the EU, all of its institutions, every treaty governing it and every right and obligation conferred by EU membership.

That's a harder brexit than its most ardent supporters hoped for and much harder than proposed by Nigel Farage for example.

ThatBreezyScroller · 30/08/2026 18:19

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 18:11

Stop lying, the article isn't 'almost entirely fabricated' at all.. Very worrying. Now I know you're a liar, I won't pay any attention to your further posts (sadly there will be many I'm sure).

'French detectives meanwhile confirmed that at least one of those involved in the boat incident had stab wounds, while two women were burned.

A criminal investigation has been launched, and those injured on the vessel will be taken into custody after medical treatment.'

Linked in the article.

Feel sorry for you breezy, you need to fabricate stuff yourself. Suppose you project. It happens..

Edited

It does not say that anywhere in the article that you linked (we can all read).

So I assume you’ve found it elsewhere and are reading a different one that you haven’t shared yet?

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 18:29

Well, I can only say (after a couple of glasses of Sauvignon Blanc) that there is a lot of truly decent people, not just in this country, but also on this site.

And we’re not all knuckle dragging racists, but educated women who are simply concerned.

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 18:33

GunnelVallquist · 30/08/2026 18:29

Well, I can only say (after a couple of glasses of Sauvignon Blanc) that there is a lot of truly decent people, not just in this country, but also on this site.

And we’re not all knuckle dragging racists, but educated women who are simply concerned.

There are very few 'knuckle-dragging racists' ime, but there are many many worried parents of daughters.

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Sirzy · 30/08/2026 18:34

Yet they are so worried about their daughters they vote for the likes of reform and restore who have such a horrendous track record and who have policy proposals that will make things so much worse for woman.

it does worry me that so many are hyper focused on this issue and can’t see the bigger picture

ElizaMulvil · 30/08/2026 18:38

SoThatwasSummer · 30/08/2026 11:32

@ElizaMulvil who would do this ?
My DH wouldn't leave us neither would have any man in my family have left the supposed vulnerable in a perlious country.

Desperation causes families to be split up.
1.My great grandfather 80s, was left in N France WW2 while other members of the family walked south to safety. He was too old to do the same. Eventually my grandfather deserted to look after him. ( Wars are chaotic).
2.My neighbour ( Jewish) escaped from a train taking him to a concentration camp in Poland WW2. He didn't go back to get his mother. Too dangerous. He escaped to France. .
3.Another neighbour from Armenia ( massacres pre WW2) left his family en route to Britain because they had no papers. He learnt that the Turks could be bribed to provide some so he left the family to get the travel docs.
4.A woman ( Jewish) left her daughter in a convent in Belgium before she was sent to a concentration camp where she died. ( 6 years later a refugee came to GB, told child's aunt her sister had hidden her daughter and after 2 months searching the girl was found and brought to England.
5.My father left his mother WW2 because he was being targeted and it was safer for her if he left.
There may be unforeseen situations when any of your male or female relations have to leave the rest precisely to try and save them.

LakieLady · 30/08/2026 18:39

Tiredtaxpayer · 30/08/2026 11:49

Not my choice as to placement but Dartmoor Prison would do well after a revamp, as I understand that it's empty.

It was closed because it was unsafe, it's full of radon gas.

thepariscrimefiles · 30/08/2026 18:40

Sav34 · 30/08/2026 11:29

Stay in the first safe country and not risk another dangerous journey and risk drowning in the channel to escape the safety of France

A lot of Afghan men worked with British forces, acting as interpretors and putting themselves and their families in harm's way. Now that the allied forces have all left and the Taliban are back in charge, they are in great danger. No wonder they risk their lives to get to a country that actually owes them a debt of gratitude.

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 18:41

Sirzy · 30/08/2026 18:34

Yet they are so worried about their daughters they vote for the likes of reform and restore who have such a horrendous track record and who have policy proposals that will make things so much worse for woman.

it does worry me that so many are hyper focused on this issue and can’t see the bigger picture

You are worried that so many people are worried about women and girls being at a higher risk of being raped, due to mass uncontrolled immigration of unknown undocumented males?

Jesus. I'm not sure what to say. Beyond belief. You could be male I suppose.

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