Threw water at my DP, was I justified

[Beestings1]

I feel bad for doing this, it’s really out of character for me but I did it instinctively and out of shock. I was stood up pouring some water from the sink on my lunch break, DP backed up against me so his bum was touching mine and he broke wind. I turned around and swilled him with water. I know it was wrong but the disrespect and shock made me angry in that moment.

He is now saying I was out of order and isn’t accepting my apology.

Unless you are both into fart humour that is so gross I think your reaction was fine. Tbh not being farted on is a deal breaker for me

He fucked around (farted around?) and found out! I couldn’t endure such a disgusting pig in my life tbh so he’d have been covered in water AND given his marching orders!

lol

But even then - because you're a lady - it's only once a month or so, is discreet like a little mouse coughing, and smells of lavender and camomile, correct?

How does “isn’t accepting my apology” manifest itself? Tell him to apologise for farting on you and don’t do anything for him until he does.

If he was to employ his brain cell, he'd realise that he is lucky it was only water. At a sink, it could have been anything in your hand...

i think is approach this from an angle of “you know i dont like fart humour. im not a 10 year old boy. ive told you before to pack it in. you chose not to and startled me with water in my hand. it’s natural consequences. i understand why you're not best pleased but you need to grow up. Youre a full grown man acting like a primary school child. Im your wife not another little boy. fart jokes are for children”.

What an utter creep. Vile.

You must LOVE farts

Would you rather have water or fart gas on you?

he’s disgusting

More sensible than saying sweetly “darling that wasn’t nice don’t do it again please “

One childish act followed by another.... If he didn't like your reaction, maybe he should grow up a bit!

Has he apologised to you?

I wouldn’t have apologised at all! Very disrespectful of him, he should be apologising to you!

I could not find this man sexually attractive. He sounds peurile. If you don’t share that kind of humour (I don’t) then it’s totally unacceptable what he is doing..

Both of you are disrespectful to each other.

My 5 year old does that and gets told off. DH needs to grow up and show some respect. Totally justified what you did as clearly words mean fuck all to him.

Fart apologists 😂😂

Domestic violence is never justified.

Shameful.

Nah that’s fair play, I wouldn’t have apologised to him either!

He farts on you and then "won't accept your apology" for dashing him with a bit of water?! The man needs to grow up. What an icky baby!

I would not share my bed, my home or my life with such a disrespectful man.

Apologising witgout demanding the same from him was your mistake. He now thinks he was justified and you over-reacted. Tell him to stop sulking and let you know when he is ready to apologise for being so disrespectful. Tell him you married a fully grown man not a man-child and his behaviour is a massive turn off.

Which one? 🤔