Threw water at my DP, was I justified

[Beestings1]

I feel bad for doing this, it’s really out of character for me but I did it instinctively and out of shock. I was stood up pouring some water from the sink on my lunch break, DP backed up against me so his bum was touching mine and he broke wind. I turned around and swilled him with water. I know it was wrong but the disrespect and shock made me angry in that moment.

He is now saying I was out of order and isn’t accepting my apology.

The shock of a fart made you instinctively throw water at him?

Ridiculous! 😂

Yanbu.
He really is a rude pig.

You should have drowned him in the sink. 😉

That was revolting of him. He can't do things like that and then get upset when you react. I'd have been absolutely disgusted and probably done the same.

Yeah you shouldn't have done that but it didn't come out of nowhere. That was awful behaviour from him. I'd be absolutely furious and upset too.
And honestly the only reaction from him after that should be an immediate and genuine apology at badly misjudging his 'joke'
I'd be really upset too. You deserve an apology and if he's not accepting yours then he is well out of order.

He startled you while you were at the sink. Natural consequence I’d say.

And what a pig

Interesting

people can throw water at a partner who does something they don’t like and that’s fine…

Meh I'd have got him back later 😂 an ice cube on his back whilst he's asleep or turning the light off on him whilst he's on the toilet..... Yes it's gross but I'd have laughed

It's far worse to back your arse against someone and deliberately fart than to chuck water as a retaliation.
I think you need to evaluate your life choices though.

Someone deliberately farting on you is way worse than being suddenly startled and splashing water. Absolutely disgusting from him.

Just spilt up with him. Life's too short.

If it wasn't holy water and he didnt start to burn, he is being ridiculous. You shock someone near water and you get wet.

It was a reaction. It was dramatic (but understandable) and now he's being a baby. Why don't you get a takeaway and cuddle after laughing about how silly you both are and how short life is to be hung up on this kind of thing.

@Beestings1 as long as it was cold water, then he absolutely deserved it. Shame it wasn’t the hose!

His farting on you was out of order you can just tell him that the water was just a joke and he needs to get over it

Domestic abuse, be ashamed

yeah right. Jog on.

He is an immature idiot and got exactly what he deserved, stand your ground!

What he did was fucking disgusting. Why the fuck did you apologise?!

Yeah, fuck him the disgusting arsehole.

Dump him and move on, he is a repulsive pig

Stop apologising. What he did was revolting.

This^
FAFO

He won't do that again!

Let him sulk then, I think you were more than justified and I wouldn’t have been apologizing unless he did so first.