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AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:09

'Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK

UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.'

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

Previous thread here:
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GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 13:40

BubbleAndLeek · Yesterday 13:30

What are you on about? Where?

The evil Brits trope again 🙄

CoventryCity · Yesterday 13:49

CoventryCity · Yesterday 13:28

I've asked..

No response. Like calling the GP surgery.

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BasildonBonds · Yesterday 13:54

CoventryCity · Yesterday 13:49

No response. Like calling the GP surgery.

Give them a chance!

CoventryCity · Yesterday 13:57

BasildonBonds · Yesterday 13:54

Give them a chance!

I'm not very patient, and I'm having lunch too. This is very inconvenient. Cheese and biscuits. Chilli biscuits. very nice.

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BubbleAndLeek · Yesterday 13:58

mbosnz · Yesterday 13:09

I come from a country, that is still suffering the impact of mass immigration of undocumented males, behaving in a lawless manner (particularly to the wimmens and children), seeking to impose their religion, culture, language, and laws, with no regard for the people already there. . . but's that's okay, because it was the Brits, right?

Aren't you from New Zealand? What are you on about?

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CoventryCity · Yesterday 14:48

Just another news story. Just another girl.

The gang-rape horror that has reignited Italy's immigration row: Degrading attack on 13-year-old 'by youths who illegally entered the country as minors' has poured fuel on the flames of a migrant crisis

'I beg you, I beg you, don't hurt me... Please let me go.'

Those were the words uttered by a helpless 13-year-old girl as she was allegedly dragged into a public bathroom by a group of Egyptian migrants in Catania on the Italian island of Sicily last week. (2024)

How many times since?

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-13050769/The-gang-rape-horror-reignited-Italys-immigration-row-Degrading-attack-13-year-old-youths-illegally-entered-country-minors-poured-fuel-flames-migrant-crisis.html

The gang-rape horror that has reignited Italy's immigration row

The heinous attack prompted immediate fury, with deputy PM Matteo Salvini calling for the perpetrators to be chemically castrated and PM Giorgia Meloni vowing 'justice will be done'

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-13050769/The-gang-rape-horror-reignited-Italys-immigration-row-Degrading-attack-13-year-old-youths-illegally-entered-country-minors-poured-fuel-flames-migrant-crisis.html

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GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 14:51

CoventryCity · Yesterday 14:48

Just another news story. Just another girl.

The gang-rape horror that has reignited Italy's immigration row: Degrading attack on 13-year-old 'by youths who illegally entered the country as minors' has poured fuel on the flames of a migrant crisis

'I beg you, I beg you, don't hurt me... Please let me go.'

Those were the words uttered by a helpless 13-year-old girl as she was allegedly dragged into a public bathroom by a group of Egyptian migrants in Catania on the Italian island of Sicily last week. (2024)

How many times since?

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-13050769/The-gang-rape-horror-reignited-Italys-immigration-row-Degrading-attack-13-year-old-youths-illegally-entered-country-minors-poured-fuel-flames-migrant-crisis.html

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If I said what I want to say I’d probably get banned.

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 14:52

If the collective governments of Europe don’t act soon there’s going to be a civil war.

CoventryCity · Yesterday 14:52

https://apnews.com/article/africa-europe-rome-migration-immigration-4994d5c075053e804a8f0a5b740a6044

Rome court convicts 4 men for sexual assault, murder of teen

Prosecutors, who had sought life imprisonment for all four defendants, alleged during the trial that Mariottini had been drugged, gang raped and left for dead in the abandoned building. Defendants were also charged with providing drugs to a minor. One of the defendants is from Gambia, two are from Senegal and the fourth is from Nigeria. None had documentation.

Rome court convicts 4 men for sexual assault, murder of teen

ROME (AP) — An Italian court late Saturday convicted four African men in the drugging, aggravated sexual assault and murder of an Italian teen in Rome, a crime that spurred calls in Italy for quick expulsions of migrants illegally living in in the coun...

https://apnews.com/article/africa-europe-rome-migration-immigration-4994d5c075053e804a8f0a5b740a6044

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CoventryCity · Yesterday 14:54

https://edition.cnn.com/2024/02/11/europe/italy-catania-gang-rape-allegations-intl

Rome —
Italy has been shaken by the alleged gang rape of a 13-year-old girl in front of her boyfriend in a public park in the Sicilian city of Catania, the latest in a string of shocking sexual attacks in the country.
The case is reminiscent of two alleged gang rapes last summer. A group of seven men and teenage boys between the ages of 15 and 18 are currently on trial for the alleged rape of a 19-year-old girl in Palermo in August.
Weeks later nine young men were arrested and charged with allegedly raping two cousins aged 10 and 12 near Naples and broadcasting the attack live on social media. They, too, are facing trial.

All over Europe/

An alleged gang rape shocks Italy, and provides fodder for an ascendant far right | CNN

Italy has been shaken by the alleged gang rape of a 13-year-old girl in front of her boyfriend in a public park in the Sicilian city of Catania, the latest in a series string of shocking sexual attacks in the country.

https://edition.cnn.com/2024/02/11/europe/italy-catania-gang-rape-allegations-intl

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GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 14:55

CoventryCity · Yesterday 14:52

https://apnews.com/article/africa-europe-rome-migration-immigration-4994d5c075053e804a8f0a5b740a6044

Rome court convicts 4 men for sexual assault, murder of teen

Prosecutors, who had sought life imprisonment for all four defendants, alleged during the trial that Mariottini had been drugged, gang raped and left for dead in the abandoned building. Defendants were also charged with providing drugs to a minor. One of the defendants is from Gambia, two are from Senegal and the fourth is from Nigeria. None had documentation.

Another case of the ‘vulnerable fleeing persecution’ showing their gratitude.

CoventryCity · Yesterday 14:57

At least the Italian PM is trying her best to sort things out. Same can't be said for our UK Apologists. Appeasers. Cowards. Liars.

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GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 14:59

CoventryCity · Yesterday 14:57

At least the Italian PM is trying her best to sort things out. Same can't be said for our UK Apologists. Appeasers. Cowards. Liars.

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I read that she tried to deport criminals last year (or was it the year before?) and she was overruled by the Supreme Court in Rome.

NancyThompson · Yesterday 15:07

The gang-rape horror that has reignited Italy's immigration row: Degrading attack on 13-year-old 'by youths who illegally entered the country as minors' has poured fuel on the flames of a migrant crisis

Plus I'd bet good money on them being nowhere near minors, they just know how to best game the system.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 15:12

This is so sad, plus we often get misinformation re the EU not seeing similar. They are

CoventryCity · Yesterday 15:13

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 14:59

I read that she tried to deport criminals last year (or was it the year before?) and she was overruled by the Supreme Court in Rome.

She not perfect, I think she's against same sex marriage (bizarre in this day and age, I guess its because Italy is strongly religious Catholic). At least she's recognising the impact of mass immigration of unknown undocumented men on women and girls. Beggars can't be choosers.

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CoventryCity · Yesterday 15:14

EasternStandard · Yesterday 15:12

This is so sad, plus we often get misinformation re the EU not seeing similar. They are

Exactly.

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smallglassbottle · Yesterday 15:20

Ffs

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 17:04

smallglassbottle · Yesterday 15:20

Ffs

?

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · Yesterday 17:08

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 13:21

That carpet must be bulging like crazy.

With all the stuff that’s being swept underneath it I mean.

Quite. The bit I don’t understand is that apparently all these men turning up here are perfectly fine and well behaved and pose absolutely no issues of criminality to the rest of us. That’s if you believe the left.

So surely they’d be super keen to put all of our minds at rest and publish the stats that demonstrate exactly that? Surely they’d relish the opportunity to take all of the wind out of Farage’s sails? He’d have little left to campaign about.

I wonder why they don’t.

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 17:36

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · Yesterday 17:08

Quite. The bit I don’t understand is that apparently all these men turning up here are perfectly fine and well behaved and pose absolutely no issues of criminality to the rest of us. That’s if you believe the left.

So surely they’d be super keen to put all of our minds at rest and publish the stats that demonstrate exactly that? Surely they’d relish the opportunity to take all of the wind out of Farage’s sails? He’d have little left to campaign about.

I wonder why they don’t.

👏

smallglassbottle · Yesterday 17:46

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 17:04

?

Just more attacks. Awful.

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 17:56

smallglassbottle · Yesterday 17:46

Just more attacks. Awful.

Yes.

And there’ll be plenty more to come sadly.

And still people will deny there’s a problem and minimise.

NullaEffugium · Yesterday 18:50

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 25/08/2026 19:43

Exactly. You appear to be trying to claim that some tiny and extremely niche Christian groups have abhorrent practices in an attempt to wave away the behaviour of a very large and very present group. Or have I misunderstood you?

You have misunderstood. I was responding to the claim that Christians never ever do such things.

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