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AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:09

'Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK

UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.'

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

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NancyThompson · Yesterday 20:20

Here's a collation of just a fraction of the street incidents like assaults and indecent behaviour
https://x.com/SanchoGarcesI/status/2092490306167943525

RichPetuniaAgain · Yesterday 20:38

That's beyond awful and makes me very, very angry. Too many times now there's reports in the press of assaults by our friendly boat people. Latest yesterday was a poor woman who was assaulted and stabbed with a broken bottle 30 times. Police had lifted him two days before for having his trousers around his ankles. He has schizophrenia and will now be locked up for a very long time. Other countries had already denied him asylum so he came here on a boat.
I asked AI why a boat person's right to come here trumps British women's right to safety and was informed they are seen as two completely different things and not intertwined.
It has got to the stage that I'm very, very scared for what's to come. Ideally, there needs to be a grassroots movement for women dealing with this very issue because no-one (and by this I mean politicians) is listening.

Windsurf · Yesterday 21:04

The public sector equality duty overrides women's safety. As soon as any human anywhere on the planet decides to be British, the public sector will spend as much money as they can on Britishing them, and giving them "equality", ie free stuff the taxpayers don't get but have to pay for.

BubbleAndLeek · Yesterday 21:14

It baffles me how they get accommodation but we have homeless Brits

Violetdeparma · Yesterday 21:17

@BubbleAndLeek everything about it baffles me.

Putin is behind much of it and he is laundering criminal money he loves it

GaIadriel · Yesterday 21:20

Windsurf · Yesterday 21:04

The public sector equality duty overrides women's safety. As soon as any human anywhere on the planet decides to be British, the public sector will spend as much money as they can on Britishing them, and giving them "equality", ie free stuff the taxpayers don't get but have to pay for.

It's ridiculous.

There's always some numpty on here pointing out that the hotels are usually less than salubrious, but young British men often don't get housed at all as they're considered low priority. Literally a tent and sleeping bag in many cases.

The ideal solution would be for those in favour to pay extra tax in lieu of those not in favour. They'd be moaning like fuck if they had to pay towards statues of Nigel Farage!

GaIadriel · Yesterday 21:29

NullaEffugium · Yesterday 18:50

You have misunderstood. I was responding to the claim that Christians never ever do such things.

When did they sexually assault 1200 European women in one night? In public.

BubbleAndLeek · Yesterday 21:32

GaIadriel · Yesterday 21:29

When did they sexually assault 1200 European women in one night? In public.

Because some German men commit crimes at much much lower rates it's all okay 👍

GaIadriel · Yesterday 21:46

Some people don't like the focus shifting to these foreign men because it removes their favourite weapon - namely using sexual assault stats to berate the men around them.

I've read so many threads on here where the OP is lamenting that her 'previously very supportive' husband got annoyed about hearing sexual assault stats etc. Always loads of posters saying "oh, you've seen his true colours now!" These stories invariably start with "we were having dinner and I mentioned...."

Like, who wants to be lectured by some self righteous battleaxe while they're having their tea after a long day? And the privilege checking only ever goes in one direction. Try mentioning white feminism or that the biggest DV metastudy to date (by far) found women more likely to perpetrate....you will most likely witness an acute fembolism!

Were I a man hearing a privileged woman using the royal 'we' to build a victim narrative I'd probs find it hard not to enquire how many times they'd been murdered themselves.

GaIadriel · Yesterday 21:50

BubbleAndLeek · Yesterday 21:32

Because some German men commit crimes at much much lower rates it's all okay 👍

Well, if immigrants are allowed to do it while living off our charity then we can't really complain about tax payers doing the same.

twinklystar23 · Today 04:04

Councils get money from central government to do so.

CoventryCity · Today 07:07

@5MinuteArgument 'I really don't understand the liberal left mindset that thinks this is a price worth paying in order to be seen as 'tolerant' and 'welcoming'. Those people have blood on their hands.'

It must be beyond the 'to be seen as tolerant and welcoming' stage, if it was ever about that in the first place. There's definitely more to it, otherwise it's inexplicable. I don't know what it is - but it concerns money and power, I'm sure.

The way the thread - regarding the government cover up of sexual data offences linked to asylum seekers / immigrants - was almost immediately taken down yesterday, speaks volumes.

I really don't want a Reform 'government' but this is where we are heading, if this continues. absolutely idiotic.

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CoventryCity · Today 07:09

CoventryCity · Yesterday 13:49

No response. Like calling the GP surgery.

Still no response btw

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