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Crash on A66 that killed two police officers and 5 others…

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bookworm1982 · 22/08/2026 18:53

Am I correct that the other victims were 5 lads travelling in one car the wrong way up the motorway? EXACTLY the same as the 5 Irish lads who died a few days ago travelling the wrong way up a motorway too? Surely not twice in a week? Is there some sort of mental social media thing going on, telling kids to drive up the wrong way? Like a dare? Just cannot believe it happened once, let alone twice. Just devastating.

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OneHangryGoldDeer · 23/08/2026 11:33

YourAmplePlumPoster · 23/08/2026 10:45

I used to teach literacy to Irish travellers in a YOI. There were whole families of cousins and brothers in there. They absolutely think the norms of society don't apply to them. They had never gone to school which was why they couldn't read. Even so, they were reading within a couple of weeks with one to one tuition.

Yep.

I knew several traveller lads in YOIs guilty of serious sex offences who just couldn't see what the problem was. Their 'girlfriends' were 12-14 and they were 17-19 but that's fine to them, they were gonna marry them probably. Or not, if they weren't traveller victims.

Couldn't read or write, self-harming off the scale because they were trying to cause as much disruption to the estate as possible.' I'm an Irish traveller in an English prison, this is racism'.

But the prevailing attitude in the UK is to 'reduce disproportionality' in criminal justice for the traveller community.

Anyone who works in youth offending knows prison is the absolute last resort as we saw recently with the Fordingbridge rapists.

The public were outraged but the initial sentences were absolutely in line in what happens every week in youth courts, the difference here was the public knew about it and there was a backlash.

I can't state the original judge went easy because of fear of criminalising traveller boys as it happens all the time with rapist boys but I'm sure it was at least in his mind. And the reports of low IQ definitely influenced his decision but when that's a majority of the traveller community, we have to make a line between IQ/ND and responsibility.

Any initiatives designed to 'reduce disproportionality' at the point the person has already committed numerous crimes will only serve to positively discriminate in favour of minority groups which is not going to help at all.

One adult Irish traveller rapist I knew, who raped a 12 year old traveller babysitting his kids and then threw her out of the van naked was only brought to attention because it happened in Ireland and the poor girl got pregnant and had to travel to England for a termination. While his family spirited him away to a traveller site in England for months.

He had all of his female family members turn up to court singing 'if tomorrow never comes' as he was sentenced.

HarshbutTrue2 · 23/08/2026 11:34

CandidLurker · 23/08/2026 11:11

Yes for many in the Grange Hill era they knew that the fifth year would be the final year of education and they’d be going into full-time work at 16.

Some effectively had already started on a part-time basis before the summer holidays and then immediately went full-time when any exams were done.

Yes. They arrived in a workplace where the adults were the majority and they had to learn to behave themselves.

Now they are swearing at teachers and misbehaving at school. There's simply no consequences. Teachers are told to make their lessons more interesting to stop the kids from misbehaving and being rude.

Many don't arrive in the workplace now until they are 21+. They then lecture their employers about their rights and expectations. They want a minimum of 30k, WFH 3 days a week and Friday afternoons off.
Can you imagine them saying that to a 1980s employer?

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 11:36

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 09:47

I agree with you! I dislike the word "thug", but yeah, I think the boys were awful. I don't think the families were praising the behaviour, but I agree that if they were, that's pretty much as bad as the behaviour itself. And I agree it doesn't matter whether they were travellers or, as it turns out, not.

You dislike the word thug? Well i dislike thugs who drive down the wrong side of the road killing people.

What would you prefer? Scrotes, toerags? Or maybe misunderstood lovable rascals as the family seem to portraying them?

Thug is actually polite. I know what I'd rather call them.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/08/2026 11:36

JustAnotherWhinger · 23/08/2026 11:30

I firmly believe the lack of part time jobs for teenagers is a large part of the reason teens are less mature.

Getting your first job gives a step up in maturity level. When teens worked collecting glasses, or being a Saturday girl in a shop, paid babysitting, having a delivery round or any of the other common part time jobs those doing those jobs had that maturity step at 14/15/16. That happens much less now.

There is a large tourist attraction on the edge of our village and for donkeys years it was almost like a rite of passage for local teens to work there. For the last 10 ish years there are more and more folks of 60+ doing those jobs instead when they’re looking for jobs after stopping their careers. It’s much easier for the employer - they don’t have any restriction on hours, they don’t disappear off to uni, and don’t require any working around school or college hours.

my elder three children are mid-late twenties and the difference in them and their friends with the majority of the group around my 15 year old is stark. Only DS and one of his friends have jobs (which they both got through family), parents are much more heavily involved in their friendships and interactions and they are far less mature. Lots of the parents blame it on Covid but I think it’s far more than that.

I firmly believe the lack of part time jobs for teenagers is a large part of the reason teens are less mature.
I think you are looking at this from your average teenager. These particular teenagers wouldn’t have worked in paid employment if it was available. There parents never worked, or extended family.
Once again. I’m not talking about specifically travelling people. I am talking about the class of people in general who are work shy.

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 11:38

MissMappsGardenProduce · 23/08/2026 11:20

Let's say you are.

You can fuck off back to Ireland.

However, if you are saying that as a traveller you are a different race to the rest of the Irish, to the extent that you suffer from racism-racism that you expect to be given special protection for-then you are plainly not Irish.

You say that you are a different race.

So, the Irish race don't want you-a convicted criminal-you have nothing to do with them. Why should they keep you?

Let's do a DNA test on you. The result of that will determine where you are fucking back off to-the land of your ancestors, whether that be in the depth of the Amazonian Basin or the top of a Transylvanian mountain. Your blood, your race, will decide.

if they don't want you, bar the gates against you, then you can sail the seven seas in a barrel if no ship will take you. Bon Voyage!

Off you fuck-stop being an incubus in Ireland.

However, if the DNA test shows that your blood, your race, is the exact same as every other Irish people then you will be jailed in Ireland.

But that will be enough of the bollocks of calling yourself a different race.

This can also be applied to English travellers.

If you are a different race, prove it.

OK, I can't say I understood all that completely. But my question was - given lots of different ethnicities still have British citizenship, do we differentiate their punishments on the basis of their race/ ethnic group? Or not? Do we deport minorities for crimes that white Brits only get jail time for? Even if the minorities have British citizenship?

Wadsworthy · 23/08/2026 11:38

Bernadinetta · 22/08/2026 19:00

All occupants of both cars have been announced to have died- two police officers and five others, believed to be males in their late teens.

Two police officers killed - that is awful. If these lads want to kill themselves, that’s their stupidity. But to pretty much commit manslaughter is awful.

HoraceCope · 23/08/2026 11:38

The only work would be ripping people off

OneHangryGoldDeer · 23/08/2026 11:39

LydiaJayne · 23/08/2026 11:01

Thankfully I don't think that's the case anymore, killing police officers is a special case now

It was made a case after the killing of PC Harper by Irish travellers.

Which only applied to the driver of the vehicle which dragged him to his death.

Not the other occupants who laughed in court and mocked his family who are still up for early release in a few months but Andy Burnham has pledged to try and stop it.

We'll see if it's successful.

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 11:39

JellySky · 23/08/2026 11:30

Living near the area, you can tell yhese are local lads. The traveller look is common for the area.

"The victims of the A66 crash have been named locally as Michael Ray, Theo Rae and Cole Worthy, although their identities had not been confirmed by police at the time of the report.

Saddington was born and raised in Pallister Park, Middlesbrough, and was brought up by his mother, Alisha Morgan.

Saddington’s aunt Sharon Morgan paid tribute to her nephew on social media following his death.

She said she was heartbroken at losing her beloved nephew and described the unimaginable pain of losing someone so young, loved and full of life.

She said Makai had brought love and happiness into the family and that his memory would stay with them forever, adding that his death had left a space in their hearts that could never be filled.

She ended her tribute by saying her nephew would never be forgotten and asked people to keep the family in their thoughts and prayers as they tried to get through the heartbreaking period, particularly Makai’s mother, Alisha."

Paid tribute Confused. You'd just stfu wouldn’t you and keep your head down in shame.

Pallister park /Brambles farm though. Makes traveler sites seem beacons of good behaviour in comparison.

dustabsorber · 23/08/2026 11:41

If travellers want to fight each other; let them take their shirts off and get on with it.

As Phil Lynot said in Boys are Back in Town,

Friday night they'll be dressed to kill
Down at Dino's bar and grill
The drink will flow, and blood will spill
And if the boys wanna fight, you better let 'em

Just leave the rest of us out of it.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 23/08/2026 11:43

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 10:44

I am genuine, and my views on this subject don't come from anything I learnt at school. I'm from a minority community myself. I've never heard of "Social Identity Theory" (not sure if I've missed your point/ if that was a joke). I really am genuine, and what I've read on the thread makes it, in my view, very much the place to give a different perspective on minority cultures. Especially as it turns out the boys aren't even travellers.

Your perspective still seems to be
-it’s not their fault because..
other people are racist
other people don’t understand them
other people are mean
therefore if these delightful scamps kill them, they are just as to blame?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/08/2026 11:43

YourAmplePlumPoster · 23/08/2026 10:45

I used to teach literacy to Irish travellers in a YOI. There were whole families of cousins and brothers in there. They absolutely think the norms of society don't apply to them. They had never gone to school which was why they couldn't read. Even so, they were reading within a couple of weeks with one to one tuition.

What year was this? It is the law in Ireland that all children must attend school. If you wish to homeschool you have to be approved by social services for an assessment and the board of education. They’d never assess a traveller as eligible for home education under 15.
My daughter is sitting her leaving certificate, there is at least 10 travellers in her school year. The children allowance payment is also connected to the child in school, so without school stamp, you won’t get a payment.
Most Irish travellers attend school.

BlushingBrightly · 23/08/2026 11:43

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 11:36

You dislike the word thug? Well i dislike thugs who drive down the wrong side of the road killing people.

What would you prefer? Scrotes, toerags? Or maybe misunderstood lovable rascals as the family seem to portraying them?

Thug is actually polite. I know what I'd rather call them.

What's the problem with the word 'thug'?

@Puffinsandcoffee or any other poster, I asked if anyone had a link to support the assertion now being made that these lads were not travellers. Please point it out if it's been posted and I missed it.

Somethinggg · 23/08/2026 11:44

ThisPoisedGoldGuide · 23/08/2026 09:12

In addition, no doubt Cleveland Police officers will be expected this week to attend these balloon releases as there will inevitably be a public order issue with bikes/quads etc. This anti social behaviour is just completely ingrained here, I've got no idea how you would actually go about stopping it.

TBF if the police attend with facial recognition technology it could be quite a fruitful day for them.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 23/08/2026 11:45

Somethinggg · 23/08/2026 11:44

TBF if the police attend with facial recognition technology it could be quite a fruitful day for them.

Not if their delightful family “honour” them by wearing face coverings..

OneHangryGoldDeer · 23/08/2026 11:46

JudgeJ · 23/08/2026 11:02

Why should they get 1 to 1 tuition when they refuse to accept the education available? If they want 1 to 1 tution they should pay for it, no council should have to pander to their wants. If they want to take their children out of school then they either pay to get them educated or they're prosecuted, just like the rest of the population, they're not special. There would be more money for all children in schools if councils stopped wasting it on 'cultural' choices.

That OP was teaching literacy in a YOI - young offenders institution. A prison for children 15-17 and young adults 18-21.

Under 18s are legally entitled and obliged to have some education in prison. They can refuse and many do but for many, it's their first opportunity to receive education and learn. Even just basic literacy.

Over 18s can refuse too but most don't. Even if it's just to get out of their cells.

It's not paid for by councils.

kierenthecommunity · 23/08/2026 11:48

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/08/2026 11:01

I am sure she is very vulnerable. Travelling people murder each other at an alarming rate. They are less the 1% of the population in Ireland now, there ancestors would be ashamed of the vicious feuds, the sharp weapons.

I am sure most of the teenagers in these groups of car thieves are neglected, no home comforts, taught to steal as a young child, violence and addiction, They’re all from run down areas, where if the want a new coat they’ll have to sell a few bags of weed or steal for it.

I have no idea if she or the young man are travellers. But by vulnerable I meant she reads as being lonely, she possibly thought a baby could plug that gap and picked the worse kind of young man to conceive with. One who no doubt bragged about being a father and ‘my son’ for five minutes then did eff all to help raise him

And now she is getting abuse for that decision.

She presents as loving her baby a lot but is pretty much still alone to care for him

HarshbutTrue2 · 23/08/2026 11:50

I didnt know that PC Andrew Harpers killers were from the travelling community. It does make sense though.

The coverage of them leaving court at the original trial showed that they were obviously of low intelligence. There is a strong correlation between low intelligence/ poor education and criminality.

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 11:50

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 23/08/2026 11:43

Your perspective still seems to be
-it’s not their fault because..
other people are racist
other people don’t understand them
other people are mean
therefore if these delightful scamps kill them, they are just as to blame?

No that's definitely not my perspective. It is their fault they died and that the police died too.

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 11:52

BlushingBrightly · 23/08/2026 11:43

What's the problem with the word 'thug'?

@Puffinsandcoffee or any other poster, I asked if anyone had a link to support the assertion now being made that these lads were not travellers. Please point it out if it's been posted and I missed it.

I don't have any links that prove they're not travellers. I have no idea if they're travellers or not.

I dislike the word "thug" because it lacks nuance. It's reductive and doesn't tell us anything about the details / degrees of criminality etc.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/08/2026 11:52

OneHangryGoldDeer · 23/08/2026 11:46

That OP was teaching literacy in a YOI - young offenders institution. A prison for children 15-17 and young adults 18-21.

Under 18s are legally entitled and obliged to have some education in prison. They can refuse and many do but for many, it's their first opportunity to receive education and learn. Even just basic literacy.

Over 18s can refuse too but most don't. Even if it's just to get out of their cells.

It's not paid for by councils.

That’s heartbreaking.
Obviously it is their choice to steal a car but otoh did they ever have a chance.
I grew up in a very working class area. I’d have loved to see big business offer work experience to the youths in school to make them see there is more to work experience than sweeping the local salons hair up.
I didn’t know fancy jobs existed as a teenager. Things are changing, opportunities are growing but it’s still tough when they do graduate without any internships etc.

kierenthecommunity · 23/08/2026 11:54

All five now have individual balloon releases, one with fireworks and smoke cannons too.

They were all mates surely one for them all would suffice if it has to be done

Æthelred · 23/08/2026 11:55

Somethinggg · 23/08/2026 11:44

TBF if the police attend with facial recognition technology it could be quite a fruitful day for them.

It would be great if police officers from other forces could volunteer some time when the funerals of all seven deceased take place - for slightly different reasons.

For the police funerals, it would mean that Cleveland officers could mourn their colleagues and for the other funerals, they can seize all the quad bikes - every single one.

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 11:57

kierenthecommunity · 23/08/2026 11:54

All five now have individual balloon releases, one with fireworks and smoke cannons too.

They were all mates surely one for them all would suffice if it has to be done

If only mass balloon releases were illegal. Wouldn't it be great if their stupid event was spoilt.

Umbilicat · 23/08/2026 11:57

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/08/2026 11:52

That’s heartbreaking.
Obviously it is their choice to steal a car but otoh did they ever have a chance.
I grew up in a very working class area. I’d have loved to see big business offer work experience to the youths in school to make them see there is more to work experience than sweeping the local salons hair up.
I didn’t know fancy jobs existed as a teenager. Things are changing, opportunities are growing but it’s still tough when they do graduate without any internships etc.

They had many chances to get an education but their community doesn't prize and indeed despises education. So their access to "fancy" jobs was blocked from the start because of their own families' values.

Not everyone can get a fancy job. That is just life. People have to do the less fancy jobs such as sweeping up hair in salons. What realistically can a big business offer a teenager with no qualifications or skills beyond making coffees and sweeping up? They can't let them loose on their customers or spreadsheets

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