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I should've coughed up for a Mumsnet subscription ages ago

177 replies

GarlicAnything · 22/08/2026 14:11

Having suffered the umpteenth browser memory failure of the day and reached meltdown point with pages jumping all over the place due to my ad blocker - I've subscribed 🥳 Thirty quid a year for a seamless Mumsnet experience.

I've only been a subscriber for 20 minutes or so, and my stress level has already halved! It's cheaper than Netflix, and I spend more time on here tbh.

OP posts:
Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 23/08/2026 11:37

Yes I subscribe because the ads made MN unusable on my old phone, I was constantly accidentally opening ads. And not enough storage memory to download an adblocker even if I'd wanted to.

Even with a newer phone with a much bigger memory I've carried on paying because I think if I use something I should pay for it. Like the BBC, I listen to the radio everyday so I pay for it.

I can't really get my head round people wanting everything for free, maybe it's how I was brought up?

nomas · 23/08/2026 12:21

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 23/08/2026 11:37

Yes I subscribe because the ads made MN unusable on my old phone, I was constantly accidentally opening ads. And not enough storage memory to download an adblocker even if I'd wanted to.

Even with a newer phone with a much bigger memory I've carried on paying because I think if I use something I should pay for it. Like the BBC, I listen to the radio everyday so I pay for it.

I can't really get my head round people wanting everything for free, maybe it's how I was brought up?

It’s not for free though? I don’t have an adblocker so MN makes money from my ad impressions.

OutOfTheOtherSide · 23/08/2026 12:30

WendyHoused · 23/08/2026 11:30

Because instead of bending to the demands of activists, bullies and institutionally captured advertisers, Mumsnet provided a platform for feminists to discuss women's rights, exchange ideas and data, and to organise. It can't have been easy, but it was absolutely vital for women's rights.

Without Mumsnet there's no For Women Scotland. No Supreme Court ruling. Countless local campaigns and networks found each other here. Sarah Petersen's excellent book charts the rise of grass routes feminism via Mumsnet.

For that reason alone they are worth my couple of quid a month.

Lolz at you seeing mumsnet as some kind of hotbed of morality. But, back on thread, you don't need subscription for that.

BunnyLake · 23/08/2026 13:06

6ate9 · 23/08/2026 11:04

I won’t ’cough up’ and give mumsnet money to go ad free!

Me neither 😂

BoredZelda · 23/08/2026 13:29

What a strange way to admit you have paid for something that was so easily fixable for free.

BoredZelda · 23/08/2026 13:31

WendyHoused · 23/08/2026 11:30

Because instead of bending to the demands of activists, bullies and institutionally captured advertisers, Mumsnet provided a platform for feminists to discuss women's rights, exchange ideas and data, and to organise. It can't have been easy, but it was absolutely vital for women's rights.

Without Mumsnet there's no For Women Scotland. No Supreme Court ruling. Countless local campaigns and networks found each other here. Sarah Petersen's excellent book charts the rise of grass routes feminism via Mumsnet.

For that reason alone they are worth my couple of quid a month.

“No Supreme Court ruling” 😂😂😂

Walter Mitty has entered the chat.

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:32

BunnyLake · 23/08/2026 13:06

Me neither 😂

Especially when it’s totally pointless

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:34

WendyHoused · 23/08/2026 11:30

Because instead of bending to the demands of activists, bullies and institutionally captured advertisers, Mumsnet provided a platform for feminists to discuss women's rights, exchange ideas and data, and to organise. It can't have been easy, but it was absolutely vital for women's rights.

Without Mumsnet there's no For Women Scotland. No Supreme Court ruling. Countless local campaigns and networks found each other here. Sarah Petersen's excellent book charts the rise of grass routes feminism via Mumsnet.

For that reason alone they are worth my couple of quid a month.

Woah @WendyHoused that is some serious love you have for MN!!

FlirtsWithRhinos · 23/08/2026 13:35

Sunshineandrainbow · 23/08/2026 11:02

Have to tried to get this rectified?

Yeah, it's quite easy on the MN side but for some very dull tech reasons to do with forwarding and spam filters it's a bit of a faff on mine, so I haven't got round it it. The ads don't bother me that much, the main reason I signed up was to help MN have a revenue source that isn't vulnerable to pressure on advertisers.

I subscribe to several newspapers even few I generally dislike for the same reason.

6ate9 · 23/08/2026 13:35

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:34

Woah @WendyHoused that is some serious love you have for MN!!

They sound very passionate about MN!!

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:37

6ate9 · 23/08/2026 13:35

They sound very passionate about MN!!

Scarily so!

Igmum · 23/08/2026 13:37

I’m a subscriber. I’m on here a lot and I really appreciate Justine standing up for women and giving us a place to talk freely when no-one else would. Worth every penny.

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:38

Igmum · 23/08/2026 13:37

I’m a subscriber. I’m on here a lot and I really appreciate Justine standing up for women and giving us a place to talk freely when no-one else would. Worth every penny.

Good grief you make us sound like Mary and the inn keeper

6ate9 · 23/08/2026 13:38

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:37

Scarily so!

Cult like!

Igmum · 23/08/2026 13:40

BoredZelda · 23/08/2026 13:31

“No Supreme Court ruling” 😂😂😂

Walter Mitty has entered the chat.

The women from FWS met on Mumsnet. Discussion everywhere else was absolutely shut down - and even here it was very heavily moderated. @WendyHousedis absolutely right. I think it’s a small price to pay for freedom of speech and women’s rights.

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:41

Igmum · 23/08/2026 13:40

The women from FWS met on Mumsnet. Discussion everywhere else was absolutely shut down - and even here it was very heavily moderated. @WendyHousedis absolutely right. I think it’s a small price to pay for freedom of speech and women’s rights.

I am a woman
I just don’t relate to this at all
I don’t need Mumsnet to exercise my freedom of speech

6ate9 · 23/08/2026 13:42

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:41

I am a woman
I just don’t relate to this at all
I don’t need Mumsnet to exercise my freedom of speech

This! I am a woman too!

RoseField1 · 23/08/2026 13:42

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:41

I am a woman
I just don’t relate to this at all
I don’t need Mumsnet to exercise my freedom of speech

This was ten years ago. I don't know if you were interested in discussing issues of gender identity and trans activism online ten years ago but Mumsnet in part made it possible.

WendyHoused · 23/08/2026 13:44

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:34

Woah @WendyHoused that is some serious love you have for MN!!

Why? Like Rhinos, I think a revenue stream that isn't dependent on the whims of advertisers is a good thing.

I feel the same about paying my licence fee, because although there's a lot to dislike about current BBC culture there's a lot it gives back as well.

I don't worship at the altar of Mumsnet but I know that without this space for feminists to communicate, recent battles for women's rights would have been far harder. That's down to the amazing individual women of FWR not a profit-making company, but all credit to Mumsnet for providing a space for those women.

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:56

WendyHoused · 23/08/2026 13:44

Why? Like Rhinos, I think a revenue stream that isn't dependent on the whims of advertisers is a good thing.

I feel the same about paying my licence fee, because although there's a lot to dislike about current BBC culture there's a lot it gives back as well.

I don't worship at the altar of Mumsnet but I know that without this space for feminists to communicate, recent battles for women's rights would have been far harder. That's down to the amazing individual women of FWR not a profit-making company, but all credit to Mumsnet for providing a space for those women.

Why? Reread your post.

It is a love letter to Mumsnet!

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:56

WendyHoused · 23/08/2026 13:44

Why? Like Rhinos, I think a revenue stream that isn't dependent on the whims of advertisers is a good thing.

I feel the same about paying my licence fee, because although there's a lot to dislike about current BBC culture there's a lot it gives back as well.

I don't worship at the altar of Mumsnet but I know that without this space for feminists to communicate, recent battles for women's rights would have been far harder. That's down to the amazing individual women of FWR not a profit-making company, but all credit to Mumsnet for providing a space for those women.

recent battles for women's rights would have been far harder.

what battles?

WendyHoused · 23/08/2026 14:23

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 13:56

recent battles for women's rights would have been far harder.

what battles?

I'm assuming you're being disingenuous. On the slim chance you aren't, I will answer.

The rights enshrined in law by the Equality Act and workplace legislation that anti-woman activists have been misrepresenting and falsely 'advising' public bodies on for 10+ years. Stonewall and Mermaids have been particularly egregious.

Battles like those fought by Maya Forstater, Sonia Appleby, Allison Bailey, Jo Phoenix, For Women Scotland, Sandie Peggie, Darlington Nurses - do you need a longer list?

Women can't organise and resist if we're denied every platform. I'm just a bystander but I appreciate the forum that braver and smarter women used.

So yeah, on the topic of why pay for a subscription, I do it out of appreciation. The lack of ads is a bonus

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 14:32

WendyHoused · 23/08/2026 14:23

I'm assuming you're being disingenuous. On the slim chance you aren't, I will answer.

The rights enshrined in law by the Equality Act and workplace legislation that anti-woman activists have been misrepresenting and falsely 'advising' public bodies on for 10+ years. Stonewall and Mermaids have been particularly egregious.

Battles like those fought by Maya Forstater, Sonia Appleby, Allison Bailey, Jo Phoenix, For Women Scotland, Sandie Peggie, Darlington Nurses - do you need a longer list?

Women can't organise and resist if we're denied every platform. I'm just a bystander but I appreciate the forum that braver and smarter women used.

So yeah, on the topic of why pay for a subscription, I do it out of appreciation. The lack of ads is a bonus

And Mumsnet has led the way in these “battles”?

My point was simply that you obviously are a very very avid mumsnetter

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 14:33

Every time I have ventured in to FWR it’s been dominated by bickering and looooonnnng monologue posts and more bickering. So I have shuffled off!

RoseField1 · 23/08/2026 14:35

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 14:32

And Mumsnet has led the way in these “battles”?

My point was simply that you obviously are a very very avid mumsnetter

Yes it did.