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AIBU to think tatty lampost flags are imposing on communities?

257 replies

Warmlight1 · 22/08/2026 12:42

To think.that people continuing to put up tatty flags on lamposts are imposing on communities?
There are people putting them up again near roads. They hang by a thread eventually causing a clear hazard. It looks disrespectful and costs money to make safe. And the intention looks less and less like they give a fig for anyone especially in diverse places.
Everywhere has a civic hub where flags are flown properly at the proper time.

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LauraNorda · 23/08/2026 10:08

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 09:47

That’s just not true. There is nothing cable tied to lamp posts in Manchester apart from tacky, chavvy, cheap plastic flags that have now gone tatty. The occasional lost cat/dog poster is usually sellotaped on, not cable tied. And nowhere near the extent of the flag shagging nonsense. Its just chavvy and looks tatty. Never mind the impact of all that cheap plastic on local wildlife.

It's probably that prevalent that you just don't see them any more.

FudgeFudy · 23/08/2026 10:11

I do feel sorry for people who don't go in for this sort of thing but who have to live amongst the types who do. It does just look shit and signifies that the area has more than its fair share of knuckle-dragging morons. Where I live is by no means well-to-do but for some reason it seems to have avoided this nonsense for which I am very grateful.

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 10:32

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 09:49

Enjoy your need to worship the flag in private. The rest of us don’t want cheap tat cable tied on public lamp posts like some Temu Nuremburg rally. Its embarrassing.

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Where did I say I worship the flags! Lol! They make a dull roundabout look pretty thats it! Same as I enjoy looking at those wool creations people are making to decorate post boxes.

saveforthat · 23/08/2026 10:33

Warmlight1 · 23/08/2026 09:48

My point was not that makes people racists. But that local councils make democratic decisions about what to spend money on and it is transparent. For example Our local council spends some of the town taxes on flowers. If a council spends money maintaing a roundabout with flags it goes through the books and people can agree disagree, vote accordingly. If it spends the equivalent of 70 pensioners care packages on flags people can vote or not vote for that.
Councils are forced to either maintain flags or leave them tatty, when people force communities to have them on lampposts.

No, not your point. Your posts are quite balanced. @Velumental personally attacked me and called me a racist simply for saying the flags looked good and were well maintained in my town. Their post was subsequently removed.

HelpMeGetThrough · 23/08/2026 10:35

Megifer · 22/08/2026 16:18

We've got a few round here that have been up for ages and they look fine, if a bit frayed.

The rather posh village 5 mins down the road is full of them! Every single lamp post has one, then they've strung up flag bunting along all the shop fronts. Drove through it a few days ago and they all look like theyve been renewed. Its not what id have expected from an achingly affluent area that has at least 3 artisan bread shops, yearly fetes, makers markets and a village society group 😂

Ah, they must be “naice flags”.

Warmlight1 · 23/08/2026 10:58

LauraNorda · 23/08/2026 10:07

Have you reported them to the local council? Or is it just England flags with you?

There seems to be a number of posters trying to put a cross the point of view that people only object to England flags. I would suggest these people own their perspective assertively instead of implying it at people. Perhaps post something like ' I think the objections to flags and other stuff only applys to England flags and that makes people anti patriotic' '
... And of course the answer would be - most probably if it were just the occasional one stuck on a lamp post, as with some advertising or various slogans- no one would be bothered and graffiti would still be handled as graffiti.
Thousands of flags have been systematically ( and illegally) hung from lamp posts and they degrade over time and there's no plan for that. That's the issue. . A side issue is the motivations of those doing it and financing it.

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MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 11:03

RufustheFactualReindeer · 23/08/2026 09:14

Why does the sight of dingy, torn flags flapping from one cable tied corner from half way up a lamppost

the vast vast majority of posters are talking about the above

no love there….and patriots are not painting mini roundabouts with George crosses, no patriot wants to drive over their flag

OK I see your point re tatty tacky ones.

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 11:37

LauraNorda · 23/08/2026 10:08

It's probably that prevalent that you just don't see them any more.

Nope. None. They just aren’t there.

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 11:44

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 10:32

Where did I say I worship the flags! Lol! They make a dull roundabout look pretty thats it! Same as I enjoy looking at those wool creations people are making to decorate post boxes.

Roundabouts are supposed to be dull. Plant some British wildflowers if you find it too boring. Imposing your “patriotism” on others is hardly comparable to someone putting a whimsical post box topper on to celebrate Easter. At least the crocheters remove their creations before they look tatty.

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/08/2026 12:53

Ammandaaa · 22/08/2026 12:56

We have one near us which I think some kids put up. I am tempted to cut it down as I when I see aot of flags I assume the area is a bit downmarket

Same. Its like having a giant banner across the street saying “Brexit Corner”. Naff.

Baldrapunzel · 23/08/2026 12:56

The abuse (physical and verbal) has been directed at those attempting to remove flags illegally hung on lamp posts and telegraph poles.

The group behind the flagging mess are involved in fraud, assault and other criminality.

If people wanted to fly an England or UK flag, why did they wait to do so until encouraged by a group of rascist criminals? Surely they could have put a wee flagpole up in their garden and proudly raised a flag on high days and holidays?

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 13:28

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

This sounds quite threatening. Says absolutely everything about the attitude of the people imposing their flag shagging Temu tat on ordinary communities. Begone.

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 13:52

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 11:44

Roundabouts are supposed to be dull. Plant some British wildflowers if you find it too boring. Imposing your “patriotism” on others is hardly comparable to someone putting a whimsical post box topper on to celebrate Easter. At least the crocheters remove their creations before they look tatty.

I disagree that roundabouts are supposed to look dull! I love looking at ones with lovely flowers etc! I think there should be more features on roundabouts, like roundabout zoo from league of gentleman 😂

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/08/2026 13:59

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

Be thankful its just flags

Instead of what?🫤

Warmlight1 · 23/08/2026 14:24

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

Can you give examples of abuse and vitriol? Bearing in mind they are breaking the law? People have been criticised and intimidated for taking them down it's true.

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CelticSilver · 23/08/2026 14:58

You're right. The tatty flags should be replaced with newer ones.

BermudaRhombus · 23/08/2026 15:12

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

I thought that the flags had nothing to do with immigration and were simply about patriotic people expressing their love of England? At least that’s what we kept being told (quite aggressively) when we queried why people were doing it.

BermudaRhombus · 23/08/2026 15:14

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 13:52

I disagree that roundabouts are supposed to look dull! I love looking at ones with lovely flowers etc! I think there should be more features on roundabouts, like roundabout zoo from league of gentleman 😂

They wouldn’t want a roundabout zoo because a lot of the animals would be “foreign”.

saveforthat · 23/08/2026 15:28

BermudaRhombus · 23/08/2026 15:14

They wouldn’t want a roundabout zoo because a lot of the animals would be “foreign”.

We had a rabbit roundabout where I used to live. A family of wild rabbits had made their home there and kept breeding. It was delightful if a bit distracting. They disappeared eventually, I hope they were OK.

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 15:30

BermudaRhombus · 23/08/2026 15:14

They wouldn’t want a roundabout zoo because a lot of the animals would be “foreign”.

“British roundabouts for British squirrels “.

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 15:43

saveforthat · 23/08/2026 15:28

We had a rabbit roundabout where I used to live. A family of wild rabbits had made their home there and kept breeding. It was delightful if a bit distracting. They disappeared eventually, I hope they were OK.

Amazing! 😍

NotSurveying · 23/08/2026 15:46

CatsAreCool222 · 22/08/2026 21:13

It's a sign you're in a run down area where people have not had the opportunity of education.

Yes. I would never move somewhere with flag-festooned lamp posts and painted roundabouts, however lovingly maintained. I am grateful to live in a bit of London where no flags or graffiti of any political persuasion are on display.

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/08/2026 15:49

Our roundabouts used to have a statue of Our Lady on them. To keep motorists safe.☺️