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Anyone else sad summer is drawing to a close?

209 replies

Summerover2 · 21/08/2026 21:22

I’ve had a great summer - loads of memories with our daughter (3), playing in the garden daily and trips in the sun.

I already feel sad it’s coming to a close - I like the Christmas build up in December but apart from that I really struggle with the grey days and know I’ll be reminiscing loads for summer 😥

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Minasama · 22/08/2026 10:09

Yes! I love the summer, especially being outside in the garden xx

looselegs · 22/08/2026 10:11

Menopausal, sweaty red head here....also allergic to the sun.....moving around the house between fans.....
Loving the cooler weather....

verymerrymummy · 22/08/2026 10:15

Yep - always. I have school age children, and whilst I adore autumn and winter (well, the run up to Christmas) I am in a really fortunate position of being able to be home with my children during the holidays, and as such I love being off with my children in summer; we slow down during the summer, we do some days out, sometimes do a holiday, but just generally potter around and spend time together, be in the garden lots and I treasure that so much. I realise I’m very fortunate though - it’s a privilege to be able to have this time with them and to enjoy it and I know not everyone does. As we approach the end of the holidays, I feel sad, but I also do try to just live in the moment and enjoy each season. Time for the ‘ber months and the excitement that brings!

panomara · 22/08/2026 10:16

5128gap · 22/08/2026 08:09

You are spot on about the passage of time and embracing the seasons.
I'm in my 50s and the years are passing so fast. I think if all the winters I've spent counting down to spring and how daft it seems now to be wishing away your precious life.
I love summer, but most of all I love being alive in the world with my people and all that has to offer whether the sun's shining or not.

That is a lovely post.

I think once you accept that you cannot control much in this life, the next best thing to do is work around it and lean into it with a bit of prep! You are so right about life being about being surrounded by your (our) people no matter when or where, and in my case gratitude for what I've got.

nowhite · 22/08/2026 10:18

I love most of all having my daughter at home for so long. It seems such a long time until another properly long holiday. It makes me feel so sad that we’re soon going back to such a rigorous structure.

catscatscurrantscurrants · 22/08/2026 10:29

I'm usually sad as Autumn approaches and the nights become longer, but this summer was horrible for me with the intense heat; it made me ill and felt like an endurance test. I'm grateful for the cooler weather and the rain this year.

MimiGC · 22/08/2026 10:30

No, I’ve absolutely loathed the hot weather and can’t wait for it to be over.

redboxerclub · 22/08/2026 10:33

Yeah I hate it but you will get all the “autumn is the best season crowd” talking about cosy pumpkin vibes.

I bloody love summer and this one has been spectacularly shit as I have had an emergency op and recovery.

SerafinasGoose · 22/08/2026 10:40

It’s November I can’t bear.

The days are short and dark and getting shorter, and winter solstice and the new waxing of the year are still some way away. Damp and dank prevail.

Give me January any time!

Dullmary · 22/08/2026 10:44

God no. This summer has been unbearable. No escape from the heat, no sleep, it feels like it’s lasted forever. I was on my last nerve at the end of the last heatwave, never been so happy to feel a cool breeze. I’m ready for candles, jumpers, hot water bottles and stew now.

Grapewrath · 22/08/2026 10:51

I live autumn but I absolutely hate anything from November to February. I find it so dark and depressing. I’m not a fan of Christmas in any way shape or form.
I’ve enjoyed this summer, bar the few days of extreme heat

itsallaroundus · 22/08/2026 10:55

Allsizes8to14 · 22/08/2026 08:39

I commented earlier (love summer, hate autumn/winter) and reading all the posts has got me wondering if there’s some personality type bias 🧐 I am extrovert personality type and love that summer brings so much more options - park trips, play dates, days out, BBQs, just more seeing people! Get to see neighbours much more rather than just dashing to the door in the rain etc etc . The thought of lots of time at home, gathering in, hibernating etc does not appeal to my personality type at all but would be perfect for more introvert personality types 🧐 Just a random thought from me!

I think so. I’m definitely an introvert and can’t wait for it to be socially acceptable to go home and get in bed with my kindle rather than everyone expecting you to be out and about all the time!

PumpkinPieFairy · 22/08/2026 11:12

I haven’t enjoyed this summer at all!

Extreme heat and humidity, far too hot to have fair-skinned 1yo DC out in the sun for day trips, garden frizzling to a crisp, curtains shut all day, boiling trains. Worries about climate change, no rain for months, wildfires, farmers struggling.

I miss “normal” summers in the old climate, but I don’t think they’re coming back sadly!

Phineyj · 22/08/2026 12:53

Grapewrath · 22/08/2026 10:51

I live autumn but I absolutely hate anything from November to February. I find it so dark and depressing. I’m not a fan of Christmas in any way shape or form.
I’ve enjoyed this summer, bar the few days of extreme heat

Few days?! We had a period of approx 3 months where we couldn't get the bedrooms below 30 degrees despite solar glass, solar blinds, a decent fan and a humidifier! I also really hope I am correct to use the past tense there!

redboxerclub · 22/08/2026 13:02

itsallaroundus · 22/08/2026 10:55

I think so. I’m definitely an introvert and can’t wait for it to be socially acceptable to go home and get in bed with my kindle rather than everyone expecting you to be out and about all the time!

O I’m an introvert and love summer - sorry but a good theory!!

OneHangryGoldDeer · 22/08/2026 13:05

Nope. I can't wait till it's dark at 4.30pm. Love it.

ginasevern · 22/08/2026 13:23

DallasMajor · 21/08/2026 21:29

Yes, really sorry that the nights are drawing in and it's getting cold.

Not a trendy thing to say on MN, and it doesn't mean I think the droughts and the fires are worth it, or that I don't feel for everyone affected.

But I love the hot summers, the long evenings, and I struggle with winter.

Same here.

Itslikesowhatever · 22/08/2026 13:27

No I’m happy it’s coming to an end I cannot stand summer makes me depressed! I live for autumn and winter.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 22/08/2026 13:35

Netcurtainnelly · 22/08/2026 09:51

Yes all the moaners, will be sorry when it's freezing cold, and dark at 4.30 in a few months. Summers very brief. Winters very long.

Not me, I love the cold and the dark evenings! We're all different.

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 22/08/2026 13:45

BatshitCrazyWoman · 22/08/2026 13:35

Not me, I love the cold and the dark evenings! We're all different.

I can understand you not enjoying the current heat, but what do you like about the dark evenings? To me, they are gloomy and oppressive and they are certainly less safe.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 22/08/2026 13:47

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 22/08/2026 13:45

I can understand you not enjoying the current heat, but what do you like about the dark evenings? To me, they are gloomy and oppressive and they are certainly less safe.

Difficult to say, I just prefer it getting dark early 🤷🏻 I'm loving the fact that it's still pretty dark when I wake up now, too (I'm an early riser).

Justaquestionplease · 22/08/2026 14:40

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 22/08/2026 13:45

I can understand you not enjoying the current heat, but what do you like about the dark evenings? To me, they are gloomy and oppressive and they are certainly less safe.

Agree. I currently leave work in the evening and it's still light...I get home and it's still light. I can enjoy a nice sit down in my garden after work. I feel happy. The traffic is lighter in the summer too

In autumn/winter... It will be dark when I'm still sitting at my desk. I'll leave in the dark and have to walk to my car and battle home in horrible traffic and drive in the dark. I'll get home and won't be able to use my garden. What's to like about this?

Squirrel437 · 22/08/2026 14:46

Nope. Only home for the 5th heatwave this summer and that was more than enough. Back on hols again in 13 weeks too

Hardware252525252525 · 22/08/2026 14:59

I like January the best. Nice and peaceful.

irfgy · 22/08/2026 15:01

I’m in the south east. I’ve found the debilitating heat without air con at home and at work, extremely challenging. I’m glad summer is drawing to a close.

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